Both sexes lie about their physical appearances and bodies...true or false?

@kbkbooks (7022)
Canada
January 15, 2007 2:52pm CST
Men and women both lie about their bodies when trying to impress people. I hold that this is true. Men have been lying for years, we all know that. Now that you can make up a sort of relationship online, women can lie about their bodies. No one can see you, unless you choose to show them on webcam. With a photo, well, you can send a fake photo...I know that has been done to me...by another woman...we were only casual girlfriends online, and I don't know why she chose to send me the fake picture. I just know that when I met her, it wasn't the girl in the picture.
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@jewel76 (2305)
• Canada
16 Jan 07
A lot of people do that. I have never done that though, I don't think it's right, because if you end up meeting the person after, you look like the idiot who sent the fake picture, and it tells the other person that maybe you're not trustworthy after all. I think a lot of women lie because they feel they need to stand up to society's picture of the "perfect woman". Men lie also for low self esteem, or for trying to impress woman. I once did a test: I did two profiles, without pictures, on this dating website. The first one was my real one, describing me as I am (brown hair, hazel eyes, a little overweight, etc.) the second one was of the "perfect woman" (blonde, blue eyes, slim, busty, etc.) My original profile got like 5 replies in a week...sadly, but truly, the fake profile of the perfect woman got over 50 replies in that same week... I was astounded to see that men really do prefer looks over personality, brains and just plain beauty.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
17 Jan 07
Doesn't that just reek? I am sure you are not the only woman who has done this kind of test, and it proves what we know... most people really are more shallow when it comes right down to it.
@Dena33 (1533)
• Finland
16 Jan 07
Yes I agree, unluckily it happens.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
17 Jan 07
It's unlucky that people cannot be honest.
@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I'm not sure if everyone lies about their bodies or appearances or not, but I know that I don't. I just don't see the point. Either you like me or you don't. That's all there is to it! I'm not looking for a boyfriend (I'm already married) and if a girl would lie to me about what she looks like why would I want her to be my friend? If she lies about that wouldn't she lie about other things too?
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
16 Jan 07
Well, I know I think men lie about at least some things all of the time. I think probably women too, no matter how honest we all claim to be.
@82idiots (595)
• United States
15 Jan 07
That's human nature! We wanna be the best even when we know we're not. Sad people can't accept themselves!
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
16 Jan 07
Isn't that the truth?