Christianity: A RELATIONSHIP not a religion. Faith counts.

@kbkbooks (7022)
Canada
March 4, 2008 1:09pm CST
It is my belief that God does not want us to practice religion. Religion involves repetition and rituals and almost superstitious behavior. Religion says God is far above us and we are unworthy to approach Him. Christianity gives us a relationship with Jesus Christ, the Son of God, born of a Virgin, who lived His life to teach us about God's love, and gave His life to save us. He was crucified, a common form of punishment for the worst of criminals. The shedding of His blood was a gift of substitution for the ritual sacrifice of lambs and other animals. His substitution is good once for all time and over all sin. He didn't stay dead, though. He rose from the grave three days later to conquer the eternal punishment of death. The Bible tells us that when we become "Christians" by accepting the above as a personal gift, we are "joint heirs" with Jesus, the Son who is heir to all of God's riches. He is our brother. God is our Father. We are related and God wants our love not our rituals. Some people want to say only their denomination is right. No denomination is 100% right. They tend to include some details about the importance of the relationship we need to have, and exclude others. Denomination is a cousin of religion. Christ is the chief importance of our relationship with God. When you get to Heaven as a Christian, God isn't going to ask you what church you went to. Although it's important to fellowship with other Christians, there is no one perfectly correct church. The real church is in the keeping of Christ in our hearts and sharing Him with others.
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
4 Mar 08
I absolutely agree with you. Christianity is a lifestyle, not a religion. Religion is man's thinking that there is something he can do to save himself, and salvation only comes through Jesus Christ. Denominations spend too much time arguing about whose way is right. All we really need to agree on is that Jesus Christ is Lord! I believe there will be a lot of regular churchgoers who end up in Hell and wonder how they got there, and Heaven will be filled with people who never put foot inside an organized church.
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• United States
4 Mar 08
"Religion is man's thinking that there is something he can do to save himself," This is nonsense. A religion is a collection of beliefs shared among a group. That's all. Christianity is a religion no matter how you slice it. Everyone who believes in a divine Jesus Christ is a member of the CHRISTian religion. Simple as that.
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@jennysp8 (855)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I agree with you some - that there is nothing that a person can do to save themselves - as most Christians believe you have to "do this" or "do that"..."don't do this" and "don't do that". But there are some Christians out there who believe that there is nothing man can do in order to protect himself or to "reserve" his place in heaven. They are just far and few in between. But I am with you that most Christians fall pray to alot of garbage and ritual that just puts fear and control into them and also empties their wallets at the same time. Maybe its the terms that people are clashing on. I would say that 99.9% percent of your typical organized religion is about ritual....maybe the term spiritual should be used since it is about a belief and feeling - rather then practices and rituals.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
Religion IS the things we try to do to save ourselves, all the things we do outside of a relationship with Christ. Also, when some people get to heaven, they are going to meet others there whom we will be surprised to see. There will not be some we expect to see. Because in the end, it is only God who knows a person's true allegiance and love, whether it is for Jesus or for some other substitution for religion.
• United States
4 Mar 08
I agree with your way of thinking that is why I do not participate in any organized religion. I am very spiritual and I have a very strong faith and enjoy a wonderful relationship with my Lord. I grew up going to church 3 times on Sundays and bible study during the week. It was the Church of Scotland a very cold and austere place of worship I was never taught that I could have personal relationship with God so missed out on a could portion of my life being more afraid of Him than loving Him. I am so happy now to live with His Love and not fear.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
I am filled with joy to hear that you came to the LORD even after so much over discipline. Thank you for participating in my discussion. Long time no see you, heather, and glad to see you again!
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
19 Mar 08
He watches over us even in the times we are not looking for Him. And when we seek Him He is closer than any family member or friend can ever be here to us on Earth. We carry Him inside us, and we are in His hand. It is a physical mystery, but spiritually it makes perfect sense. I am so thankful for the provision and presence that is with me every day through His Holy Spirit, a gift of Jesus' sacrifice for us.
• United States
6 Mar 08
It is early morning and your comment is the first one I read. I wish everyone could feel how I feel every morning full of joy with the promise of a new day ahead filled with God's love. I always thank him for keeping me safe throught the night and giving me another day.
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• United States
5 Mar 08
Well I guess I am one of those who need a religion where G-d is far above.I don't want Him too close. In my religion, I couldn't handle Him in His purest form anyway. As an outsider looking in, it does seem a waste of time for Christians trying to convince their fellow Christians that their church is better. If you all believe in Christ, why would it make a difference.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
If folks go around trying to compare their churches, assuming you mean denominations, then they will be so busy comparing that they aren't taking the time to see and cherish the real meaning of what God wants to offer. If, however, we really all believe in Christ and hold to that, then indeed it will not make any difference what denomination we follow. If we all believe in and follow Christ then we will exhibit love and caring and the purest of beliefs, and then we won't have time to criticize or compare because we will be too busy loving.
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• United States
6 Mar 08
I agree.
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Amen!! You are absolutely right!!!! It bothers me when people ask,"What religion are you?". The religion, denomination or name of the church is not what gets us to Heaven, it is repenting of our sins and asking Jesus Christ to come in as Lord and Saviour of our life. Thank you so much for this discussion!! SheliaLee
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
17 Mar 08
I know a man who claims to be a devout Christian and yet says he is sure we will stand in lines waiting to get into heaven according to what church we attended. Like you say, it's not the denomination or name of the church that qualifies us for a place in heaven, it is solely the claim of the blood of Christ and His grace.
@ClarusVisum (2163)
• United States
4 Mar 08
"It is my belief that God does not want us to practice religion." This doesn't make sense. Religion isn't what you practice. The "repitition and rituals" are, but the term "practicing religion" makes as much sense as "praciticing politics". A religion is nothing more than a collection of related beliefs. Being a member of a religion does not imply any sort of action at all, other than believing the tenets. Everyone who believes in a divine Jesus Christ is a CHRISTian (get it? :P). That's all Christianity really means. When it comes to rituals, or other actions, that's more of an APPLICATION of one's beliefs, something that can be completely separate. What I think you should be saying (to be clearer) is that you simply believe that people are focusing too much on the rituals and not enough on the underlying beliefs, since that is what your actual meaning seems to be.
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
If you want to get specific than substitute the word DO for the word PRACTICE. Christianity does not require BELIEF so much as it requires ACCEPTANCE, if you want to be that specific. After all, BELIEF implies enough intelligence to understand what it is all about, and we can only understand God on our imperfect human level, never fully grasping the detail of His being and His Love. I agree with you that there is a simple definition for the word, mere intellect, but there is the heart and soul side of Christianity that is beyond what is in a word, beyond what a brain can make logical. It is absolutely true that some people are focusing to much on rituals, some relying on the habit of church going, some relying on the opening of the Bible, rather than relying on accepting the deep underlying meaning and the gift from God that is available to them.
• United States
6 Mar 08
"If you want to get specific than substitute the word DO for the word PRACTICE." Okay, if you want to, but that doesn't change the meaning at all. A religion is made up of tenets, beliefs, etc....not actions. You don't "do" a religion. "Christianity does not require BELIEF so much as it requires ACCEPTANCE, if you want to be that specific." No, that is the exact opposite of what is correct. Theism of all kinds requires belief a.k.a. faith, which in this context means considering something true without evidence. "Acceptance" implies that something has already evidenced/supported itself, and that you are accepting that evidence in order to consider the idea true. This is why it is a common misconception to ask if one "believes" in evolution (or anything else in science), for example. They are called "religious beliefs" and not "religious acceptances" for a reason. "BELIEF implies enough intelligence to understand what it is all about" Uh, no. The word does not even BEGIN to imply that. "we can only understand God on our imperfect human level, never fully grasping the detail of His being and His Love." Actually, since you want to get technical, I submit to you that it is impossible to 'know' a given deity on ANY level. Even when it comes to the scenario of divine intervention, there is no possible way to positively identify a supernatural agent. A human can't rule out one god over another, or a deception over a truth. For all you know, all of your 'personal experiences' with "God" could easily be tricks by Satan or Loki or Ra or even your own imagination! As mere humans with our five silly little senses, presuming that we could even BEGIN to DEFINE a deity is the height of arrogance.
• United States
16 Mar 08
James 1:27 says this, "Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their trouble, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world". Why is James instructing believers on what religion is, if Christianity is not a religion? I think it would be better to say, Christianity is a religion about a relationship. The world seems to have a distorted view of what religion is these days. People have made religion about rules and rituals and themselves, but James reminds us of what real religion is actually about.
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
17 Mar 08
I think that James is trying to establish what religion is supposed to be, as opposed to what it has become. Religion now is often equated with differences in denomination and not actually in different philosophies. In all philosophies there are people who follow James' given definition.
• United States
18 Mar 08
I agree that James is establishing what religion should be. That is my point exactly. The Bible gives us a clear definition of religion in God's eyes. Instead of railing against religion, we should be practicing it how the Bible tells us to. Religion is not the problem, the problem is how people practice religion.
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
5 Mar 08
You are right. Religion has doctrines, rules and customs that have nothing to do with God,Christ or the bible. It is about contol. Did Christ ever tell anyone to "Go to church" No he said we are the church, we the people. He did say to not forget to assemble on the sabbath day but not to hear sermons but to fellowship visit, spend time with one another. Christ had fellowship he taught often using the elements or circumstances around him. Discussions were open to questions and answers. There was no real sermons on a regular basis though he did at times speak to the general public. No one is good but God and Christ. Christ was Gods gift to us. He is our older brother and he and God the father both love us. I attend a "church" but I choose to go and I am free to leave. I do not participate in their canned bible studies. If the speaker is dry and boring I leave. I go down and have a cup of coffee and often find others there we sit and visit and fellowship.
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
There is a religion in the Holy Bible and that is the Christian religion and that's what God wants us to follow EXACTLY. If not exactly then that is not the Christian religion but a denomination. The Christian religion is not a sect or denomination.
@jennysp8 (855)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Amen! I completely agree with you!! That is way we do not attend churches that are more about their rituals and "buying" their way into heaven. We do attend a certain church every once in a while, and when we can't, we listen to the weekly teachings via CD that they give out. There are no rituals there and most Christians would find it "dull" or not exciting enough but it is more about just coming together with other Christians to share the Word of God...not to practice games and rituals or to pray to idols or images.. Thanks for the discussion!!!!!!!
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
Religion in the world's definition is an organization made by man. Nothing in the bible did it say that christians organized religion, but Church. What we need to practice more is spread the love of God by means of a good example. Not saying something and doing otherwise! Happy day to you.
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
Agreed and thank you for emphasizing that point. It totally supports what I am trying to say here.
• Malaysia
6 Mar 08
I think RELIGION = LAWS. I choose what's the way of life I should follow. Who enforce the law? Papacy? Oh please...