New Friends

United States
May 12, 2008 1:40pm CST
I like to now, what is the best way to have many friends her on Mylot. When you respond to a discussion do you automatically ask that person be your friend or do you go to that person's home page and click on "ADD ME AS YOUR FRIEND" What I've done is go into their main page and click on add me as your friend. Sometimes I get they will add me and other times, I don't hear anything.
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11 responses
• United States
14 May 08
Kalee, the best advice I can give you is to be active. When you make a post to a discussion be clear and honest. It takes some time to build a good circle of friends. Get to know your friends and really take an interest in what you are responding to. it will happen trust me. I am Glad to have you in my list.
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• United States
14 May 08
Kalee then you are doing what you are suppose to be doing :)))))) Relax it will fall in place.
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• United States
14 May 08
Thank you so much, I been trying to post everyday. I do post to the ones that I put my two cents in. Others, I feel bad that I don't write back, but sometimes I really don't have nothing to say about what they are writing about. And next time I see the same person with a new discussion, and it's interesting, I will respond.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
14 May 08
This is a friendly site. So I guess, when you feel like adding them, just do so, if you never heard from them, don't think they don't like you, because we all have reasons. One thing is that, they might be busy. You can add me if you want, I am a newbee here. =)
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• United States
14 May 08
Leateagee, I hope that is all well with you and your family. How close are to where the quake hit? I have also added you to my friends list. Take care.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
14 May 08
Thanks for asking. I live alone here. My family is safe in another country. I am residing in the North-East of China, which means I am far from the earthquake. Thanks for adding me. =)
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
i just surf and response on a lot of discussions here and mostly i recieve a friendship request from them. i am so happy to see that they want me to be their friends. sometimes i am the one who send the add as friend request and i am so happy too if they accept me as a friend. all my friends here i on the notifications so i can receive emails on what discussion they started.
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• United States
5 Jun 08
roniroxas I hope you have a great time here. I know I have, so much to talk about.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
12 May 08
Last April 1, the day I became active here, I remember I respond to any discussions and add them afterwards, and I was trying to make a quota in a day, like I have to add like 40 members in a day so when I will start posting, I will also get enough responses as what was advice to me by some friends. Like you, some accepted me and I didn't hear from others. This time, i got like 300+ friends and only few of them requested me to add them!I know you will be added soon once they are active again!
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• United States
12 May 08
wow, this is a lot of friend. I don't spend to much time here, the first thing in the morning, I'll check my mail to see who has posted any discussion and If I it, I will write back. If I havent add you to my friend list can I add on? thank you
• United States
12 May 08
My pleasure girl! I will wait!
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@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
14 May 08
i am just chatting with strangers for fun. i dont even know who i am talking to. but i prefer to chat with the interesting people i meet on here as pen pals, while the weirdos can stay the hell away from me...some people on the internet, even this place, are really sick and have a problem...
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• United States
14 May 08
I'm also here to make friends nothing else. I like to meet people from other countries.
@sisterjinx (1135)
• United States
12 May 08
I usually wait until I've seen them a few times in posts. If they respond to a lot of the same things I respond to or I seem to answer a lot of their questions then I will go add them as friend. I do this because in this way I can see if they are going to be someone who is going to be able to respond to the things I post and I will be able to respond to most of theirs.
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• United States
12 May 08
Your right, I have not meet anyone that has been mean, I would not like to. Seeing that Mylot is a place to talk and make friends. I like to as you to my friends list if this okay with you.
• United States
12 May 08
That would be fine Hun. Send the request and I'll accept.
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• United States
13 May 08
A lot of times I will get friend requests after responding to someone's discussion. But I have been known to request friends if I find I am responding to a bunch of their discussions and normally they accept. It's very easy to make friends here and before you know it you will have a bunch! Feel free to add me, if you like.
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• United States
12 May 08
i dont have alot of friends on here i dont usually request friends but i will accept all friend requests
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• United States
12 May 08
would be okay to add you to my friends list?
@meiteoh (416)
• Switzerland
12 May 08
I usually take a look at their profile, then add them if it looks interesting and/or if I think they are nice/cool people - how I keep in touch is just by checking out their discussions. I have yet to message any of my friends privately but I am considering doing that. I do get people who add me and I just approve it - whether they reply to my threads OR keep in touch, I don't mind. I guess I'm pretty flexible in that sense. :)
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• United States
12 May 08
I never thought of that, I will look at their profile next time. would it be okay to add you on my friends list?
@nishidh (105)
• India
12 May 08
inmy lot if you want to make more friends than you just post your friends request to whom you post the comment. or you can post request to yours friends friends who listed in ur friensds list
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• United States
12 May 08
thank you, so can i add you as a friend?
• India
13 Mar 13
most of the time i go to the profile page and then i add them as a friend. but many a times i also add them when i get any new discussion , i am still new and will hope to do better.