joy4you

@joy4you (641)

India • Age 43

Joined myLot 16 years ago

No rain, no rainbow...

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joy4you liked this • 6 Feb 10

Trying to deal with depression and everyday life!!

lola1981 @lola1981 (102) • United States 3 Feb 10

I've been battling this disease for about 5yrs now and i've lost friends, well if they were trully friends they would have been supportive and not jugdemental, i've lost jobs cause the environments I worked in were filled with...

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vanny I'd be lying if I said I knew what depression felt like. I've felt dejected, and hopeless, but my nature is a bit - never say die type. So I manage to be up always. I am lucky as well, I get good friends coming into my life right at the time I need them. :)...

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joy4you liked this • 27 Nov 08

men are tricky!

misscarin1983 @misscarin1983 (81) • Canada 27 Nov 08

In the begining of a relationship they open car doors for you,insist on paying for everything,then you move in together and the romance is there for a while,then it gets taken out with the trash!

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Undertheoath Men are very simplistic actually. We usually go out of our way for the woman in our relationships. Personally, I am continually courteous as long as I receive the same respect back. Men sometimes hold women on a higher pedestal rather than as an equal and this...

27 Nov 08

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joy4you liked this • 16 Nov 08

Trying to forget my love. Advice needed....

vijay1wdv @vijay1wdv (357) • India 15 Nov 08

Hi Freinds, I loved a girl for a couple of years and she loved me equally. Now, in my girl's house they keep forcing her to marry someone of their choice. She tried as far as she can to convince them explaining our love. They...

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ladygator Oh wow, that is terrible. I am also sad to say that since it was a forced separation then it may be very hard to really give up on her and stop loving her. So with that being a possibility maybe the two of you can run away together? Would she be up for that? I...

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joy4you liked this • 24 Sep 08

Do you go to bed together?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28717) • United States 24 Sep 08

It's funny how sometimes we take things in our relationship for granted. I was doing a search on the internet for ways to improve my relationship (which is already pretty good and strong btw) when I came across a set of tips. The...

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katsmeow1213 I actually didn't stay on the site for long because none of the tips pertained to me. They were all things like show respect, be affectionate, etc etc. Nothing really mind blowing. But if you'd like something... I came across this site the other day, and...

24 Sep 08

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joy4you liked this • 8 Sep 08

Is it the thought that counts or do actions speak louder than words?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 8 Sep 08

Is it alright if your partner knows you love them but you don't express it physically (atleast not all the time) or would you prefer your partner always buying gifts for you or doing something special all the time but never really...

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spalladino I think that when you're in a relationship for awhile you come up with ways to express your love that are comfortable to both of you. My husband and I have a routine of ending phone calls with "I love you" and we tell each other that before we go to sleep at...

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joy4you liked this • 8 Sep 08

How do you know if it is love or lust?

sharie16 @sharie16 (2212) • Philippines 8 Sep 08

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jessica4red well, i don't think that love without lust can really exist.lust without love does.if you want to know what your feelings about someone are, you should let time decide.love&lust will make your life brighter.if you only feel lust, you will have enough feeling...

8 Sep 08

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joy4you liked this • 7 Sep 08

Realities of moving on...

alecz23 @alecz23 (486) • Philippines 3 Sep 08

How long does it take for you to move on or forget the past? Does it depend on how much do you love the person? Do you just let time heals all wounds? Does it left a scar? Do you easily date or socialize to forget and get...

moveon

procrastinate

reality

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pink_bunny How long...let me see. I guess it will all depend on how close I was to the person concerned and how intense our relationship was. Nonetheless, I believe that when its time to move on, you should, no matter how hard its gonna be. I do socialize straight away...

7 Sep 08

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joy4you liked this • 7 Sep 08

My Approach to Life is Positive thinking

sweethomecatring @sweethomecatring (1563) • India 7 Sep 08

I have right now seen a discussion in this very interest that think you are laying on the bed straying at the blank wall and imagine of all miseries of life. For me life is precious venture created by the almighty and given us to...

approach

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James72 Very well stated and I could not agree more! Although it can sometimes be hard we owe it to ourselves to think and act positively. It is not just for ourselves but for the benfit of those around us as well. We get back in life what we put out and it is next to...

7 Sep 08

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joy4you liked this • 7 Sep 08

can you control your temper in any situation?

annjilena @annjilena (5618) • United States 2 Sep 08

remember a burst of temper can grow like a firecracker if you want to avoid it learn to keep hot situation under control.

fammily

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divinchris I can control my temper.The best way to do say is to love nature,look at the green surroundings around you and that will teach you how to be at peace even at times of anger and frustration.Think twice before making any false decision that could hurt you even...

7 Sep 08

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joy4you liked this • 5 Sep 08

Why shouldn't men cry?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 4 Sep 08

What really is wrong with crying? Why shouldn't men and women cry? It does a person a world of good to get something off his chest through crying. It is a way, and an effective way, of releasing inner disatisfactions, frustrations...

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