Have you ever donated in someone’s name?

@AmbiePam (86002)
United States
April 29, 2024 2:19pm CST
Some of you might remember my 35 year old cousin died a few weeks ago. I know people send plants, flowers, and often the family leaves a charity for donations to be made in lieu of flowers. I can’t afford flowers, so if they did not indicate where to donate, I find a charity that is associated with something to do with them, and donate in their name. My cousin played the guitar so I found a charity called Guitars 4 Vets that donate music lessons and guitars to vets with PTSD. I also donated to a music foundation he had a heart for, one where varied musician Leon Russell used to record. I didn’t know who that was, but maybe @FourWalls does. I had to look him up. Do you guys ever do that? I like the thought that someone will see his name, and know he existed, even if they never think of him again. And this may be silly, but every time a dog of mine passes away, I make a donation to an animal charity in their name. Just to pass on a little of the love they gave.
18 people like this
16 responses
@TheHorse (207505)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr
Sounds like a good cause! Every little bit helps. I do not think I have donated in someone's name yet. But I have "big plans" for when I die.
3 people like this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
29 Apr
You’ve got 49 more years to go.
3 people like this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
30 Apr
@TheHorse I do have powers.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (207505)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Apr
@AmbiePam You're a palm reader?
1 person likes this
@kaylachan (58971)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
29 Apr
I don't have that kind of money lying around. Medical bills consume most of it. However, I am not against the concept.
2 people like this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
29 Apr
That kind of money? I donated a very small amount. You can donate in in amounts as low as $5. There are very few people on Mylot who can donate anything big.
2 people like this
@kaylachan (58971)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
29 Apr
@AmbiePam It maybe a poor choice of words, but some months I don't even have five dollars to spare. Other months I do pretty well.
3 people like this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
29 Apr
@kaylachan I completely understand that, completely.
2 people like this
@RasmaSandra (74146)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Apr
That is a great idea and a very nice thing to do in a person's remembrance. I have never done that but in our Latvian church way back when my dad passed in 1967 we could choose to have a Sunday service in his remembrance so his name was mentioned in church and mom and I put flowers on the altar,
1 person likes this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
1 May
That sounds beautiful.
1 person likes this
@NJChicaa (116303)
• United States
29 Apr
I don't think I have. If I have I don't remember it. In my dad's obituary my mother asked for donations to be made to the first aid squad who tried to save him on the beach and who transported him to the hospital.
2 people like this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
29 Apr
That’s a heck of a worthy cause.
2 people like this
@LindaOHio (158688)
• United States
30 Apr
Yes, I've donated several times in someone else's name. It's not silly to donate in your dog's name. I think it's sweet. Have a good day.
1 person likes this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
30 Apr
Thank you, Linda.
1 person likes this
@LindaOHio (158688)
• United States
30 Apr
@AmbiePam You're very welcome.
1 person likes this
@dya80dya (34245)
8 May
I think this is a good idea. I usually don't donate because I am on a low income, but I really want to be able to make donations to animals. When my cat was sick people donated and this helped me a lot.
1 person likes this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
8 May
That was really sweet of people to do.
@snowy22315 (171254)
• United States
29 Apr
I think that is a wonderful idea. I am sure your cousin would appreciate it.
1 person likes this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
29 Apr
Thanks, snowy.
@xstitcher (30561)
• Petaluma, California
1 May
Yes, I have. I once donated to the Gideons in my pastor's name.
1 person likes this
@FourWalls (62751)
• United States
29 Apr
Yes, I have. Just this morning I gave to the “help people learn about Leon Russell fund.” (Just kidding!) I participated in the Betty White 100th birthday challenge, and I’ve donated in memory of friends and loved ones.
1 person likes this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
30 Apr
I forgot about the Betty White challenge! What a lady she was.
1 person likes this
@Juliaacv (48642)
• Canada
29 Apr
I do not always send flowers unless it is someone quite close that survives the deceased. I tend to make a donation. I have bought alot of books through the Literary Angels program at the local public library in the city that we used to live near. I always specified what topic to purchase a book in and then when it arrived they put a nice card in the front of the book stating who it was bought in memory for and by whom and when. The family would always be sent a letter regarding this gift in memory of their loved one and then they could go in and see the book before it was loaned out. I had alot of people thank me as this was such a lasting gift, and it was a nice way of giving back to the community.
1 person likes this
@AmbiePam (86002)
• United States
29 Apr
I love that.
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Apr
That was a great idea to donate to the charity Guitars 4 Vets in memory of your cousin. It makes the memory seem more personal.
1 person likes this
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
30 Apr
To simply say, yes, and many, many times. Good for you!
1 person likes this
@jnrdutton (2614)
• United States
2 May
Beautiful that you do that. I haven't but seems like a great thing to start.
1 person likes this
@grenery8 (3088)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
2 May
i am sorry for your loss. i haven't donated in this waybut i think it's very nice
1 person likes this
@kareng (55615)
• United States
30 Apr
I am seeing more and more request to do these kind of donations in lieu of flowers recently. It's actually a very good idea with better results! It's always good to do good!
1 person likes this
@Fleura (29276)
• United Kingdom
29 Apr
That's a nice idea. No I haven't done it though.
1 person likes this