how often do you buy clothes for yourself?

United States
April 22, 2008 3:28pm CST
I was single for 30 years and have stable a job after College, I was the breadwinner for my parents and the rest of my income is just for me and for my wants! I oftentimes buy clothes every 15 and 30 for myself and end up giving it to my sister when I don't like it anymore. When I got married and jobless, I had a hard time adjusting for myself, lots of priorities, bills and all. I learned to budget my money from my husband and just buying clothes like once every two months! How about you?
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@gemini_rose (16264)
22 Apr 08
Do you know something, I absolutely love clothes, I always have from being a kid. But because of the way that I chose to live my life I could never afford them. Then of course I went on to have 4 children and so now their needs come before mine and even though I am acutally in need of clothes now rather than just wanting to buy them, I still cannot because the kids always need more!!! I would love to just be able to buy a couple of things every month, but by the time the bills are paid and the kids are sorted there is just nothing left over!!
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• United States
22 Apr 08
Great wife and mom, I miss my mom gemini by your message!Cheers! I am also looking forward to be like my mom and you and I know it will be always as possible as it is if I will have my own child already! But, this time, honestly, I am trying to control myself since,it will not be fair to my husband if I will demand and demand then I have no income yet! Cheers!
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@gemini_rose (16264)
22 Apr 08
You will make your mom proud trust me, and when your time comes to be a mom you will be fantastic!! Thanks for best response, take carexx
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• United States
22 Apr 08
wow...that is very great motivation! Cheers! Enjoy posting!
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@kezabelle (2974)
22 Apr 08
I dont buy clothes for myself that often just when I need it really im not one for shopping just for the sake of it. I prefer to spend my money on my girls so I dont go without but unless I really need something the extra cash goes on their clothes which they are always growing out of!
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• United States
22 Apr 08
Hi kezabelle! You remind me of my close officemate, every time we will decide to shop before, she will end up in children's section and very excited to get clothes for her girl! She told me, it's not really what she think of but once you will have a kid, things change and you will always prioritize them.A sign of a good mom indeed!
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@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
22 Apr 08
I dont usually buy much for my self as my mom buys me so much I dont need to buy any. Lately due to my expanding belly I have had to buy lots of new clothing and it sucks cause I cant wear maternity clothing after this lol.
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• United States
22 Apr 08
Well shes pretty booked up mabey she can fit you in sometime lol.
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• United States
22 Apr 08
LOL, I love that line! Happy posting minnie!
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• United States
22 Apr 08
wow...you're very lucky to have your mom! Can I borrow her minnie? joke! Cheers! enjoy!
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
22 Apr 08
i only buy clothes when i need them like for instance, now, i could use some new t shirts because my old ones from last year, look well kinda old. if i see a really good deal (i got some pants at walmart for $4-) i will buy that, or if i go to a thrift store, which i do quite often and see something, i will buy it, but at a regular store? maybe about a couple of time a year.
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• United States
22 Apr 08
I agree cher! When I got here, I was very shock with the prices! and ask right away my partner where can I find thrift store! One thing I have to learn in this marriage life is to know how to save for the future! It's totally different when I was still single!
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• Indonesia
23 Apr 08
me too, i just buy cloth if i have a good feel with that's
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
11 Jul 08
When I had small children I never bought myself anything except the necessities. Now that my children are grown adults I do buy for myself but not much as I still have other bills to pay. I have recently lost 25 lbs. and still dieting and want to lose another 15 lbs. so I had to go out and buy myself some new pants and shorts because all of my old ones were way too big. But I haven't had to buy very many new tops as the weight I lost wasn't from the top part of my body. I hope with the next 15 lbs. I lose, it comes from the top as I am still very big busted and don't like it. I know that is what people younger than me want, big boobs, but I don't because I have always had big ones and I would like them to be smaller so I can fit the more sexy and trendy tops. So to answer your question I buy myself something new about once a week and I am loving it. It is so nice to have some new clothes as all of my other clothes are probably about 15 years old or more. I have thrown out the old too big jeans and I need more to replace them so I will continue to treat myself once a week and buy something new.
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• United States
11 Jul 08
Wow, that's a great accomplishment chrislotz, I am also hoping to lose even 5-10 lbs..I am not yet successful..LOL!
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
11 Jul 08
It isn''t as hard as I thought it would be to lose weight. All I did and am doing, is watching my carbs. The first month I cut them all out completely and I lost 15 pounds and was so happy and surprised. But cutting all carbs out of my diet wasn't easy and I am now eating some but am very careful how much i eat of them. Carbs are straight sugar that stays in our bodies and is hard to burn off, so by cutting back on them you will automatically lose weight. Try it and let me know how it goes.
@ellie333 (21016)
22 Apr 08
I very rarely buy clothes for myself unless really needed. I will be this week as I have a wedding and an Annivesary celebration to go to next month, but a couple of times a year I will go on a shopping spree and but new shoes, jeans and tops. Years ago before having a family I would but most weekends and up giving most away, I never had a sister but to close friends. These days I will buy clothes for the children rather than for myself and me, my friends and neighbours all swap goodie bags of what we no longer wear with each other and that is a great way of getting something new but without spending and lots of fun too. Ellie :D
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• United States
22 Apr 08
Hi ellie, thanks for sharing! I love that idea, like swapping/trading, you are giving me an idea, LOL! i hope I will get to know with our neighbors soon and be friends with them since I am new here!
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 Apr 08
Oh you should try it, I am sure it won't be long before you get to know everyone. We have such fun with it rummaging through the bags. Only last week I came home with a pair of black jeans, a worn once pair of Reebok trainers and a nice leather belt oh and a cheeky top for one of my daughters. I suppose it is like a bartering system really but these items are new to me and mine that I give are new to them and any that none of us want or that don't fit we pass along again. Just to give you a giggle re clothes my daughter wanted me to dye her hair tonight and asked if I had an old t-shirt she could wear I said yes middle draw on right there are two, one white one blue you can put on to wear, they are in the drawer for decorating clothes, well she just fell in love with the white one and said mum no way can I have this! So hence she wore the blue for me to dye her hair in. I would never have thought it would even be something she would wear, just goes to show how much I know about fashion these days eh! Ellie :D
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• United States
22 Apr 08
I will take that word, I will be trying my best to know all these people around us so I can start having fun with swapping! I just love the idea, I have never tried that before! wow! that is something very exciting for your child, hhahahhaha! you know my friends always dye their shirts before, and it really wonderful especially if there are designs on it!
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@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I buy myself new clothes every six months or a year or so. I'm pretty thrifty in that department. It always seems like there are more worthwhile thing to spend the money on like activism or seeking justice.
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• United States
4 Jul 08
Thanks for sharing cripfemme..I only realize that now thAt I am jobless for a while, whenever I'll get a job soon, I need to minimize buying stuff!LOL!
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
6 Jul 08
At the moment I don't buy clothes much for myself as I am on a strict budget. If I buy clothes it is mostly for my children, especially bubs as she is growing bigger by the day, lol. When I start work again next year I probably buy clothes for myself every 1-2 months, depending on whether I see things that i like.
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• United States
6 Jul 08
okra - flower of my okra
Hi kiran, I also wish to have a job soon, it's hard to spend when we don't have enough income, priorities are basic needs! thanks for sharing!
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
i often buy clothes when i have money to buy clothes for my self. but i like to buy on hukay-hukay and not to branded thirst and shorts.
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• United States
22 Apr 08
Hello carinio, you make me LOL again! long time no see friend! Anyway, in our town we call it "ukay-ukay", since we are from visayas! and I love it so much! I love to fight with the crowd digging for the best that I cal get! enjoy!
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@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
well what else will you expect for pinoy? you know filipinos its gonna get some fight before you get something you wanted too. as long as there was no ring in the market and no refery then it is good. like many pacquiao says "no hitting below the belt"
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• India
7 Jul 08
well i do go shopping for myself but i would usually take some frnd or one person with good taste for clothing.i would choose for myself but let them pick for me too.my job is not very god payg but i also m not very fond of buying stuff very often.i would buy clothes oly after my old clothes have worn out or too much to wear.
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• United States
7 Jul 08
Thanks for dropping jhony, I guess this time, we better save, I learned it now..LOL!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I do not like to spend to much money on clothing and rarely spent money on myself. I bought clothing every once and a while but not very many pairs as I felt that I shouldn't need to buy so much. I look back now and wonder why I did not spend so very much but I am not disappointed that I did save. Most of my money would go to helping my friends as they were spend thrifty and liked to spend their money and not have any for bills. Have a Wonderful day!
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• United States
6 Jul 08
Wow, that's a great discipline SomeCOwgirl, when I used to work, I always spend for clothes every payday..But, I know I will be different this time that I am married..I need to set limitations! Your friends are lucky to have you!Thanks for sharing!
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@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
6 Jul 08
Clothes shopping, what is that. LOL I have not bought clothing in so long. I worked at a job where jeans were acceptable, no need to buy clothes. Then I went to a job that was business casual, no need to buy clothes. Now, I am unemployed, No Need to buy clothes. I did buy a dress from a catalog two years ago, when my husband's son got married, it is a waste of money, I do not have anywhere to wear that dress
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• United States
7 Jul 08
Hi sudalunts, thanks for sharing and I understand your case, i have no work also this time so buying clothes often is totally impractical!
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
2 Jul 08
I try to buy at least one pair of pants every 2 months and a one or two shirts a month. Usually though I end up buying more for my daughter. I just always think I can do without.
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• United States
4 Jul 08
That's great baileycows!
• United States
2 Jul 08
Hahaha really i never buy clothes for my self.. No like everytwo months maybe and i only like buy two outfits for myself
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• United States
4 Jul 08
Thanks for dropping!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
25 Apr 08
Hi dear Dudgeting is very good thing and it should be done, as it provide u idea as how much u need to allocate to priorities And then u can adjust and c ut them accordingly this will also teach u how to save Well i am not much into buying cclothes u know few jeans few trouser shirts are enough to keep ur wardrobe update
• United States
25 Apr 08
Hello cupid, thanks for that wonderful piece of advise...I am really learning now how to save and budget! and it's quite hard to cope up since I was used to be very free to get anything I want before when I was sinle and got a nice job!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
26 Apr 08
U r Welcome i can understand what u r saying, thats why its said, hope for best, prepare for worst, if u have habit of moderate spensing then its always good Wish u all the best Take care
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
2 Jul 08
I have two children that are now adults, but when growing up I was always buying for them and never for me. The kids always came first and then me, so I very seldom ever bought myself something new. But sometimes I would have no choice since I need clothes and such too. Now that my kids are adults and my husband is gone, I left him, I am now buying for me. I am now living for me and when I need something I will just go buy it.
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• United States
4 Jul 08
Thanks for sharing chrislotz!
@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
23 Apr 08
I buy clothess WAY TOO OFTEN! (LOL) That's the majority of what I spend my money on. It's unfortunate because I wish I were better at saving. I have some money in savings, but I'm a lot like you used to be. I'm engaged now, so when my fiance and I get married, I'm sure it'll be a shocker for me not being able to just go out and buy a cute shirt when I see one. I'll have to show a lot more discipline and self control. It'll definitely be a good thing, though. I know it'll help give me incentive to save because I'll want to take care of my hubby and eventually a family. It'll be worth only buying clothes either when I really need them or every few months like you mentioned. It's worth it to me to give that up for my husband. I think you're a very wise woman! You're a great example to me also. Keep up the good work!
• United States
24 Apr 08
Hello JJ4Ever, Thanks for your response! It's better to collect this time while still single, LOL, at least you will have more than enough and things and priorities change when you get married! Good thing for you, you still have savings, good deal then!
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• United States
24 Apr 08
I agree...lots of changes, beyond imagination! LOL..at least you got some savings you know! I didn't have any savings when I got married...bad me! Joke! I also understand because I was the bread winner for my dad and mom! Enjoy!
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@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
24 Apr 08
LOL - thanks for the tips! I wish I had more money saved for marriage than I do because I know things will change drastically when that happens. It's like all of a sudden I'll have a hubby to care for rather than just myself like I'm used to! (LOL) Thanks for the advice. I'll take anything I can get!
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
Honestly, I don't buy clothes that often unless I really needs new clothes or if I have to buy something for an occassion. I buy clothes maybe every 2 or 3 months.
• United States
22 Apr 08
Hi jes..Thanks for sharing! When I started buying in a flea market when I was still in the PI, I just cant stop! hahahaha...but, in a way , it helps me when I was broke during December, I use some as a gift to my neighbors! Cheers!
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@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
22 Apr 08
i buy as much i as i can...lol..i love to shop..:))
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• United States
22 Apr 08
you are very lucky girl! I wish also to have a good job so I can also buy something for me once in a while! Even not too many but at least I have enough to wear!
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@digerati (286)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
hello checapricorn, i only buy clothers for myself whenever i like it, either there's a sale, a good style or trend... loves modelling, digerati
• United States
24 Jun 08
Hi digerati, Thanks for sharing. I also love fashion and modeling..LOL!