What you do when someone you love hurts you?

India
October 25, 2007 12:47am CST
I get hurted many times by the person whom i love coz my love is one-sided.And what i do is to cry in closed room and there is left no other option for me at that time,i cant call him and say that i am being hurt coz i have to hide from that person that i love him.Its really heart-breaking situation.I dont want to cry everytime,can you suggest what to do in taht situation?
8 responses
• India
14 Nov 07
Well i can only say that person is not hurting you and he even dont know that you love him..I know it may be hurting you but one thing what you can do is you can let him know that you love him or you can be friends intially and then you express your feelings..May be after you people are friends then he may like you...
@nkhanna (922)
• India
14 Nov 07
u seem to b in a very strange situation.i feel sorry for u.however my suggestion to u is if u like a person then y dnt u confess him straightway when u feel that u cant live without him.dnt prolong it.if he doesnt love he ll staightway say,so just move on without thinking much on it.the more prolong these things the more feelings start generating in ur heart n the ned result is u have to b with a broken heart.futhermore first get to know bout the person ,whether he is engaged or married with someone else.look sweety,u sud have a control over ur emotions.never try to indulge in a relation where u have to b empty handed.n remember one thing,u cant get everything in ur life whatever u wish for.my thinking bout u is might u r in a very young age where u r not able to choose the right way.true love happens just once in life n its true.somewhere someone is also made for u.just wait patiently.gud luc
@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
i cry and sometimes forget somethings that i should be doing.. then drinking.. trying to forget him and even forgive for that person done to me.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
What do you mean one sided? You are the only one loving him? Well, in that case... it is very different. I dont know in what way he is hurting you... If he realize that he is hurting you because he do not know that you love him. I believe that is very big problem on your part. Because if he is hurting you because he love someone else I dont think we could do something about that but to tell him about your feelings.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 07
Do what women most like to do. Remember, you always think about him, did he do so? You said it's one-sided, he had no feeling, so what he cares about you? I'm sorry, this is may sounded sharp word for you. But this is what my friend told me. I always rethink, it's right. Then I thanked them, and realize how stupid I am, and that's true, not long after, my ex had another relationship with others. I woke up from my love cage, tried to live on, forget the past and made it as my precious experience to me. My advice is why don't you go for shopping, go for friends for chit chat, go to hairdresser, pedicure or manicure, or doing what you like to do in daily routine. Maybe in that place, you will find your lucky guy.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
What i do us i just accept the hurtings and all other stuff. We sometimes say things that we cannot take back..Some words that really could hurt our feelings. And I take every hurt as a lesson in my life and live with it and learn!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
25 Oct 07
hmm. its the one sided love story as i remember from your previous discussion. But if that person does not know that you love him, whats the point in crying. You must have to courage to say him your felings and if then also he declines, make yourself clear about that you most probably deserves someone better and he does not deserves you. You are not the loser who loved him, he is the loser as he has lost the love of you.
@shak143 (1280)
• India
25 Oct 07
what is this nidhi_bansal why you are crying.you said your's is one side love.untill unless you tell him about your love how came he will understand your feelings and move as per your wish. One thing i wan't to tell you that when youtr not courage to express your feelings towrds him your not suppose to feel and your not suppose to blame him and your not fit to love. As love needs a lot of courage you have to express your feelings untill that there is no meaning in it.i hope you understand what i wan't to say.be bold tell him about your love.chakde........