friendship

Philippines
June 21, 2007 10:22am CST
forgive or forget?which one should go first?When your friends betrayed you which of the two could you recommend to to save the friendship?
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5 responses
@Corezz (1013)
• Netherlands Antilles
21 Jun 07
Why friends betraide each other? For stupid or sily things I guess. Let's see to save a friendship there must be no lies, no keeping secrets and I guess they'll have everything Ok.
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
what if your friend betrayed you? will you forgive him?will you you give him another chance?will you trust him again?
@Corezz (1013)
• Netherlands Antilles
21 Jun 07
Yes I give him another chance.That's what friends are for ! because I am a true friend. :)
@ackars (1942)
• India
21 Jun 07
I will forgive than forgetting.But once we forgive them,gradually we will forget about that incident also.But if we forget and dont forgive them,it may come up sometime later in the future...
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
yes you are right time heals all wounds.hehehe but it takes courage to forgive a person who betrayed you. I've tried it oonce and it really hurts me so much.it took me 2 years to forgive her.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
18 Dec 10
it would depend on the betrayal I could just get even and then forgive or not forgive at all I could never betray a friend or a lover, I never did that my entire life maybe I wrong them, but I never betray them I am never friends or lovers with anyone that betrayed me I stay away from them and so far it's been wise decision betrayal is something that getting even won't solve you can forgive, but you will not forget the pain easily you will always worry whether they will do it again I don't want that kind of life LOL if you want it, that's your choice
• India
21 Jun 07
forgive them for the first time since they are ur friends. forget them if they repeat since they are not valuing ur words...
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
14 Dec 10
It doesn't matter who goes first, as long as both are forgiving. It's completely impossible to wipe memories from our brain, but we can forgive and move on. If the other person can't find it in their heart to forgive you, it reflects nothing on you yourself.