love relationships

What I TRIED to do I thought was sweet and would be memorable but it turned out to be a disaster. Let me explain, It was my wife and I 2nd anniversary, I had a surprise party set up. A few good friends coming over, food to grill up, drinks to make, the whole nine yards. I went to the local grocery store to buy supplies for the party we had successfully hidden from my wife. When I got back from the store I was very dismayed to find my wife curled up on the couch crying! Being the concerned husband that I am I asked her what was wrong? I was thinking that maybe her cat got hurt or something like that. She gives me this look that will make any man feel about a half an inch tall(about 1.5 cm) and says with tear filled eyes "You have forgotten our anniversary!" and the tears started flooding anew. I had no choice but to "let the cat out of the bag" and show her everything I had prepared for the party that night. For every other man with this idea DON'T DO IT!!!!!! Talk about seriously feeling like crap!