An anecdote for my MyLot friends

@Jenaisle (14079)
Philippines
June 7, 2023 10:34pm CST
There was once a wise guru living in the far-flung barrio of the country. He was known to speak to himself and sometimes to anyone who wants to listen. One day a crowd of young people gathered around and requested him to talk about any topic he wants to. He did not react at first but brought out plates of different designs, colors, and brands. Then he instructed them to choose the plate that they fancy the most. One by one the youth got the plate of their choice. Only one plate was left on the table. It was a simple and old rattan-made plate. “So why did you choose your plates?” the guru asked. “Because it looks classy,” replied one. “I like its incredible design,” said another one. “I like its porcelain finish,” answered another one. “So, you based all your choices on the outside appearance of the plate.” The guru stated sotto voce. “You’re too drawn to the external beauty of things instead of their innate beauty.” “Do you know that all of your choices would eventually break and nothing would be left of it, except for this old, rattan-made plate?” He held up the rattan plate for all to see. “It’s not shiny and good to look at from the outside but its true beauty is innate based on its strength, durability, and usefulness. Next time you choose something, consider first its innate value before its external appearance.” And that my friends, is what I wanted to impart to you today. What are your thoughts on this? Have fun MyLotting. Image credit: ID 30508263 © Aristaz | Dreamstime.com
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@LadyDuck (461940)
• Switzerland
8 Jun
This is something we must keep in mind all the time. External beauty fade, but what we have inside will shine forever.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
Correct, innate beauty lasts forever.
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• Pakistan
8 Jun
In a world where people care a lot about how things look, this story wants us to stop and think. It tells us to look for the good things that are hidden inside, beyond what we can see easily. Just like the plain-looking rattan plate that was actually very strong and useful, people also have special qualities inside them that we should notice and value. When we focus more on what's inside rather than just what's on the outside, we can learn more about others and build stronger connections. We start to appreciate things like their character, ability to bounce back from tough times, and the value they bring to our lives. We learn to see what lasts and matters instead of what is only temporary and not so important. The story wants us to listen to the wise person's advice and change the way we make choices. Let's look past the shiny surface and dig deeper to understand what things and people are really like. When we do this, we can see the true beauty that is hidden inside. By valuing what's inside, we can find happiness, be true to ourselves, and have a deep respect for the many different parts that make up our lives.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
WOW! Awesome Zain, you hit the nail on the head! Very well said. Touché. It's very well explained, I couldn't add anything more. Thank you for enlightening us more on the meaning of this story. I admire how fluent and well-versed you are in the English language and of how profound you think. Thank you again for providing more depth to this discussion.
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@AmbiePam (86277)
• United States
8 Jun
That’s a good thing to remember when choosing a spouse. Although I strongly discourage anyone from telling a prospective spouse that they are “not shiny and good to look at from the outside.” That’s not going to end well for anyone!
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
I agree... It wouldn't end well for everyone. Yes, that's one way of viewing it. As elders in my country would say: "Hindi mo makakain ang kaguwapuhan." (literally translated - You cannot eat handsomeness.) or in other words good looks per se cannot put food on the table.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
8 Jun
That's true we should consider the innate values but usually people don't do the same , it's the outer appearance always that matters
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
Yes, sometimes we give so much value to the outside without considering whether the inside is rotten or not.
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@banksim (5205)
8 Jun
Yes its true workd us fashinated by outerbeauty
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
True, outer beauty is often so hard to ignore.
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@banksim (5205)
8 Jun
@Jenaisle yes no one can ignore outer beauty but we should also try to look for inner beauty
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Jun
I agree with this advice. We should always look past the outward appearances and learn what is going on inside of others. That is how you learn what kind of person they are. Not by only their looks.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
9 Jun
I absolutely agree! Looks can sometimes be misleading.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
9 Jun
@CarolDM I believe so too, based on experience.
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Jun
@Jenaisle Actually it is deceiving more times than not.
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@RebeccasFarm (87035)
• United States
8 Jun
I think it is a load of old codswollop I want the real gold plate.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
9 Jun
yes, here is the gold plate. It has inner and outer value and beauty. gold plate.Image by upklyak on Freepik
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• United States
9 Jun
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• Philippines
8 Jun
That explains the break up and divorce with local and US celebrities now a days. it's all about the external beauty. Yeah that pretty sums up the generation these days.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
Yup, you got a point there. The attachment and not strong because when beauty disappears there's nothing to look forward to.
@wolfgirl569 (97331)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Jun
It is very true. Beauty fades
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
Yes, except inner beauty,
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@RasmaSandra (74633)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jun
Outer beauty is often what attracts someone but sometimes that is all it is a shell and no inner beauty,
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
9 Jun
Yes, outer beauty is often ignored.
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• United States
9 Jun
So very true!!
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
9 Jun
Yup, I believe firmly in this concept.
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@just4him (310128)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Jun
It's a good lesson on what you should value.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
Thank you. it is.
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@just4him (310128)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Jun
@Jenaisle You're welcome.
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@LindaOHio (160320)
• United States
8 Jun
A very correct assessment of beauty and practicality. Have a good day.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
Thank you, have a good day too.
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@LindaOHio (160320)
• United States
8 Jun
@Jenaisle Thank you very much.
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• India
8 Jun
Yup we shouldn't not always look for the outer beauty of a thing
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
Also the inner beauty too.
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• India
8 Jun
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@jstory07 (134797)
• Roseburg, Oregon
8 Jun
The plate is just like people do not judge a person by the way that they look. Judge them by how they are in life. Are they a good person inside and outside.
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@Jenaisle (14079)
• Philippines
8 Jun
Yeah, you're absolutely right. It's just like saying, "Do not a book by its cover."
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