would you want to know about your boyfriend or girlfriends first love??

I DEFINITELY wanna know! I'm a very INTENSE person, who LOVES 2 delve DEEPLY into a person's soul, so I wanna know EVERYTHING about my mate, and I'll tell them ALL of my history as well! I think it helps the intimacy of the relationship. I have nothing 2 hide, and hopefully, the woman doesn't either! I'm just all about OPEN and HONEST communication, about any and EVERYTHING! NO topic is "off limits" 2 me, no matter how "taboo", politicially INCORRECT, or uncomfortable! My Venus (the planet of LOVE) is in Scorpio, and Scorpios love 2 delve deeply! And, being a Libra sun sign, I love being IN a relationship! I can't deal with a person if we only discuss "surface" topics, or if they're AFRAID 2 tackle topics like this 1! I not only wanna know about their 1st love, but ALL of their "loves"! Who a person selects tells u ALOT about them! It's like that old saying: if u wanna KNOW a person, check out their FRIENDS! I say that their past "loves" tell the story even MORE! I know alot of people get jealous hearing about a mate's past, but I wanna know, and as long as they're truly OVER any past relationships, I don't feel that there's anything 2 worry about. We ALL have a past, so I don't trip on it. And since I go 2 the DEPTHS with a woman, I don't mind graphic details either! I'm just a VERY CURIOUS person!

hi gorgeous, my husband and i before we got married we talked about our past relationships. talked who our first love was, our feelings for them. it was very important to me because i'm marrying a guy who had so many women in his life before i met him. learning from the exprience of my mom who married a notorious womanizer i became very cautious in choosing the man i would spend the rest of my life with. i'm glad that we had that talked because i think that help us build our life now. now we even joke about our past relationships.

i would not want to know i can not stand when my bf talks about his ef wife or any other exs

i personally would not have a problem with it. i am not the jealous type. i see it this way , he is with me now so the past is the past. but if he wants to share that with me i am ok with it. i don;t want him talking about her all the time,but if shared it with me i am ok with that

If it's something she wanted to share for some reason, I would listen. As long as she is not making a comparison between him & I. I don't have a problem with it. Lord knows, I have enough X-girlfriends I can bring up if need be ...LMAO! ... Luv ya 34Momma:-)

I never want to hear anything about that matter because i can't stand to take it....

Wouldn't interest me at all, if they volunteered the information, I would listen and accept it's part of their past, as long as they are not obsessed by them obviously, but I certainly wouldn't probe or ask, past is past and that is where it should stay.

Maybe the reasons for them breaking up and thats about it.I really dont want to know about the other things that went on unless it was something serious and he wants to tell me about it.

Actually i know my hubbys first love and it was know big deal to know because i think of it as wanting to know everything about my man because i love him so much. I mean it makes me feel close knowing everything.

Its the person to person nature One doesn't like if they came to know their partner have an affair earlier. Some feel that what ever may be the past they tries to make the best for the other. In the first case they simply reject to listen about any thing of the past. Where as in the second case He gives chance to tell about each and every moment that took place in the past life and he keenly observes the psychological nature of both and that itself gives us to know about the psychological nature of your guy or girl..... By this you can know about the other very easily and u can do u wish accordingly

I don't want to know things that has past for him although i would like to share happiness and pains.I would like to leave him a spacious space belonging to him.

I would probably want to know because i'm a nosey person but I know it's best if I don't know. They say that what you don't know won't hurt you and I feel that way. I know it will bother me to know that the person I love was once in love with another person. I might question if they are really over that person if they continue to talk about them. I would prefer to keep the past in the past. Know what I mean?

A few months ago I would have responded yes, but now I'm changing my mind. So many people come into relationships with baggage and pre-conceived notions about the person based on past notions. I'm coming to realize the importance of "leaving your baggage at the door." I would probably not want to know about a guy's past. I'd probably start comparing myself to the ex and their relationship and that's no good! I believe that everyone deserves a clean slate.

I'd definitely want to know. I do in fact know a bit about it. My main reasons being that if that person was her first love.. then what happened that caused them to split apart, so I can find a way to not do that.

yes, I want to know it becouse I am very courious on this , you know ,maybe everyone hope to know it ,but at the same time I think we didn't like to heard that your boy friend or girlfriend kissed or do something else with first lover.but I do want to have some monery on this with my first lover, unlucky , nothing happen between us.hehe.

Well, I wouldn't want to know who was their first lover. No, I wouldn't. Why? It's an useless information. But if my girlfriend started talking about it, then I could just sit back and hear. I'm sure it would be a good story. But I wouldn't ask her: "who was the first person you loved?".

haha...I often ask my boyfriend about his first love...but I get so jealous and irritated in the middle of his story that I can't stand listening to it. hehehe... I'm really curious about his first love but I can't stand listening to his story...cause I get so jealous! urgh.