Does listening to music affect your moods?

@ellie333 (21016)
April 13, 2008 3:29pm CST
I find that if I want to get on in the house I play something really upbeat and polish to the beat of the music, if I want to cry I'll play something sad and I daren't put anything with a fast beat on in the car as I am likely to speed, but I also find that if I am feeling low if I put some lively music on it can lift my mood. Does music affect you in this way. Please share. Ellie :D Any responses received tomorrow as away for a few days I will respond to but upon my return. Ellie :D
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@AmbiePam (86277)
• United States
24 Apr 08
My mom said when I was a baby, all the way up to about the age of ten, when slow music would come on the radio or TV, I'd cry. I didn't cry when I was ten, but I'd become depressed. That doesn't happen anymore. I guess I grew out of it. I can listen to slow, even sad music and it doesn't bring me down. I'm glad I can appreciate something beautiful without it being ruined because of my emotions. I usually feel relaxed now when I hear a slow song. But some songs still do make me cry. : )
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@AmbiePam (86277)
• United States
24 Apr 08
That is so cool! I think you might be right about the cause. I'm amazed at the studies that have been done showing babies can hear what goes on outside the womb. What a wonderful thought.
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@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
Hello AmbiePam, It makes sense really, they say also that if you read books out loud whilst they are in the womb it encourages them to want to be read to as children and that the type of music effects. I wonder what your mother listened to when carrying you, it would be interesting to find out if you are able, maybe she was emotional listening to music whilst pregnant with you which in turn was passed onto you somehow with you crying at sad songs. I craved chicken when pregnant with the particular daughter too and she absolutely adores chicken above all other foods. Very interesting indeed. Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
Hello AmbiePam, Thank you for sharing your thoughts on music. I am so pleased it no longer mads you sad listening to slow songs. One of my daughters when she was a baby would only ever go to sleep listening to loud music, I put that down to the fact that I went to see a lot of lively bands whilst I was pregnant with her! Even now as a teenager she can fall asleep with noise whereas it keeps the rest of the house awake. Ellie :D
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• Philippines
24 Apr 08
Well, it depends when the song really catches my attention. If the song catches my soul, I tend to be carried away by the lyrics and the notes of the song. I'm a frustrated musician, but that doesn't mean that I can't play any instruments, its just that, I gave up this career and stopped pursuing it for some personal reasons. Btw, great topic you have.
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@ellie333 (21016)
25 Apr 08
Thank you Kalmonyague. Sorry to hear you are a frustrated musician keep playing and enjoying getting carried away by the music. They say love is an universal language but I believe music is too. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Ellie :D
@ellie333 (21016)
25 Apr 08
ooops the y was supposed to be a t that was a tying error on my part, I really didn't mean to spell your name wrong. Ellie :D
• Philippines
25 Apr 08
Nah, its okay. People commit mistakes. And btw, thanks for the concern. Kudos to you! :D
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
24 Apr 08
Most definitely fast music puts me in a happy mood.If im already feeling down I do not like listening to slow love music or any type of sad music.Gospel puts me a great mood to.
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@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
Gospel is very uplifting happy mucis I agree. Slow sad songs do tend to bring you down more if in a sad mood. Thanks for sharing. Ellie :D
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
18 Apr 08
With so much variety availabe, is is hard not to find the kind of music that changes our mood from being sad to being happy in an instant. It can happen the other way round of course but there are buttons that can be used to change the mood back again. Have a great day from Deeeky/
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@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
19 Apr 08
Another good point that you have brought up is that there are so many items that produce music wherever we go and even places where we can enjoy that same music played by live bands and groups and even orchestras.
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@ellie333 (21016)
18 Apr 08
Thanks for sharing. Yes there is just so much variety out there now isn't there. I listen to the radio in the mornings and at work but tend to choose my own CDs to listen too in the evenings and depending on mood usually dictacts what I will listen too. Ellie :D
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
31 Aug 08
Yes. Fast msuic makes me want to dance and slow music drags me down. Sad music makes me cry and upbeat music makes me tap my feet lol.
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@ellie333 (21016)
31 Aug 08
Hi Steph, Yes I think those different types do the same to me too. It is great how music can affects us in different wasys like this eh! Ellie :D
• London, England
24 Apr 08
I feel that music does affect your mood. If you are sad, play happy sounding music and you will be happy in no time at all.Soft meditative music can help you to be more calm in life.
@ellie333 (21016)
25 Apr 08
Yes listening to soft music can be very relaxing. I play soft music to my son before he goes to sleep with the sound of waves. My daughter though used to only go to sleep listening to very lively music but we all put it down to the fact that I went to see a lot of loud, lively bands when I was pregnant with her and as a baby she would sleep through noise, which was great really. Even now she never goes anywhere without her iPod. Thank you for sharing. Ellie :D
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
24 Apr 08
not really, but my mood will influence the music i listen too, the music has to match my mood blessed be
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@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
mood music so to speak, that actually makes more sense than does it affect your mood. Thanks for sharing. Ellie:D
• Oman
24 Apr 08
music affects my mood. that is why I carefully choose the music that I listen to. I like upbeat and music with positive lyrics. helps a lot when I'm really down.
@ellie333 (21016)
25 Apr 08
Yes I agree listening to lively upbeat music can lift the mood if you are feeling down. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this subject. Ellie :D
• Canada
24 Apr 08
i love music. It completely relaxes me when i need it. However when i am upset i hear the song differently and it worsens my mood lol So typically when i am happy, sad, angry, frustrated, or whatever my mood may be, i choose to write instead of listening to music.
@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
I quite often wrtie to release any frustrations and anger too and then turn what I have written into a poem. I think most people enjoy music but like you say if you are upset hearing a song you would usually enjoy you hear differently, I agree. Ellie :D
@figjam00 (1445)
• India
24 Apr 08
Music is one of the best stress relievers. I listen to music anywhere I can. Music affects your mood. If you listen to some sad song you will sense a gloom even if you are happy. When I want to pump myself I listen to rock kind of music and after I am really get pumped up. Music is great for lovers I mean if you are with you're someone special and you play some romantic kind of music you will feel the emotions very effectively. I cannnot live without music. Music is kinda of tonic to level my moods. Even writng this respense I am listening to music and it help to respond well.
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@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
Hello figjam00, Yes music is a good stress reliever I agree better than antidepressants if you are feeling sad eh! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this and keep enjoying listening to the music and pumping yourself up. It is lovely to spend an evening with a partner playing romantic music it adds to the ambience. Ellie :D
@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
23 Apr 08
Gosh, a week ago. I'm late~~ eh, it does affect. Oftentimes i'm clear, i mean have nothing in the brain, don't consider anything. Then i turn on the radio, if it's a sorrowful one, i'd feel blue, recall my sore mmemories. but it's animate, i'd be encouraged and try to be optimistic. do affect me a lot
@ellie333 (21016)
23 Apr 08
Hi Lynette no the time factor does not matter. Thank you for sharing. Yes sometimes music can make you sad and at other times very happy. Ellie :D
@izhang (76)
• Philippines
24 Apr 08
yup!!so much.,.,every time i am so depressed i just play rock and loud music,,and i just feel better,.,and if a hear love songs i dont know why but then i would feel so in love,.,.i'd remember all of my crush and all of sweet memories,,.,its really weird!!.,and everytime i am happy,.,i play playful songs and dancebeats,.., ^___^
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@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
Thats great that you enjoy music so much and that you change you mood if sad by playing something uplifting and love songs bring back happy memories. Thank you for sharing. Ellie :D
@chiccb (42)
• Philippines
24 Apr 08
Yes it does, affect my mood, everytime I listen to love songs I just want to sit back, relax, sing along and enjoy the music.
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@ellie333 (21016)
24 Apr 08
Thats lovely that love songs make you sit back and relax. Thanks for sharing. Elle:D
@gcabando (313)
• Philippines
23 Apr 08
My mood definitely affects the music I listen to, If I am upset, I will listen to Joshua Kadison to calm me down. If I am trying to get motivated, I listen to D.J. Rectangle mixes to get me up and moving.
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@ellie333 (21016)
23 Apr 08
Hi gcabando thanks for sharing its amazing how music can affect us all isn't it. Ellie :D
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
15 Apr 08
I used to select music to go with my mood, like if I was depressed I wanted to listen to sad songs. Now certain songs will come on and I will perk up because I like the upbeat music.
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@ellie333 (21016)
18 Apr 08
Hi Winterose, Thanks for sharing I certainly find too that the more upbeat the music the more my mood lifts but if I want a good cry to release something playing sad songs helps get it out. Ellie :D
• China
23 Apr 08
Yes,but when Will choose music depends on the mood,Music is our friends who can talk with us whatever the mood,lol..
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@ellie333 (21016)
23 Apr 08
I class music as a friend too. Thanks for sharing. Ellie :D
@littleowl (7157)
15 Apr 08
hi ellie-yes i think music has a big effect on your moods-when doing housework i like soft tranquil music as it relaxs me when i feel like a really happy etc i put on upbeat music and so on-i think music plays a big part in our lives as it does affect our moods-you friend littleowl
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@ellie333 (21016)
18 Apr 08
Hi Littleowl. Yes I think music plays such a big part in most peoples lives whether they even realise it or not. It certainly is a very powerful media too as there are so many messages within the music. Thank you for sharing. Ellie :D
@siriya (200)
• India
19 Apr 08
Music surely affects the mood. I listen to soft music whenever I feel bored. It has got the magical effect, it creates calmness.
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@ellie333 (21016)
19 Apr 08
Thank you for sharing. Yes music can certainly relax and calm you. Ellie :D
• India
19 Apr 08
yeah music is something that deals with my sudden mood swings all teh time!!it really works great for me.when i'm feeling low and down in the dumps i would play something peppy and upbeat and i feel better.and when i am happy and feeling great and somebody plays a sad song number it lowers my spirits in an instant.i think it has psycological effect on human beings.no wonder music has been given so much importance in every area.
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@amitpuri (457)
• India
19 Apr 08
yep i think music is the most important part of my life,i listen music not to set my mood but according to my mood and i can say my mood and music are indispensable from each other.it surely affect my mood and my rhythm. i enjoying it doing my work and for sure the best friend of mine is the music.
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@ellie333 (21016)
19 Apr 08
Hello, Thank you for sharing. I like how to liken music to being a best friend, but I can see that as music is loved and it does have an effect on modds certainly and of your choice of what to play. I have just noticed how close you are to 100 and getting your first star. You have achieved a lot in a short time. Well done, keep posting. Ellie :D