Short story: When trying to be your best self, do not continue in your being your worst self

Never step back into your worst self
@innertalks (21163)
Australia
May 5, 2024 10:51pm CST
The old psychologist, Arthur Flooredfeet, was giving some guidance to one of his patients, Bob Hotfinger, who had been asking him how he could be his best self, at all times. Here was his advice to this patient. "Instead of our trying to be our best self, all that we need to do is to try to stop being our worst self, or living from the negatively directed, ego-driven, desire-driven, self instead." "We should help people to move away from their being of their worst self, rather than helping them to be their best self directly." "What holds you back from your being your best self is your worst self taking top dog spot in your life." "Anyone can be their best self, when they align themselves to God, in a loving and truthful way, but staying misaligned, or distanced, from God allows you to step away from your best self, and you then live in a poor shadow of that best self at best." "When we look in the mirror, we usually strive to be our best self, as we do when a picture is being taken of us too. When we stop being our worst self, our best self then steps forwards, naturally, and then we are it." "If we notice that others are keeping us being our worst self in their company, we need to step up past this dragging down, and be our best self, despite what others are trying to make of us too." "Do not give in to evil influencers, or influences, but stay close to God, to truth, and to what is right, and correct, in your life, for you to live best, as your best self, for God, and for yourself too." "Instead of our trying to be good at being ourselves, just by ourselves, from our own actions, as what we think is us being our best self, we need to try to drop away our worst selves clothing from us first, and put on the pure clothes that God provides to us." "Then, and only then, we will live good clean lives for God, living pristinely as our best self, as God built it in us for us to be." Bob took some of this advice from his psychologist, on board, and he stopped trying to be what he thought was best for him, cleaned up his bad habits, and wayward ways, and prayed hard to God, to reveal in him his best self to him, and so over time, his life improved, and he lived it then for God, rather than just for himself. Bob's best self came out from him to live as him, in connection with God, and who God wanted him to be in his life. Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com Never step back into your worst self, self, in the company of others. Always try to remain your best self at all times.
5 people like this
4 responses
@just4him (308693)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 May
I disagree with the beginning response of the old psychologist. However, I agree with the final thoughts of living for God and allowing Him to bring out the best in him as he lives for God and puts away the old self.
2 people like this
@just4him (308693)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 May
@innertalks I totally agree.
2 people like this
@innertalks (21163)
• Australia
6 May
Some people go to church, thinking that by doing this, they are lifting themselves into being their best self, but when they leave the church, they go back to following their bad habits again. They keep holding onto the being of their worst selves. To achieve real improvements with God, in our lives, we cannot be two faced like this, l think. We need to drop our bad habits, and stop wanting to keep them, thinking it doesn't matter, as after all, we are going to Church, every Sunday. We cannot be our best self, when we hang onto also being our worst self. We cannot be our best self, if we try to be our own idea of our best self. We need to embrace who God created us to be, to be our best self for God. We cannot be our best self on our own.
2 people like this
@Kandae11 (53769)
6 May
Very good points.
2 people like this
@innertalks (21163)
• Australia
6 May
Thanks. I am pleased you agreed with my ideas.
2 people like this
@jstory07 (135148)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 May
SAy good by to your bad self and try to be good in everything that you do.
2 people like this
@innertalks (21163)
• Australia
6 May
Yes, we need to step away from our bad self, and its bad ways, to try to better ourselves. As, we can never walk two paths, at the same time. We cannot have our bad self, and still be our good self. We need to drop the ways of this bad self.
2 people like this
@Shiva49 (26245)
• Singapore
6 May
We fall into a trap to keep up with the Joneses and are swept away from God and upright living. The image is apt as one is willing to stand even to join the company to while away his time. I have developed warning signs when I stray, which helps me stay the course.
1 person likes this
@innertalks (21163)
• Australia
6 May
Yes, thanks, siva. We all need such warning signs. A life spent in idle frittering, is not one where we remember our rightful place in God's world, and so to live our life valuable alive for God. "Never forget what you need to remember." Garrett Bartley We should never forget who we really are, to live a lower lazily idle form of life. We need to live upwardly inspired lives with the source of life in us sustaining our efforts, and helping us to be all that we can be for God too.
1 person likes this
@Shiva49 (26245)
• Singapore
7 May
@innertalks We need to have positive takeaways when we leave this blessed place. We should never sever our inborn connection with our creator wantonly.
1 person likes this
@innertalks (21163)
• Australia
7 May
@Shiva49 "Human history is the sad result of each one looking out for himself." Julio Cortazar. When we only look out for ourselves, we sever our inborn connection with our creator.
1 person likes this