Ugly peoples don t care that they are really ugly?

I had to read some of the posts to get a handle on what you're saying here, otherwise I would have taken things differently. Someone who may strike a model agent as physically ugly is capable of having a bright, pure soul. Whereas, the most gorgeous, most striking human on Earth could be pure evil within. Physically beautiful people can have pure souls, too. So to answer your question, do you know if they're ugly... A person's expressions, body language can tell a lot about them and whether or not they are ugly within. So yes. An inner-ugly person is spiritually ugly on the outside.

Hi! In present world I think they know it very well. People are now so dastardly that they are telling you that, no matter how will you feel, and they don't care about that they hurts you. Everybody who is "ugly"( there are no ugly people, everybody is beautiful in his/her own way) has at least once heard some comments about that he/she is ugly! I think there no people who haven't heard such thing about them! And I despise the people, who think they are beautiful and talk to the others, who are not so beautiful like them with neglect. I hate them and avoid them! They are junk for me!

Beauty lies beyond the eyes of the beholder...what maybe ugly for you might not be ugly to the other person.

Wow - this is a very odd post. Either you're really shallow, or high... is how I feel. As far as appearances go - its what you were born with. I think its ridiculous that there are so many plastic surgeons out there for boob jobs and nose jobs and face lifts and eye lifts and tummy tucks and whatever else. I feel that whether other people find you attractive or not, you should feel confident in yourself. Because in the end, its not about what other people think of you that makes the day go by... its those real friendships and lovers that whether you're beautiful/ugly, skinny or fat, are your friends, etc. I do believe the uglier you are on the inside reflects on how people look at you on the outside. I know I've met some INCREDIBLY Gorgous guys... and once I got to know them, they weren't even fun for eye candy anymore. I don't think people that are physicall ugly on the outside b/c ugly on the inside. Its normally the other way around. The ones that are "too hott to trot" and know it, become conceited arrogant a-holes...

Wow, um has anyone told you beauty is in the eye of the beholder? What I find attractive is not what my best friend finds attractive. I will say a person with an ugly personality ( conceited, mean whatever), can make even the most physically beautiful seem like a doo doo filled twinkie (nicest way i could think to say that) they must look good but they are nasty on the inside!

I really don't know how to answer this discussion...I think you need to be clearer in what you are really trying to say because I've read the previous response and almost all of them say that it is an odd discussion or your shallow. As much as possible I tried understanding your discussion. Here goes my answer The word ugly is subjective, meaning it may have different meaning to different people. As to how I understand you were saying that ugly people tends to have a not so good personality because of frustrations. Well I say you could be wrong and you could be right. There are people who think of themselves as ugly and they get frustrated and ends up being a snob or a person that is really difficult to be with, they are usually the narrow minded people and they tend to develop low self esteem. There are also people who others say is ugly but gifted with a golden heart. They don't think of themselves as ugly because they completely believe in themselves and they are usually the people who excels in life because they are positive in everything As to your last question "Do you know somebody who are really ugly?" I have to say I don't any person of that sort because I believe that even the cruelest person in the world has something good inside

No one is ugly. Ugliness in a person is his/her personal property and nobody should condemn a person as ugly. But an angry person is an ugly person. The anger from within will show up in the face which makes a person looks devilish. I too can be an ugly person when am angry.

I don't think anything is bad or ugly, it is only the circumstances that make them appear as such. Its just a vision, a view which is time bound. Nothing lasts for ever whether its beauty or brain.

Hey icesmile~ Who decides who is ugly on the outside? Is there some "Ugly Police"? How do YOU decided who is ugly and who isn't? When I was in school, I think people felt that I was ugly and it stuck with me all my life and I one day realized that I couldn't possibly be ugly if all these boys and men wanted me! Saying and thinking and making someone feel that they are ugly can really affect them for their whole life! I always felt that I was ugly, and I wasn't! Even if someone told me I wasn't I still didn't believe them! That kind of thing stays with someone and can really affect them forever! It really messed me up, that's for sure! Ir left me confused, depressed and made me do things that I don't think I would have done if I really believed in myself!!!!

Hi icesmile, I feel that ugly and beautiful lies in the eyes of the beholder.The other day I came across a couple where thge wife was very average looking and the husband was very handsome. But I was surprised when he said that he feel in love with his wife for her simple looks.When you come to know a person, their looks are never important, it is their overall personality and attitude that counts. I have known some very good looking people who are just egoistic and arrogant and nothing beyond that, so what do you do with such a person? How can one find them interesting? - I have knowmn many ugly people , those with lovely outward appearances and ugly insides - All the best and have a great weekend

I think all the same, different is the way we behave to others. Ugly people do not necessarily ugly inside, and beautiful people do not necessarily beautiful inside.

Being ugly is something very subjective. A person won't be ugly in the eyes of two different people. People who see themselves ugly is because that's their concept of uglyness. Being ugly in the inside and ugly in the inside are things completely unrelated. You can't choose your face (even if you can change it with surgery) but personality is something that you build day by day by yourself.

I think "ugly" is a term invented by todays sociaty ,and yes i'm prety sure people realise when theyr appearence isn't as good as others.

It depends on you on how you characterize a person whether he/she is ugly or not.. As i observed to those ugly outside, they are commonly not ugly inside.Why? Oh come on if they were ugly outside and inside no one will approach to them to be friend..

I know someone who is really ugly. She has a weird genetic disorder which at the time of her birth was unknown, and she was born with 6 and had to be operated. Her eyes slant and her nose is huge. Her parents were so overprotective of her that they spoilt her, and she is 26 but really insecure and childish. She knows she's ugly, and she doesn't act on her personality to counteract. She doesn't put on make up cos she thinks its a sin, doesn't bother taking care of her hair (btw, she has really beautiful blonde curls, which if taken care of would be similar to that of a princess) She has a low self-esteem and thinks everyone hates her. We try to accept her in our group but sometimes her immaturity becomes TOO MUCH on us.

To answer your question, (Do I know somebody really ugly?) well, no because I don't label people as ugly or charming. It is through the heart that one can see rightly what is essential is invisible to the naked eyes.