As a adult,can we have a real isomerism friend?
By leo1985
@leo1985 (164)
China
October 2, 2007 12:22pm CST
When I was a child,I have a lot of female friends and we can play,talk about what we were interested in and we don't care about he or she is.But as we grow up,I find it hard to make friends with a female,especally when you has a girlfriend or wife.Because in china people are conservative,our parents are examples.I seldom see them have isomerism friends .Do you think it's a good phenomenon,and can you tell something about your opinion or experience.
2 responses
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
5 Oct 07
Hello,friend,
First I want to say,glad to know u here,and wish u enjoy this mylot.
What u said is really the problem as for me,I have a lot of good friends among boys ,as we grew older,the isomerism friend we have is become less and less,I don't know what about others,however,this is the really case for me,until now I don't have got so many isomer friend maybe a part of this problem is b/cthey have bf or gf,so we should keep a distance between them .
in my point of view,this can't avoid as we grew older,what really count is that we should treat them as normal friend just as we are before.
Just normal behaive as normal.and make them know that ,although we get more and more older ,the friendship between us will never changed by any reason.
@leo1985 (164)
• China
5 Oct 07
Thank for your respond.Sometimes when my friends leave me sorrow break my heart.I have a female friend who I like talking with my personal things.We
have promised to be a whole-life friend no matter others comment on us or not.But I find it a really difficulty task. But from now on,I will learn how to deal with this kind of friend,and not hurt my girlfriend or my wife. hehe~ Thank you again,my dear friend~
