A dream come true?

Canada
August 21, 2007 10:28am CST
My boyfriend keeps having dreams about me cheating on him with other guys. I have not, am not and will not cheat on him. Sometimes he calls me after waking from a dream and gets upset with me! Here's the catch. Some of his dreams have come true (about other things i might add) so when he dreams about me cheating he believes that it will/has happened. When I try to convince him that I haven't his response is "we'll see". It's to the point that he watches how I act when we are out together. What's a girl to do?!
5 responses
xboxboy
@xboxboy (5576)
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6 Oct 07
i think the best thing you can do is cheat with me and i promise he will never know!!! that way no one gets hurt but you have a fabulous night!!!! best of luck!!
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Simoneetah
@Simoneetah (420)
• Canada
6 Oct 07
I might just take you up on that offer. Of course you would have to pay for the flight from Canada. I wonder if that would make me a couger since I'm not in my 30 yet. However, your first time shouldn't have to cost you anything....
Simoneetah
@Simoneetah (420)
• Canada
10 Oct 07
hahaha You're tooo cute.
xboxboy
@xboxboy (5576)
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6 Oct 07
for you i would swim the atlantic!! (im not going to fly as my arms will get too tired)
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ckw622
@ckw622 (57)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 07
You just have to do you have to do. After a period of time he should see how good you are and believe you. You sure looks pretty that's why your boyfriend affraid that someone else comes in. Just do your best and be good.
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Simoneetah
@Simoneetah (420)
• Canada
22 Aug 07
I'm trying I'm trying. It's hard sometimes to deal with a jealouse person.
kaye0603
@kaye0603 (48)
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
yeah, sometimes guys just get intimidated with some issues in relationships. but hey, it's as if he's expecting you to really cheat on him even though it's never in your vocabulary to do such a thing. if he truly does love you, he'll have to trust you. loving someone always comes with trust, right? i hope he realizes that before it's too late...~_~
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Simoneetah
@Simoneetah (420)
• Canada
22 Aug 07
So do I Kaye0603. So do I.
xiongyijun
@xiongyijun (171)
• China
22 Aug 07
tell him about this: according to Chinese way of interpretting dreams, if a female dreams that she cheats the male, it would be happen or at least she is planing to do so. but if a man dream about this, it means that he is confused or even doubt your relationship.
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Simoneetah
@Simoneetah (420)
• Canada
22 Aug 07
Thanks. I'll keep that in mind and will decide wether I will tell him or not.
lucifer_84
@lucifer_84 (1)
• Romania
21 Aug 07
leave him!
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redfruit2008
@redfruit2008 (6)
• Virgin Islands (U.S.)
6 Oct 07
It seems to me that your boyfriend is a bit insecure or have trust issues. I think you may need to talk to him about it and let him know that it can seriously hurt your relationship if he continues
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Simoneetah
@Simoneetah (420)
• Canada
6 Oct 07
I agree completely with you. I have spoken to him about it. Things are a little better now but I find myself expecting him to start up again.