help vanish the ghost of the ex-girlfriend...
By siochr_meg
@siochr_meg (4)
Philippines
June 18, 2007 4:47am CST
I had a very serious relationship which lasted for ten years. We broke up early this year and got back after 2 months. During the times we were off, my boyfriend got into two not serious relationship but ended up making it out with one of them. Before we got back together I saw a picture of them in bed stored in his mobile which he later on deleted. I just can't seem to get over his past and wonder if he's seriously over her and into me this time....='(
2 responses
@student7 (1002)
• United States
18 Jun 07
Well did this thing happen after you broke up? You should sit down and talk to him about it. If you want to make a go of it, then talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he is a truly good guy, he will talk with you about it and not try to avoid it. If he isn't and he ends up getting mad, then I would leave him. You don't deserve someone who will cheat on you when things go bad.
@siochr_meg (4)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
The thing happened when we were still not together...I know I should cherish what we have now, but there are just instances when I can't help but feel unsecure and insecure with him. I mean asking myself if he's happier with me now or if he's sometimes thinking of the ex-girlfriend. Thanks anyway! I guess I should talk to him about this and take what he says...otherwise I would not be able to get over it.
