Go for LOVE- it's FREE !
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
July 4, 2011 12:05am CST
I am talking with a friend in facebook and she is telling about her crush.
She's kind of feeling love whenever she saw her crush.
So I told her...
"okay...go and enjoy the feeling..IT'S FREE TO LOVE HIM" 
Like how you dream..to admire,feel the love is free.
Unless someone will offer you millions to love him/her 
(uhmnn)
I guess not bad huh? (hahahaha)
Kidding aside...love without harming or hurting other people.
Just feel the love and enjoy the feeling.
But...make sure you won't end up crying when you see him with another (hehehe)
[b]Don't take seriously guys...I (just) don't want to spoil my friend who is daydreaming about her crush,let her enjoy what she feels.
The guy is miles away anyway..she admire someone who doesn't even know her (nyayyy)[/b] (*_^)
Like how you dream..to admire,feel the love is free.
Unless someone will offer you millions to love him/her (uhmnn)
I guess not bad huh? (hahahaha)
Kidding aside...love without harming or hurting other people.
Just feel the love and enjoy the feeling.
But...make sure you won't end up crying when you see him with another (hehehe)
[b]Don't take seriously guys...I (just) don't want to spoil my friend who is daydreaming about her crush,let her enjoy what she feels.
The guy is miles away anyway..she admire someone who doesn't even know her (nyayyy)[/b] (*_^)3 people like this
27 responses
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hello jaiho,
Oh maybe she is contented to be like that
Maybe she knows that it will be IMPOSSIBLE
It is true we can LOVE them freely but it can be hurtful if they can't love us back 
Maybe the guy is so lovable that's why your friend is like that
Maybe the guy is so lovable that's why your friend is like that
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
Uh uh..then do not conclude about being loved back,so you will not be hurt.
It's just free to love and nothing more...stick to it love him free if you also been in love with someone who doesn't know you ....do you have any?
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
dear saphy,
I wonder why this girl can't resists cheering each time she saw his photo ...
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
i am feeling the LOVE my friend!
it is nice to once in a while admire a person..for his looks..or just for the way he is.
It is everyone's right to have a crush.. i do have! hahaha ( nobody tells me husband!! )
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
hello jazel,
Oh my dear,I also have crushes,with celebs and singer and handsome guy out there (hehehe)
just like that,crush come and go right..
Don't worry,your hubby won't know that,it's just between you,me and the whole mylot family
Don't worry,your hubby won't know that,it's just between you,me and the whole mylot family@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
CTH,
Usually we admire people who doesn't know us.
I mean,i have a big crush with Nicolas Cage for many years ,also with Richard Gere (hehhe)
they never knew me...so it's safe
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 11
I am very sure for at least once in our life we have such feeling towards others. Admiring someone is okay as the other party should not have to know us exactly. We are the one who feel that kind of feeling and it is up to us to handle it as long as it is not an obsession~ Sounds crazy but that is because the love is free~(^^)
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
Oooooh another love story in the corner. Are you considered crush si fully grown feeling of LOVE, crush is only admiration to someone else.
LOVE is not free. may be free to feel but did you know that love might be give to you pain and joy which is the possible payment of giving or accepting someone else love. Am I too much to define things about love.
Ok, everybody free to feel love and to be love like love to your neighbor, to your dog, to your ambition, to your chatmate, to your friends in FB and many more but all of those are not sure the end result may be bad, pain or joy...
Go for love means your suggesting to allow your feelings to explode...1 person likes this
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
Well,
I don't want to spoil her mood of feeling love.
So i told her...go and love him it's free.
She's so hard headed and I am the kind of person that don't repeat my words again and again.
I've already told her to stopped that dreaming and love the one who loves her but she don't listen.
I don't have the attitude to command or dictate a person...because I also don't want to be dictated.
I can listen to advice but never expect me to follow what you want me to do.
So,if she won't listen...it's up to her,I've done my part... 
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
oh my gosh...can you read?
i said..i've already told her my advice,but she did not listen that is why i said
go...it's free to love
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
What you done from your part, it is suggestion with no surity because of caution.. And what advice you say to her.. Sorry, but I think you still own her a true advice and reminder if she can continue what she feel (which you said go for LOVE).
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@vangie26 (445)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
Good thing there is that she can even daydream having a date with the guy, because as you said, the guy didn't even know her hehe yes, you're right ...just feel the love but make sure she knows how to handle the feeling because it can go deep even if they don't know each other personally and there really is a chance for her to get hurt when she knows that the guy is with another girl. Just give her a moral support :-)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hello vangie,
Actually,I wonder why this girl don't love someone who loves her.
She prefers to love someone who doesn't even know she exists (ahehehe)
She's too picky/choosy ...ugh!!!
that is why I just ride with her fantasy...but yes,she knows how to handle the situation.
I am sure once she found again another lovable guy from somewhere,her attention to the guy who she dreamed of will be snatched by newcomer
thanks for your response and have a great day always
thanks for your response and have a great day always@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
@ jaiho,
If she can only tell to her heart to love someone who loves her and not someone who doesn't know her existence
maybe she is not picky or choosy it's just that this guy has something she loved about 
maybe she is not picky or choosy it's just that this guy has something she loved about 1 person likes this
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
Whaaaattt??? She admires a guy who doesn't even know him,oh my! Haha! How did he know about the guy my friend?
Well,as you said it's free to love so I don't see anything wrong from it,lol! But since the guy doesn't know him,your friends should accept he consequences of him not loving her back,haha! I guess this is just an infatuation my friend not love,hehe!
She admires a guy who doesn't even know him,oh my! Haha! How did he know about the guy my friend?
Well,as you said it's free to love so I don't see anything wrong from it,lol! But since the guy doesn't know him,your friends should accept he consequences of him not loving her back,haha! I guess this is just an infatuation my friend not love,hehe!1 person likes this
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hello cute kid,
I guess she just admired the guy,she found the photo on the net and till then she keeps looking at it and uhmnnn..
I know she knows how to handle herself...
have a great day always
have a great day always 
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
11 Jul 11
Hi jaiho: I honestly know how your friend might feel because this has also happened to me. I have experimented thesedreams about loving someone that don't even know you. Sometimes it's a beautiful feeling but it can hurt too much because it's just a dream,it's not a reality. As long as we can separate dreams from reality I don't think this cann affect her.
ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jul 11
hello Alvaro,
Well,you are right,as long as we knows what's dream and what's reality.
I really wish and hope she knows how to differentiate it from the other (hehehe)
So,you also dream of loving someone that doesn't know you in real huh.
Thanks for your sharing and have a good Monday morning my friend
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
22 Jul 11
Hi Jaiho, You are totally right. Its free to love, admire the person provided you dont disturb or hurt them. Same time, make sure it doesn't make crazy if somthing goes wrong in there. As time passes, your friend would feel it a funny moments of her life. Cheers!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
hello best,
Thanks for your response.
Actually my friends has finally get over with her craziness...hehhe
I mean,she has another crush again and forget the other one (well and good)
She admire someone now,and when found new,then she just shrugged the first person and jump to the next one.
I am sure she is just having some fun admiring cute guys...not bad.
have a great weekend ahead
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
10 Jul 11
99percent of the online dating, and chatting based loves are fail. If there are two true hearts, who have belief and confidence on each other then that love will success.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
hello rameshchow,
She's not into onlinedating.
She only admire someone who doesn't even know her.
The person is not even in her friend's lists.
She just found it from another friend's page and since then on she admire that person.
thanks for the response and have a good day
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 11
Hi sis!
The best thing is she can have that feeling not just to one guy but more than that!(^^)It is okay as long as she is happy with it. Just like you said hope she will not cry and broken heart when she know that guy with someone else. Yet I think she can recover herself faster by looking for another crush!!(^^)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
dear CTH,
Yes dear,she has crushes before.
So,I am sure after sometime she will change her mind the moment she saw another hunk again (hehehe)
She just want to enjoy the feeling now,so i just let her ,not to spoil her day.
I also have crushes like Nicolas Cage,then Richard Gere and...John Cussack hehe.
have a good day sis
@Bannybanzie (1397)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
Yup! You're absolutely right! Enjoy it! Embrace it! The best things in this world are free, and love is one of that. And yeah, just make sure you would take it too bad and too deep.. you know like obsession. But just enjoy every moment of it! Right girl? 
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
hello Banny,
I know my friend is old enough and she can handle herself.
Yah,i've told her about that "obsession" that would surely hurt her if she doesn't know her limitation.
I hope and I am sure she knows about it,she just want to enjoy the feeling
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
@ CTH,
That would surely make her crazy if she falls deeply 
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 Jul 11
She might have got indications from him about his love for her. day dreaming is one of the hobbies which is not costly. It is ok as long as it doesn't affect one's studies or work.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Jul 11
hello ravi,
I am sure it won't affect my friend's studies.
She only admires the person in that photo...nothing else.
have a great weekend ahead
@rambansal (574)
• India
2 Aug 11
Loving someone is never free, it always involve sacrifices as its price. Not only love, every relationship imposes some restrictions on those involved, and make them disciplined. Love imposes the most stringent restrains on the lover and the beloved, without which love has no meaning.
So, darling, don't advise your friend to go lightly on the issue of love. Only those are welcome in this arena who are ready for crucifixion.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Aug 11
hello ram,
I know dear,but my friend is so stubborn that is why I told her to go on
Don't worry I know she's big enough to know what is wrong and what is right or else I am hurting her or giving her pain in her heart.
have a good day
jaiho®
Don't worry I know she's big enough to know what is wrong and what is right or else I am hurting her or giving her pain in her heart.
have a good day
jaiho®
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
Aw, that's quit not good she likes someone who doesn't knew her at all. but at least she's happy. You're a good friend for you really gave support. For sure, she doesn't have mylot account she will probably feel bad if she'll read this one! But i hope she'll found her true love for her to be really happy.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hello clare,
That's the least I can do,to give her support with her day dreaming.
I just wish she will come to love someone in real and not from somewhere out there that never knows she exists.
thanks for your response and have a great day
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hello nurseclare,
Uuuhhmmm.....jaiho's friend used to it sharing those stories of her at mylot
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
jaiho2009: yea right! i hope too and happy MYLOTTNG!
bhabycatch013: really?her friends use to it?that's funny!laughs
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
7 Jul 11
You are right in it being free, I just wonder if it is healthy to continue this in a strong way, or of you think it will pass. It is wonderful to feel love foe someone. The happiness that it fills you with defiantly makes you feel great. Just dont let her stay crushing on this person for so long that it stops her from having a relationship with someone that is reachable!!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
hello lady,
I've been telling her to love someone who loves her,rather than keeping admiring that person who doesn't even know her,but she's too hard headed.
Anyway,she's not a kid anymore and I am sure she can handle herself.
I wish she will stop soon before she hurt herself.
thanks for your response and have a good day
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
8 Jul 11
well nothing wrong having a crush on someone obviously
in fact she can take the chance to tell him
he might add her as friend, chat and then who knows where it leads
true there is a risk that he will play on her feelings
but he can't do that, if she knows when to draw the limit
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
hello Mel,
Yah,she can do that,add the person and start a little conversation with simple hello and who knows.
But she's too shy to do it first.
She's contented looking and staring at the photo..uhmnn,let her.
She's not a kid anymore and I am sure she knows what she is doing.
thanks for the response and have a good day
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
You right, friend. Love someone is free but love the others from faraway is a different story.
I noted that many foreigners in fb especially those from middle east and india are nothing to do in fb but hunting beautiful ladies.
I experience it a days ago. Someone chat with me...and besides he knows I am a male. He always telling me that gender is not a problem with him (yaksss)...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
hello aerous,
Aw,your experience is far different from what my friend is experiencing right now (hehehe)
Well,what did you do then?
Did he asked you for...you know...ewww,that's really bad experience that you have
anyway,nice to see again my dear
anyway,nice to see again my dear 
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
hello Memnon,
Even Love is not free in your place?
that was really sad then my friend.
Can you move to another place where love is free?
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 11
Like that i would day dream about all the hunks in the world. Love is free to love is giving what is given will be taken what is taken will be pay in return.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
hello acrossnation,
That's what my friend say...she's not asking more,but to enjoy the feeling of admiring that someone.
So i tell her "go on it's free to love him" but..i also told her that she must know her limitations,or else she will end up broken hearted.
have a good day
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
it hurts thou seeing your crush with somebody else. Just know your stand for sure it will just pass.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
hello igatiful,
Of course it will hurt,but I am sure my friend knows about it.
That is why i told her to stopped and love someone who loves her in real life.
She can still admire that person,but she need to face the reality too.
thanks for your response and have a good day
