The hot chick -vs- the not so hot chick
By shonna
@shonna (12)
United States
October 23, 2007 5:21pm CST
I came across a blog the other day about the Death of the hot chick. I read this and laughed but it caught my attention enough to read the whole thing. The story goes that men these days would prefer the 6 or 7 chick instead of the perfect 10 any more because the perfect 10 is just to hard to handle or deal with. first off they are to costly to keep up with thier up keep, and they feel they are above all others, and are not willing to get down and dirty with work or playtime. So I was wondering if anyone else believes this and what your opinion on this subject is.
4 responses
@new_waver (198)
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23 Oct 07
'10'-type women (not sure what you mean by the term) are costly and require a lot of upkeep? That makes them sound like a possession like a sports car or purebred dogs or something, rather than actual human beings.
@new_waver (198)
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24 Oct 07
I know. I should have said that my response was aimed at the thought process of men who write things like this rather than at you for asking about it. I would like to think that most men are able to view women as individuals and people rather than putting them in broad, abstract types...though sometimes I worry that more men think that way than I realize.
@twilight_75 (479)
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23 Oct 07
I know what your getting at, men like to be able to have a laugh with their women, muck around play fight etc Get involved and have some fun without worry about hair nails etc etc Though i do believe theres a fine line, and men also don't really want them women to be vulgar and not bother with how they look. We all want the best of both and why not eh
@xenokitten (68)
• United States
23 Oct 07
Everyone is different. I have family that lives far away and they came to visit me last year. I had seen their little girl when she was like 5 years old. When they came to visit she was 17. She had sent pictures and stayed in touch. I thought for sure that she would be a stuck up snob. She was extremely beautiful, a cheerleader, dancer, etc.
But she was just the opposite. She was very shy and soft spoken. Very self conscious, very caring, and sweet.
And I have seen/known some ugly people that also have ugly hearts.
A person's true worth should be the beauty of their heart.
Also no two men are alike. Some men would be fine and happy with an attractive girl, even if they had nothing in common or if she had a poor personality. Other men may want a girl that shares his passions in life and has a better personality, even if she is quite ugly.
No two people are alike. What's a perfect 10 for one man, could be very different from the idea of a perfect 10 for another man.
