How do you know if you have fallen in love?

Australia
August 8, 2007 6:04pm CST
I knew from just looking at my now husband the day i met him that i was in love and that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. How did you know you have fallen in love?
4 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
You'll felt that your world will turn only and only for this person. You won't find yourself looking for your own happiness but just for her/him alone. You can's say you've fallen when your asking for somrthing in return, and being fallen inlove is boundless which does not have any definite measures... Falling inlove is not measured in a short span of time.. you can say that its love when it reaches the limits and the expected worst experiences... and you've overcomed it... then its definitely love for sure.. no doubt... ^_^
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
I know I have fallen in love because I see past his weaknesses. I mean, I know they're there but instead of being angry at it, I would understand and find solutions for them. I always pray and think of him, and strive my best to do things that would make him happy. I love talking to him a lot and fights may be tough but we always learn to forgive each other before we sleep. I didn't exactly love him the first time I met him. It was more of a continuous flow of things. I have gotten to know him, then slowly my heart intertwined with his. It was a good thing and still is. I am just hoping to have this love far longer than forever. I love him so much and I'm waiting patiently till we could have enough for us to be married. He has already asked me to wait for him and I am patiently waiting for my knight. It's nice to finally fall in love with someone after all the heartaches I have been through. I pray God would give us the strength and the grace to love each other forever. It's good you have finally married the one you love and the one who loves you. Have a very good life. Happy posting!
• United States
10 Aug 07
I also knew the moment I met my hubby that I was going to be with him forever. Our very first meeting was at a birthday party I threw for myself. We had met online about a year before through a mutual friend from his football team who I knew from work. Jay and I spoke everyday for hours online, for about a year. He was in a relationship when we first started chatting, nothing was inappropriate. I always thought from his words that he was a good man, even though his then gf had cheated on him. We never discussed getting together or even meeting. Which is probably why we didn't meet. About 4 months into our budding friendship he finally broke up with his girlfriend with no help from me. Since we never really met we were able to open up to each other about just anything without fear of being judged. I although I felt strongly towards him I wasn't going to persue anything because he was( and still is 5 years younger) I was in an established career at the time, and also had a son, he was in his late teens and just starting working. And I felt as though us getting into anything more than a friendship could ruin his chance of having a normal young adult life. Me being a mom since I was 17 I learned how to deal with no getting to go to the hotest parties or coming and going as I wanted when I got older. I was kind of an advisor to many young women at the time who thought they were ready to have a baby. Anyway we meet a little more than a year later at my party and we just knew. It took us about another year of still more friendship before we actualyly for together and we have been strong for about 4 years. We had a baby together this past April and although we have had our problems they are normal and we love eachother. I knew I fell in love with him the first year we met as friends online, I believed that I truly loved him the first time we met. I knew it was all real the first time we kissed.