The purpose of life.

@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
September 17, 2007 8:59am CST
The great pessimistic philosopher, Schopenhauer, once sat dejectedly on a park bench. He was weighed down by his thoughts and troubled by his inability to understand the meaning of life. A police officer, taking him for a tramp, demanded: "Who are you and what are you doing here?" To which the philosopher replied, "I would to God I knew." I believe that a great many of us in the twenty-first century are like that, completely confused as to the purpose of life. That there is such a purpose, I firmly believe. We see purpose everywhere in the universe, including this earth. Every plant, every animal, every insect has a purpose, as we soon discover when we, as it is so aptly put, "disrupt the balance of nature." Schopenhauer may not have discovered it, but may I suggest that many of the great masters, at least caught a glimpse of it. The one thread that seems to run through all of their teachings, from Buddha to Mahatma Gandhi is that we are here to help each other. As another great teacher once said, "the only life worth living is one of service to others." Could this be what is missing in the lives of so many? Is this the reason why the rich and famous often become so dissatisfied with life, that they turn to alcohol, drugs and suicide? Love is a word that has come to be used very loosely in our society, but real love is action, a response to a need, a desire to help. We are all seeking happiness, those who have truly found it, are always loving and caring people. Is this a clue to our real purpose in life? Blessings.
3 people like this
12 responses
@cmsk2005 (1770)
• United States
25 Sep 07
Nice post Pose123. Yes its hard to find the real happiness in our life but many of us can too, but the most important thing is to keep ourselves simple, as simple as we can and this can make us happy, The ambitions and willingness to achieve many many things in life can't bring happiness but if you can live on a simple life where you are satisfied with the limited thing you got then you will be real happy
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
25 Sep 07
Hi cmsk, Thank you for responding. You make some good points here. Blessings.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
18 Sep 07
...surely we are here learning good from evil.. and part of the good is to truly love our fellow person...
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Sep 07
Hi flowerchilde, Thanks for commenting. Blessings.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
18 Sep 07
I agree, that life is sometimes seen from the lense of the philosopher Schopenhauer, but to me life is what you really make it-you can ruin life completely or live a fullfilling selfless existences filled with service for others. Am not rich, but sometimes I feel so blessed giving whatever little I have to someone more needy than I am. Sometimes i wish I were rich enough to be able to bring a smile to wretched faces in a more tangible material way than in mere words. Recently I saw a woman who had a leak resulting from a birth injury to her bladder-i looked at he face and I saw perhaps the most beautiful woman in the world-yet a close look at her mind she was the most desperate and rejected woman that ever lived. She had a teen pregnancy which her body could not handle, the man responsible rejected her when he dicovered that she leaks urine and stinks-her own mother could not contain her, her siblings who should have given instead avoided her and all she faced day in and day out was a lonely purposless life. I looked at her life and cried not for her but for my inability to hold that woman by her hands and take her to a surgeon and pay all her bladder repair suggeries and bring life to her awesome face! To me that would be the real purpose in life-living for others and helping others in their most critical hour of need! People are so rich out there-some are so charitable with their wealth and enjoy life while they make more money-others prefer not to look outside their wealth and appear more miserable than beggers on the street-it puzzles you what life and its purpose should be to me or to you, but I wish it were for service to others!
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Sep 07
Hi academic, Thank you very much for your contribution to this discussion. The story you share is, I'm sure, one of many in this world. Unfortunately everyone don't feel as you do about this. Help where you can my friend, it's not too late to create a better world. Blessings.
• India
18 Sep 07
Yes even I feel that the true purpose of our life is to lead a humane life…help others, love your family & friends, nurture nature, don’t hurt anyone unnecessarily and don’t go about with a bloated ego. Give respect to others and the same will come back to you. And another of my favourite motto is that always tell yourself that you will not carry anything with you when you go, so don’t cling on to anything. Try to maintain a happy-go-lucky attitude, laugh and make others laugh too. And regarding the rich & famous, I think they are so full of themselves that nothing exists for them outside their steel & glass penthouses. Most of them forget the classic art of earning, keeping & giving (all at the same time). you will find many rich philanthropists who earn like billionaires and give like saints all over the world. they are perfectly happy with themselves for they have found a balance in their lives. Only rich people who know how to earn but don’t have the heart to give, end up spending on hospital bills, de-addiction centreas and asylums.
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Sep 07
Hi sudiptacallingu, Thank you for adding to this discussion. I like your attitude on life, and agree too that there are many among the rich and famous, who have also discovered the true purpose. Blessings.
@rosie_123 (6113)
18 Sep 07
Many years ago, someone asked my why I was vegetarian and so involved with animal rights causes, because, at the end of the day, everything I did would not be enough to make any difference to the way a large proportion of the whole world viewed animals as somewhat inferior to Man. I am well aware that here in the Uk we are much more animal conscious than many other place, and- in fact it is a well-known fact here that we give far more money to animal charitiies than to those involving children!! My answer then was that if my stand saved the life of one sheep or any other creature from slaughter, then I would feel it had been worthwhile. In truth (and I know many are shocked by my saying this), I am not so keen on the human race, and I don't feel much warmth towards humanity at all, so "serving others" and giving to people in the normal sense, leaves me cold. But helping animals is something I care deeply in life. If I can help one abused, unloved creature, or give one a home, then I will feel that I have served my purpose.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Sep 07
Hi rosie, I do want to thank you for responding to this post. We all have a purpose, and when we say helping others, I don't think we can exclude animals. While I do care deeply for humanity, especially the neglected and abused, caring for animals is still very important in my book. Blessings.
• United States
18 Sep 07
We all indeed have a purpose of life. It is our mission to find it. It does not have to be just one purpose; can be many and as we grow with experience in our lives we can add and change them for the benefit of ourselves and mankind. Purpose is a reason to do something with a larger goal to attain. Why limit ourselves to just one? sunnywaters
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Sep 07
Hi sunnywaters, Very good thought, Thank you. Blessins.
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
17 Sep 07
Seems to me that in Singapore, the purpose of life is slog my day away in the office to pay for my mortgage so that I have a roof over my head. The bosses over here don't quite understand the meaning of 'life' :(
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 Sep 07
Hi wyykidd, Thank you for responding. We must try to be grateful, and look for ways to improve. Things will get better. Blessings.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Yes, I really believe that we are here for a purpose and helping others is such a rewarding feeling. Winston Churchill stated that we make a living by what we get ,but we make a life by what we give. I think his words were full of wisdom.
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 Sep 07
Hi Mirita, Thanks for sharing. I hadn't heard that quote from Churchill. Blessings.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
Hi Pose123! Yes, there are so many wise people who have given so many opinions about the purpose of life and I agree to almost all views they have shared. I agree with you also that we real love is the clue to our real purpose in life. We were created because of love and I hope that I will be living until the end of my day loving and caring for people genuinely. It is very hard to do it sometimes but I am trying hard to. I believe that if we all would genuinely and sincerely care for each other, maybe then we will all be living in peace and this world will be a better place to live in. Take care and have a nice day!
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 Sep 07
Hi faith, Thank you very much for adding to this discussion.I love what you say about living in peace, because I'm so sure that you are right. Blessings.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
17 Sep 07
Hello there. Thanks for the posting =D My purpose in life is to Live, Learn, Love and to Leave a Legacy. I really hope I can live life in this way and without regrets. I want to make a difference in other people's lives.
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 Sep 07
Hi poohgal, Thank you for responding. To make a difference is a noble ambition. Blessings.
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
18 Sep 07
first,thanks for your meaningful topic.before that,i've never thought of this question before. second,i do agree with u that we have a purpose of our life.for me,i should work hard to make money,then buy a house,and maybe thus a car,then support my parents......have a successful career,a happy family,that is my biggest purpose.
1 person likes this
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 Sep 07
Hi lisa, Thank you for responding, and for your thoughts. Blessings.
@alamode (3071)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I think that when people think 'sevice to others', they make it too big. If its something we feel we aren't up to, we don't do it. The 'others' in my philosophy are more immediate... my family, friends, people I come into actual contact with. Helping to feed the hungry masses through church or government programs is great, but buying a sandwich for one person on the street is just as important. If we all do what we can, where and when we can, that causes a ripple. There is a wonderful commercial on right now showing people seeing a good deed done and passing it on. We can do that, and maybe a little more. We don't need to make the news to make a difference!
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 Sep 07
Hi alamode, I agree, it doesn't have to be big. The little things we do in life make the difference. We all remember "special" people in our lives, it may have been a kindly neighbour, a teacher, or childhood friend. Why do we remember them? It's because we somehow "knew" that they cared. Blessings.