what negative traits do you have..

Philippines
February 24, 2008 7:11pm CST
my negative traits i have are: i always forget things where did i put my stuff...and i always stumble i dnt knw why maybe because its my habbit that i cant resist..but the good thing is my boyfriend inlove with me because of my negative traits i have.hehehe how about you what is your negative traits u have?
7 responses
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 08
Lets see negative traits. well I think my most negative trait is that I am not as assertive as I guess I should be. for instance I can be in line to be waited on in a clothing store and I get up to the counter only to have the clerk turn around and wait on a young woman who just pushed into the line in front of me. so there I stand and wait like a wuss when I guess I should speak out and say hey I was next in line how about me. The wprst time I was a wuss was when I was pregnant with my first child, eight months preg and I was fourth to be called in well onthers came in and were called and finally I was the only one left and the girl called out oh my I guess we forgot you. Oh and how exactly do you do that when I am sitting there as big as an elephant in my maternity dress that only magnified my size? I think I said something to that effect this time and the nurse turned really red and apologzied all over the place.I just hat e to make a fuss but am getting better about this in my old age. since I am a senior citizen it seems sometimes when I say no I was next in line in a sort of frowning way I do get waited on. maybe grey hair gets more attention. I am also one to misplace things and have to do a search. oh and I always have to double check whether or not I locked the door and my husband used to tease me about it. My son gets on my case about being assertive so I am really trying to do that without being aggressive and quarrelsome.
@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
26 Feb 08
I think my most negative trait I have is: I am a big time procrastinator. I wait til the very last minute to do things, which has gotten me into trouble more than once.
@VampAmber (308)
• United States
25 Feb 08
I have a wicked-terrible memory. I can forget just about anything. I'm waiting for the day that I actually do literally forget my own name. I'm also kind of lazy. By "kind of," mind you, I mean "extremely." I hate getting out of bed, and I hatehatehate doing chores of any sorts. I also get down on myself a little bit too much. I'm a great person, I know this (everyone is, really), but I have trouble remembering that sometimes. Oh, and I chew on the flesh around my fingers. Bad Amber, bad.
• United States
25 Feb 08
i think mind would have to be , always judging people before i meet them. i think we all have that in comman. sometimes before i meet a person i judge them, although i tell others not to do it , im always usually doing it myself. i think its natural to do that , but not such a good habit. i constantly find myself what they call "judgin a book by its cover" idk , i want to get better at this.. good topic. -brittney
• China
25 Feb 08
The roots of this dissatisfaction can be found in your past.While we cannot change our past,we can change hoe we deal with our inner demos,fears,and insecurities related to past experiences.It is better if,on your path to finding peace of mind,you truthfully look into your negative traits with forgiveness and confidence,knowing that ,in no way will they interfer with who you are today and what you will become tomorrow.It is time to put your past behind you. Come on,the choice is yours!!
• United States
26 Feb 08
I bite my nails and I could be a better housekeeper.
@xlinzixx (510)
25 Feb 08
ea im very forgetful to i have a memory like a fish lol the other one is i get easily distracted god knows how im managing to get through uni lol