why love,why quarrel

@zsxdcf (50)
China
March 31, 2008 10:51pm CST
today I quarreled with my wife.I don't konw that what she said in angry.I'm angry too,and very sad.I don't konw why we quarreled with each other.we all believe that we love each other.but once we got a problem,and our opinions are diffent,we are in war.anyone can tell me what should I do.
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@gxnfly (1147)
• China
1 Apr 08
That's kinda commen.Most people quarrel in a relationship,especially when both of you don't have a good temper.Me,myself,I don't have good temper,I am easily angry at my boyfriend.Fortunately he is very good tempered,he always acts like ,woo,easy girl,keep your vioce down,it's going through the roof .Then I will just keep it down.Maybe you and your wife both need some temper control,especial for you ,you are a man ,you need to be more tolerant to your wife.Good luck!
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@zsxdcf (50)
• China
1 Apr 08
thanks a lot.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
1 Apr 08
I know for sure that it was just one of the times where youwill have misunderstandings. if both of you are angry, don't fight more by trying to resolve it, you just might end up raising at each other's voices. one of you need to calm down at least and start talking to each other calmly. I hope you get to work it ou soon. goodluck and be patient. :)
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@zsxdcf (50)
• China
1 Apr 08
thank you very much
• Malaysia
3 Apr 08
people quarrel with each other, that's normal. you gotta learn to control your emotions and temper and learn to compromise with each other. everyone has different opinions but depending on the situation you have to respect each other's opinion and give and take with each other. hope you and your wife are not angry anymore! take care
@jstaubin (423)
• United States
1 Apr 08
Everyone has a different opinion about everything The key is to discuss these things as calmly as possible. If you find yourselves in a fight that seems to be getting more and more heated then you two need to agree to walkk away for a period of time and come back to the topic when the two of you are calmer. Remember when you are discussing something that your are not right and she is not right but the correct answer is some where in between the two of you. When you are both convinced that you rae right then you start to try to make sure that person thinks the same way you do. And you get frustrated when they don't. It is not about being right, it is about the two of you making it work.