is there some people afraid to fall inlove,

Philippines
October 5, 2007 9:53am CST
you feel that sometimes? that you dont want to fall inlove again becouse you might be hurt again? my friend told me that, at some point im worried to, becouse of my past relationship are traumatic.anyway what about you?
3 responses
• Malaysia
23 Oct 07
Yes, I have felt fear of falling in love for years.. but I guess that once you find someone that you actually care for, you're able to take the risk and love like you never loved before.. to love is to take risks, to put your guard down.. to trust in someone.. So I guess, you gotta trust yourself to take the risk first.. then I guess you might start loving once again, once you meet the right guy.. =)
• Philippines
29 Oct 07
true my friend, beside its good to love and to love, thanks for the response
@fishtear (20)
• China
11 Oct 07
I am the person.I'm really afraid of fall in love.I think I am used to be alone.I don't know, sometimes I feel very lonely and pity ,and want to find a person to love me,but when a boy tells me that he loves me at this time,I will refuse him at once.I am afraid,afraid of what ?I don't know.Maybe I don't want my life be changed. What can I do?
• Philippines
13 Oct 07
same here,starnge huh? love is painful and scary,im use to be alone to after my traumatic past.sometimes its easy to live in a single and quit life, but its still fell empty.
@yashsa (20)
• United States
5 Oct 07
Love is scary. Love means that you're giving someone else power over you.
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
oh! ok. i think at some way you are right, thanks for the response, have a great day buddy.