fallin in love with your best friend.

@Reyah23 (640)
Philippines
March 2, 2008 7:13pm CST
What will you do if you fall in love with your best friend? Are going to fight for your feeling or ignore it for the sake of friendship?
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13 responses
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
3 Mar 08
Well, from experience, I have fallen in love with my best friend and we have been married almost four years. We have definitely had our problems, but love is what kept us going and it was worth it so much. He is the very best friend i've ever had or want. it's been absolutely amazing most of the time, but even friends have problems every now and then. God bless
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• China
3 Mar 08
i think you can express yourself to you best friend ,if he or she accept this love ,then you must be enjoy a very happy life . if not ,you two can also keep a friendship
• China
3 Mar 08
i agree with apple,since you are the best friend ,you must be very fimiliar to each other,so you can get along well ,because you had the same hobbies,the same opinions,and so on .you will spare a lot of good times.even if you can't be lover someday in the future,you can be detached for understanding,and you can be the best friends for ever.i had such experience.by the way ,i'm not good at english,i hope you can understand what i mean.and please point out the mistakes what i made.thank you !
@xavi221 (38)
• China
3 Mar 08
if you absolutely love your bestfriend. then bravely express your love without hesitation. if you don't know clearly whether relation between you is love or friendship,please ignore it for the sake fo friendship.
@eoeoeo (125)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I agree with this as well. Risking friendship is much more deadly than risking love. Risking love means risking friendship. In other words, just dont ask out the friend unless you love them to the max.
• China
7 Mar 08
If you do fall in love with your best friend,just tell him/her your feeling.Follow your heart and have a deep talk with your best friend.If you cover your feeling,you won't get the real happy!
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
If you really love him... go for it... if it works fight for it... if it will not.. you will loose him
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
7 Feb 10
i don't see any problem with this. i told my best friend once, that i love her. and there was no problem. we both love each other, as siblings, so why should there be wrong?
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I have fallen in love with my bestfriend and we have the kind of friendship that we can talk to eachother about everything so I was very comfortable with talking to him about it. He told me he loved me but not in that way and I understood that. I understand where he is coming from and I dont push the issue at all. Yeah it is hard because I still have feelings for him but I dont let them get in the way of our friendship. I am just gratefull that my telling him didnt make him feel weird and cause our friendship to fall appart.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
3 Mar 08
Hi Reyah, I think it's great when someone falls in love with their best friend. Be open and happy about it. Blessings.
@Campino (57)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
3 Mar 08
If love is for both then that will be maybe best relationship. You know each other, understand each other, being honest. I suggest you to fight for love. I will.
@vinay049 (1878)
• India
3 Mar 08
i have been in love with my best friend at first i was in two mind whether to tell her or not about my feelings.Then one day i realised that if i don't tell her now she will leave me for anybody else after that thought i told her about my feelings and she also told me that se also loves me but was thinking how to tell that tome. and now we are dating for 6 months
@jc00771 (155)
• China
3 Mar 08
i think to follow your feeling is better as love is in a sense more than friendship.so you do not lose anything when you become lovers.love can make you be together,breath the same air and sleep the same bed and close to each other withour any distance not only in matal but also in mind. of course friendship is very treasurable but you can have both when you are really in a senior love. besides, you can find more friend too later after you are in love and you share with your lover all the friends you have.
• India
3 Mar 08
before making your next move, find out how your friend feels about you. if he/she likes someone else, it is always wise to stay mum about your feelings. but if he/she hints towards similar feelings, it is very well worth a try. my best friend and I had tried a romantic link-up but it was disasterous! however, we acted maturely, buried the skeletons and got back to being best friends again!
@shafwan (74)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 08
if i fallin in love with my best friend, i would like to straightforward to tell my love to her, it much better than i keeping it in my heart,it will suffering my feeling. just straightforward buddy:)