Do you believe in this one?

Philippines
June 24, 2008 8:10am CST
I received several similar emails like this before. But I really don't believe in this one. Do you think this is true? Because if it's true I won't hesitate to forward this to everybody in my friends list, if by doing it I could help. [b]Dear Reader, I am writing this on behalf of my loving husband. Everything was fine, me, my husband and our two children. We had a happy family. My husband was an Engineer in a big company. He comes home early and helps me with the house chores and plays with the children… Our dreams were shattered in front of our eyes last week. It was a drunk lorry driver, who came on the wrong side and hit us and went. It killed my little baby girl and left my husband paralyzed. My husband is still in the hospital. His brain is damaged and he needs an operation. I need 5 lakhs to save his life I have collected about 3 lahks from my friends and family. I need another 2 lakhs.I don't want to lose him. He is such a wonderful husband & father He still doesn't know we lost our little girl. I am looking after my son now. Without my husband I won't be able to take care of him. Please help me save my husband the one person I dearly love. I have already lost my daughter and I don't want to lose my husband as well. Please help us. Thank you very much for your love & support. May God bless you. Yours Truly, Nirosha Silva (I know you don't like to forward mails. I am really sorry to bother you. If you have a heart and like to help a family, please forward this mail.. Every time you forward this it will add 5 cents per email ID to AOL and they will deposit it into my bank account. This will help me save my husband.) [/b]
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26 responses
• United States
25 Jun 08
It is most likely a scam. How can they get money from forwarding e-mails?
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@norwexer (149)
• Canada
25 Jun 08
If this is true sign me up. However I know it isn't. I have received and seen so many of these scam, everything from the Nigerian scam to the European Lottery scam. If it sounds to good to be true it usually is. Good Luck and Gods Bless
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@eXxodus (204)
• United States
25 Jun 08
The fact that "…" is in the email and Engineer is used as a proper noun (an incorrect usage) leads me to believe that this is fake. Usually things like this would never be circulated via "chain" email if they were real, at least in my thoughts.
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@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
24 Jun 08
Hi there! I haven't seen or received this specific email, but unfortunately it sounds to be another hoax like so many other "junk" emails that get sent around cyberspace asking, begging, pleading for money due to a tragic accident. If they don't ask for money, they encourage the recipient and reader to pass on the email to as many people as possible promising that AOL, Microsoft, etc. will donate 10 cents or some other small amount each time the email is forwarded and read. This sounds all too familiar and similar to other emails I've received from random people. If you ever have questions or doubts about possible "urban fables" such as this email, a good resource is www.Snopes.com, in case you haven't heard of it before. You can search a topic to see what a reputable source has to say about it. I'm really glad you posted this discussion because so many times it's too hard to figure out of something is valid or not! I wish you the best of luck in figuring this thing out. Take care!
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
24 Jun 08
The problem with these things from my point of view is that they could be true as well as a total scam. There's no way of telling and some people would do this to get money from people. One way is to ignore them. Thats probably best. Another is to investigate the authenticity but that could lead to a worse secenario. In today's world of crime and suchlike horrors its best to leave these things alone. Peter does indeed pay for Paul.
• United States
24 Jun 08
longbangod- I have gotten so many emails that have heart-wrenching stories. They are all scams. It is possible, barely, that one real request may make it's way to your inbox, but I would not trust any of them. The truth is, that many Americans myself included, have a very strong level of compassion for others in need, and other people in the world know it. They send emails by the thousands, and if they only get .5% responses, they rake in thousands if not more. I simply do not respond at all to any requests for money whatsoever. I am not rich, and my money can be put to better use. It is so sad that people are scamming Americans at such a geometric rate. You cannot even join a dating site without getting scammed. A hot girl will see your profile and if you seem to be "a nice guy", they will send their picture and a greeting, usually a gorgeous girl from overseas. After a week or more of writing and sending several gorgeous pictures, bam. They are stuck in a hotel in Nigeria and their family or friends or whomever have ditched them there and left them to pay the bill, but their money was taken also. So they need you to send them $500usd or the hotel manager will never allow them to leave the premises. It is all a bunch of hooey- just ignore anything of the kind.
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
25 Jun 08
I dont beleive all these I feel it is just a scam, but sending emails to our friends do not cost us any thing if we have a feeling towards them , we can forward this to few our friends. However, most of these emails will be fraud.
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Jun 08
It is fraud and a scam. Never forward anything like this that you do not know to be genuine. By doing so, you are putting your email address into something that will eventually end up in a spammer's inbox. Then you will get more offers of cheap Viagra and 'Rolex' watches!
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
24 Jun 08
wow that would be a hard one to ignore. I do know people can be doing things to get money but it says just to send it to others they are not asking you to send them money directly so if it were me chances are I would send it on. If it is a hoax well they put a lot of emotion into it but if not it breaks my heart. I do hope that if it isn't that they are able to reach the money they need.
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@egdcltd (12059)
24 Jun 08
I get several variations on this email every week. Think of it as an evolution on the original Nigerian scam email.
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
This kind of email is really hard to ignore. You'll gonna have to think not once, not twice if you're going to forward this or ignore this. At least this email doesn't require you any cash deposits, you'll just gonna forward it, am I right? Well, there's no harm in trying to help. But be very careful with your next step. If this really happens, I hope her husband will recover soon.
@DudaYLen (219)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
Let's give Nirosha Silva the benefit of the doubt and assume she was merely using the money. After all only God knows.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
24 Jun 08
i been receiving a lot of emails with this kind. the story is heart-breaking, but sad to say, i don't believe in this kind of scam. sorry long, that's how i look at those types of forwarded messages...
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@baileycows (3665)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I am sorry. I have not seen this email, but I hate to say that sometimes people exploit bad things to get money or attention. We never know what is real or not.
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@1richgirl (126)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I don't like to MISjudge but I lost my son in an instant and I just can recall that I didn't really think about money or communicating through emails with strangers. I find these schemes are too frequent and too predictable. Usually when this situation arises there is a bank account set up in that persons name so you know who you rally are contributing to. It is a shame that people will prey on the goodness of others.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Jun 08
No, this is a scam. The thing that gives it away is that it states that "it will add 5 cents per email ID to AOL and they will deposit it into my bank account." In the first place, that cannot possibly happen because it is bound to be forwarded by numerous email providers and AOL does not and cannot track them. Secondly, AOL do NOT add 5 cents to an account in this way. I'm afraid that this (and many others like it) are really ways of harvesting email addresses. Most people are very green about forwarding mails (even supposing it is something they SHOULD forward!). They will simply hit the Forward button and add all the addresses they want to send it to into the To: box. Also, they frequently don't bother to delete all of the previous email addresses in the body of the mail. I have received such forwarded mails with over 200 email addresses in them! Spammers delight in such emails (and will have innocent friends whom they encourage to forward such mails to them). They harvest the email addresses from them, feed them into their mailbots and the next thing you know is that you have a dozen offers of Viagra and 'Rolex' watches every day! My advice to you is NEVER to forward such mails (even if it says you will have seven years' bad luck if you don't!). If there is something that you must forward to friends, then this is the way to do it: 1) Hit the Forward button or link. 2) EDIT the mail! Delete all of the addresses and signatures in it and leave only the content that you want others to see. 3) Find the Bcc: box. Sometimes you need to use an extra option to see it but it is always there somewhere. It is not the same as the Cc: box! 4) Put ALL of the addresses you want to send it to in the Bcc: box. 5) Either address the mail to yourself or use a spoof address such as all@friends.com (you will get an error message back, saying that the mail can't be delivered to this address but that doesn't matter!) By doing this, everyone who receives the mail ONLY sees their own mail address and yours.
• India
26 Jun 08
OK I understand, the BCC option does not of course show the other email addresses the mail has been forwarded to. Thnx so much, I’ll be more careful next time before hitting ‘forward’.
• India
25 Jun 08
Well this is a new thing I am seeing these days. Some days back there was this photo of an Iraqi girl horribly burnt by fire due to bomb blast in her country. There was an appeal to forward the mail to as many as possible as again the more email forwarded the more money accumulated for plastic surgery to be done on her. I forwarded the mail to many mainly because though there was no way I could verify the authenticity of the mail yet I was not having to pay any direct money. So if my forwarding of the mail can reach money to some needy persons, why not? But frankly speaking, I really don’t know how this system works? Who can forwarding emails deposit money in somebody’s account? And if this is not so, what’s the scam really about?
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Jun 08
The scam is about harvesting email addresses for use by spammers. Read my response below to see how it is done (and how you should avoid it).
@subha12 (18441)
• India
25 Jun 08
i also received similar mails. i just forwarded them to others. i did not play heed. i do not know whether it is scam or not.but its hard to recognize these
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Jun 08
Please read my response below. By forwarding such mails, you are helping spammers. Please don't!
@irishidid (8687)
• United States
24 Jun 08
It's a scam. They are ALL scams.
• China
25 Jun 08
I green with you, if it's true she doesn't send mail to everybody, and she should find help to TV sation or broadcasting station, many people help her, send mail is not helpful, so it's scam.
• Vietnam
25 Jun 08
I don't think this email is true .Everything may be a joke or fraud ,but sometime ,it may be true ,and what u do can help people who is said in email .SO I think ,if u believe or not ,please forward this email ,If its true ,U help them ,if not ,u lost nothing ,so why don't we try ?
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Jun 08
Forwarding it is the WORST thing you can do! Please see my response below to see why you should never forward such mails (and how to do it properly if you really MUST!)
• China
25 Jun 08
Speak franklly ,i don't believe that.What's the meaning of 5lakhs? is that a kind of money?
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
25 Jun 08
A lakh is an Indian term for 100,000. 5 lakh [rupees] is equal to about $12,000 USD.