That Reminder Weekend Here

@Dena91 (15934)
United States
May 8, 2024 11:45am CST
Anna Jarvis of Philadelphia wanted a way to recognize her mother for all that she had done in the city, organizing women groups which promoted friendships among women. At her mother's funeral in May 1907 in West Viriginia, she came up with the idea of Mother's Day. Within 5 years, almost all of the states began to recognize the 2nd Sunday in May as Mother's Day. In 1914 President Woodrow Wilson made it a national holiday. In the Old Testament, God placed honoring our parents as one of the 10 Commandments. "Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee." Exodus 20:12 In the New Testament the apostle Paul reminds us of what God had commanded, "Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; 3 That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth." Ephesians 6:2-3 I believe we ought to give honor to our parents, whether good or bad. If you have followed me any length of time on here, you know that I come from a very dysfunctional family. Our, I have an older brother, mother did not want us and made that clear. When we became adults, we both attempted to be a part of her life, but she still didn't want anything to do with us. So, we both stopped communicating with her, as she wished. I do struggle very much with this one holiday because I never had the type of relationship with my mother as many of you have, loving and warm. But I still love her and honor her by praying for her. I hope that if you had a good mom, you would spend time with her if you are able to this weekend. Just remember that not all of us have that special bond between mother and child and this holiday is very difficult to get through. The image is from google and reminds us why some don't like this day. It brings back painful memories.
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@snowy22315 (171260)
• United States
8 May
whether they were good, bad or somewhere in between they cared for us, kept us alive and loved us in their own ways. I am sorry you had a painful relationship with your mom, but few of us have an ideal relationship. It is something to be managed.
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@dya80dya (34246)
8 May
Should we honour our parents if they are abusive?
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@vandana7 (99122)
• India
8 May
My father has been pretty abusive. To an extent, I feel, I am too, because of him being that role model. Nevertheless, I feel, when the day of judgement comes, I will be judged based on duties assigned to me. Judging him is god's job.
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@Dena91 (15934)
• United States
9 May
@dya80dya My mother was extremely abusive towards my brother and myself, physically, mentally and verbally. I do honor her by abiding by her wishes and staying away from her. Honoring someone does not mean you have to be in their life, if they don't want you to be. And their actions will be clear to you if they want you or not. Also, you can honor them by praying for them.
@xstitcher (30561)
• Petaluma, California
9 May
I miss my mother, and certainly will on Mother's day. Sadly, many parents nowadays let their children get away with too much, and children are not taught respect or honor for their parents (or any adult).
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@Tampa_girl7 (49284)
• United States
8 May
I miss mine very much. I’m sorry that you haven’t had the relationship with yours that you wanted. You are doing the best you can by praying for her.
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@JudyEv (326726)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 May
Certainly this was a wonderful idea of Anna's. It's Mother's Day in Australia but not in Ireland. However, my son will ring as he has 'our' Mother's Day programmed into his phone to remind him. I usually get a call on the Irish Mother's Day too.
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@Ronrybs (17957)
• London, England
8 May
I'd heard there was a language of flowers, but this is the only explanation I've seen
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@kaylachan (58971)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 May
When my mother was alive, we were fairly close. I took her passing harder than my father, who passed a year and a half later. So, for me, it's another Sunday.
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