It's about emotion

You should really try to work through your emotions before turning to someone else. It wouldn't be fair to you or to him to start something before you are ready to move on. That doesn't mean you can't be friends with someone but be careful to keep it light until you are ready and that way if that friend turns out to be someone special you wan't have spoiled it by starting something before you are over your last relationship.

Hi, No one can replace another person. Picking up someone to try to replace someone you miss will only make you sadder. It may take your mind off the other guy for a while but it won't take away the pain you feel inside. It takes time to heal from wounds, even wounds of the heart. The best thing I think you can do is to take it easy on yourself, allow yourself to feel bad, sad, mad whatever for a while and then try to move on. Maybe call some friends and go out or go to a friend's house and just hang out. Right now, being around people you care about and who care about you is so much more comforting than picking up some stranger and trying to feel things you just aren't ready to feel. Good luck. Love hurts. Been there, lived through it and you will too!