have you ever feel "GUILTY" about anything...yes or no...

Philippines
August 20, 2007 1:18am CST
Just asking...you can share anything you like... Me...yes sometimes, like I used to share plans, dreams or anything with my husband before but not now...I've noticed that he's a bit narrow minded and I don't want to argue or discuss about things anymore... but not always...of course.
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• Pakistan
21 Aug 07
She is inviting me. I promised her to go for outing on a river bank away from town. She agreed. We will go their. And I will request that, she should stop this practice to meet me alone. My thinking like this is due to feeling of my guilty. I am busy man and shee need to enjoy herself with me as she used to this all in her past. I pray for safe and sacred life but also attending her phones and promising to meet her. This all is punching me. How should I stop her. How should I control myself and how should I reject her miscall. This seems very tough and difficult and causing to feel the guilty as this all is happening and my wife is not aware about it. Wife trusts on me and I? I dont know what and why ? God may help me to keep on track.
• Pakistan
28 Aug 07
thank you for sharing. I requested her to stop this all. And she agreed.
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
if it's against your will then don't do it...
@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Of course I have done things in my life that I feel guilty about- Losing my temper and yelling at my daughter- Giving some one the finger and honking when they cut me off in a car – yelling at my parents when I was growing up- Calling into work when I’m not sick- just tired… I’m sure there are many more things- but I don’t want to go on and on.
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
oh?...at least you feel guilty about it.
• Canada
21 Aug 07
Thats the way my BF is at times , I just don`t bother half the time anymore and , its his fault not mine , so don`t feel guilty about not sharing all the time , if he doesn`t want to listen then what do you do , so if you have plans or ideas its his fault for not listening , not yours for not sharing ...
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
yeah...sometimes we need to keep things of our own...
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
20 Aug 07
Yes, I agree with you view, sometimes it is better not to share some of your plants or dreams with your partner, specially when you know that your partner thinks on the different lines and wavelenth.
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
thanks a lot for understanding.
@2babita (1072)
• India
20 Aug 07
Well my dear friend,I think we are all guilty and we all have guilty concious mind.But I dont share my thought or feelings to any one.I think they will take it wrong way.Bcoz humans have very supious mind they cant take lightly any matter.
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
yeah you're right...thanks
@shinjiao (1457)
• China
21 Aug 07
Tomorrow there will be a reunion of my high school classmates,but I think I cannot attend to this activity coz I have classes in the afternoon and the time is limited for me to participate in the reunion.One of my best friends in the class have told me about this reunion several times,both she and I are eager to see our friends but when she told me tomorrow,I told her that I was afraid I cannot show on this party.I felt guilty at that time coz I thought I said no to her invitation.I knew she was disappointed but I couldn't make a better choice to this problem.
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
it's okey just give them a call...maybe someday you can make it.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
eating chocolates while i am on diet. it makes me guilty afterwards.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
20 Aug 07
Yes. I have recently felt "GUILTY" about my relationship with my boyfriend.. We are dating for 4 years and we're in a long relationship. But then he was so busy with other things. School, going to night-outs..etc.. Because I had to do something to keep myself from waiting for him all the time and getting mad at him, etc.. I contacted my ex-bestfriend.. To be honest, the guy wasn't just my ex-bestfriend.. He was my first love. Because of that love that I have for my best friend, our friendship fell apart. we never talked to each other ever since.. and its almost 5 years. :( So, we talked to each other.. and because of that :taLK".. i don't know why I still really have feelings for him even though I love my boyfriend. I've been struggling on what to do. But I know my ex-best friend is just and will always be "just a friend".. But I still really love my ex-boyfriend even though I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for 4 years already. I am So GUILTY really.. just sharing anyway. :) Best of luck to you and your husband..
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
yes we all experienced that feeling too so maybe we should ask forgiveness in order to make them happy too.