Do you want to give him/her a chance?

I don't think i could forgive that. it would just hurt to much to be betrayed that way. The relationship would never be the same again. I know how i am, i would bring it up all the time, he would never live it down.He would be a constant argument and I would think about it always.

it is complex for me~~ actually, i think i can not image that he will betray me ~ but if he betray me anyway, i can not accepct it ~~ i think can forgive every thing but i will leave him~ i will be hurt deeply~

maybe I will give him one chance,only one,no second.because his disloyaty maybe misguided by others,so I will forgive him one time.but I heared of some words like this"family violence can be an addiction,so can disloyaty.so do not give him more chance,only one.

if it was me no if they hurt me and we were married obv dont mean that much to them if they need to hurt me so i would not forgive i would leave plenty more guys/girls out there and the right person will come along

I would give him second chance but that would be the last chance just to save my marriage...If he still loves me and is serious about our relationship then he wouldn't let me down....If he has not changed then that would be the end of relationship....

I don't believe in giving a second chance for a cheating spouse. I had been there. I gave my husband another chance to change just to save our marriage but he still kept on cheating me after forgiving him. I guess, a cheater will always be a cheater. As they say, "Relationships are like glass. Better leave them broken than trying to mend them again". Trust and respect are important in every relationship. Once it's broken, it's hard to love your spouse again. You're just going to hurt yourself more. So, better end the marriage than trying to save it.