Calmness is dangerous ?

India
August 19, 2008 1:14pm CST
I came to know from my one of the magazine that calm people are more dangerous than uncalm people.They can disaster the whole thing in quite a small interval of time.I got surprised while reading that contest in the magazine.Is it so,do u believe in it.If so,leave your comments for it.
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@metalhalo (599)
• United States
19 Aug 08
I don't even understand that theory. How can someone who knows how to remain calm be more dangerous than someone who can't control it? When major tragic situations happen it takes a calm level-headed person to step in and help make things right. A frantic person will only cause the stress level to raise and just make things worse. I would think that's common sense. I'm definitely a more calm person. I observe and then I act on it.
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• India
19 Aug 08
Even i didn't understand the concept in the magazine.I am wondering why the statement has been given like that.
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
it is very true .. people have limits ..its just like a bottle, just because it is not full you keep feeling it but when it is full it starts to overflow.. we have to know when to stop feeling it up .. my husband is very calm .. when i say something to him he will be very quiet and listen to me ... if i keep repeating and irratate him .. he will explode .. normally i do not go to that level ..
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Sep 08
People who force themselves to be calm hold things in and can really explode into action. If you've been holding back from beating people up and then suddenly "loose it" I can see where that would be a really really big difference. Some people who are calm, could be much more dangerous because of that. Sort of reminds me of the Kung Fu show with David Carradine decades ago. He was a quite monk, but when he fought, he was quite explosive sometimes.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Sep 08
That should be quiet monk, not quite. Sorry
• Lubbock, Texas
19 Aug 08
Yes! I had an uncle that you could tease and torment and he wouldn't even act like he was aware of what you were doing, very calm and easy going. . .until he'd had enough, then he'd tie into his 3 older brothers and MAKE them back off. Many people are like that. They are calm, cool, and collected, but that doesn't mean that you can take unfair advantage of them. Some of them will blow up and cause a scene, but the really dangerous ones are the ones that "don't get mad, they get even", and they never let anyone know what they did. The person they got even with just thinks it's a bit of bad luck. Beware of the calm ones!
• India
19 Aug 08
Hey its true.Even people are being like that.Its really surprising me.
@chandu245 (647)
• India
19 Aug 08
Ya off course friend, my friend was very cool and he won't talk more also. If any body blame him then he won't reply to them anything. But one day he given shock to us. Suddenly he beaten those guys who were teasing him daily. So i came to know that it's really dangerous to chat with them upto more time.
• India
20 Aug 08
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
19 Aug 08
Let me make you understand what the thing is you can understand the logic with this Take a Spring (consider it as a person) Press it and Leave it half way it'll go up but for a short height (UNCALM PEOPLE) Press the spring again and keep it pressed upto its end and leave it, would go surely The double than the first Case (CALM PEOPLE) This is what happens with Uncalm people, they in intervals take out their whatever it is and that makes them Less intense, where as the fully pressed string (CLAM) people have it collected inside them and until it just BURSTS out . thats what is DANGEROUS! i hope i cleared the theory? Thanks!
• India
20 Aug 08