would you be friends with someone that is gay or lesiaban

United States
April 26, 2008 11:41pm CST
well me i have gay friends and lesiaban friends and we get along good they now im straight and they respect that and i respect who they choose to be so would you have a problem being friends with someone who is gay or lesiaban ?
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@BUSSY1979 (1283)
• United States
27 Apr 08
yes i would. b/c, IMO, they are the same as me. they are no different than i. to being gay or lesbian, it doesn't make a difference how they lead their lives. what is the most important IMO is that they are good people and it is not bad people. i don't see any difference in the gays, or the lesbians. to me, they are the same people as me, or whomever out there in the world. i treat them the same way as i would a regular person that i found out there in the world. to me, gays and lesbians are nothing different through my eyes and heart. i will love them as good as i would as i would love another person out there in the world. they are no different to me. thanks for asking, and have a beautiful bright day!
@BUSSY1979 (1283)
• United States
27 Apr 08
hi, i'm disabled myself. and people don't want to admit that that i am. so, i don't care what ppl think of me. that's the way that you should think also. don't let them bug you. you know what's best for you. and if you do have friends that stand up for you, and your rights, than you are ok. you're not going to be bothered by others, b/c your friends are going to hold up for you no matter what. i wish you luck here, and hope that you have a beautiful day! Cheers!
• United States
27 Apr 08
great way of thinking see im disabled and people somtimes judge mebut i dont care what other people think of me but there are good peoploe out there like yourself
• United States
27 Apr 08
Of course not. I have several friends who are gay, lesbian, and bi. They are people just like those of us who are straight and deserve to be treated the same. One of the guys my husband does work for is gay and he is one of the nicest people I know.
• United States
27 Apr 08
thats right i agree with u they r people 2
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
i don't think there's any problem being friends with gay or lesbian people. =) They're still people too. sometimes they are more fun to hang around with, especially gay people, i think... =)
@qdietz (244)
• United States
27 Apr 08
living in San Francisco I am around alot of gay and lesbian people. I honestly do not regard them any differently then straight people, I will become friends just as easily. I have found these people to be quite nice and not different on a day to day basis.
• United States
27 Apr 08
i agree they are just like us
@lady11eve (311)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
i think its really not the gender that matters a lot on making friends...lesbians and gays are humans too,they are also talented honest and true...there are maybe lesbi and gays that are liar and rude,but its no diffrence at all with the straight genders that hits wife and kids or straight girls and guys that nothing else can do but to cheat on there friends family and partners., its really the attitude we should look in to,like can we be friends with gays and straight that you know cheats many of his their friends example they cheat on money?...ofcors not... so for me the gender doesnt matter a lot,i can be friends to lesbian and gays as long as they are are true on me and honest all the way... id rather choose them than a straight guyd who cheats me all the time...
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
1 Jun 08
I have no problem at all being friends with gays and lesbians, in fact some of my best friends are lesbians. After all, who among us thinks their perfect? They are no different then everyone of us and I feel sorry for anyone that thinks differently. Yours truly, Tianna!
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
27 Apr 08
well i don't mind lesbian actually but i do mind gays yea .
@SViswan (12051)
• India
27 Apr 08
As of now I do not have any friends who are gay or lesbian (or maybe I just don't know because they haven't come out into the open yet). I wouldn't have any problems being friends with a gay/lesbian....if we vibe well..I think that's what is more important than a friend's choice in a life partner.
• Jamaica
21 May 08
no, infact my best friend is a lesbian, i still love her
• Philippines
27 Apr 08
yes, i would be friends who would be gay or lesbian. in fact i have a few gay friends and they are great. the way i see it, having a friend doesnt mean you have to look at their gender. there is no category in being friends, as long as i know that, that person can be there for me, supports me and be honest with me, i dont see why that person wouldnt be my friend.