If you win a big fortune what would you do with it?

@mimpi1911 (25464)
India
December 19, 2008 4:25am CST
I just heard about a couple who donated a huge sum that they had won in a summer lottery camp to a NGO that they share their thoughts for. I really appreciate, specially when they do not kind of live a decent living! Had we been with all material comforts in life, with nothing to think about, living a comfortable life with a big house, car and decent livelihood and with all that matters, would we still do the same? What would you do? Would you help yourself by supporting the cause you believe in or spend it on yourself?
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28 responses
• United States
19 Dec 08
I would donate a lot to charity. I would prefer it go to helping people rather than to the government. Taxes on large winnings are outrageous if you keep the money for yourself. I don't really have anything material I want that badly. I would like to pay off my school bills and my parents house and maybe buy an office but all of those things will be paid off eventually so I am not really worried about it. I would rather the money go to someone who needs it more.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
I really appreciate your thoughts there. For someone so young like you, this I wasn't expecting! It was a pleasant surprise and made me feel that good people are there irrespective of anything.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
26 Dec 08
I know what you mean and I have been there and know how material can actually rob some weak person of his/her sanity and values many times. I rather not see myself there. you just be the person you are. Wish you a blessed life forever.
• United States
21 Dec 08
Thank you! For some reason I never really got into the materialistic phase that sweeps many young americans off their feet. My family and friends always bring me much more happiness than money. I have always been middle class so I have always had enough to eat and a roof over my head but not much extra and that is ok. I never felt I really needed anything else. It is sad, too much money actually ends up destroying a lot of families so it really is better to give it to someone else many times. Merry Christmas!
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
19 Dec 08
I have been in many ways wanting to help children seeking emergency medical care and who are denied it for the lack of suffecient money. I do know that there are organissations who do help, but there are few and the children who need helpi n this regard are many. This is something that i have been wanting to do something about for a few years now, and get very touched and helpless when seeing a child suffering or dying when there is chance to try and do something. While most of the fortune would be used towards that i would use or save part of it to ensure that the basic needs, requirements and some amount of comfort of my family and loved ones are taken care of.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
19 Dec 08
I really appreciate your thoughts Alok and do wish from the bottom of my heart that you d get to see yourself there soon. The plight of the children in our society is miserable and condemnable. And instead of playing the blaming game we must ensure to do our bit. that makes so much of a difference. I am sure you will agree. With the change in the socio-economic structure of our country the conscience has been changing a lot. And I am sorry but it's for the worse. I would be a great move to be able to empathize with the less fortunate children. We can take up one child t stat with and with proper resources we can reach out to more. With associations with organisations I am sure you will do great and help yourself. Good luck!
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
20 Dec 08
I most certainly agree Mimpi. Although the medical care is something that that these children require has caught my attention and awakened my desire to do something, there is somuch more that can be done in terms of education,clothing,food...There are organisations that do get involved, but at the same time would like to be in the forefront of things once in while to see the smile on their faces and the glimmer in thier eyes.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
Just one day try to visit one home for the under privileged children and buy them ant little thing that you find suitable and see then smile. I think that's the ultimate bliss! I did that once.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
19 Dec 08
that is a very noble deed.All of us like to think we are selfless, as there is nobility in putting the interests of others ahead of one’s own. In large measure, selflessness is what makes us human.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
19 Dec 08
If I get such an huge amount, I would also like to donate the same to an orphanage or such organisation. I believe, that we must donate, othewise, some part of our earnings to the under-priviliged. I think, we if donate, God will give us more to enjoy our life.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
I really appreciate Deepak. we can do it in our own way. It need not be in a large scale but whatever little we do matters.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
20 Dec 08
Yes, I should be sincere in our efforts.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
19 Dec 08
I think i will be frank here.If i win a huge sum , the first thing i would do would be to put a certain amount away , so that i am able to live in comfort, i am not too bothered about luxury.I would go about helping my relatives and others who are in need of money and donate only if i am sure that it is going to reach where it should.I have seen the way the funds are mismanaged as i have a relative working for one of the leading International Charitable organisation.They give out only what is left over after the staff distribute the money and other things among themselves - the money that is sent for the needy children.I would rather do the distribution and help personally without involving any one else
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
Hi Kiran I agree and I tend to do something like that. Contributing money wise gets difficult and I try to reach out to the orphanage, near our house with clothes, sweets, blankets, toys. The glitters in their eyes is so blissful!
• Philippines
19 Dec 08
If I received or won any amount first of all as much as I would like to help a lot of people I would like to first help the ones dearest and closest to me. First I would like to secure my kids future or at least get them an educational plan till college and help my mom who definitely got nothing but us at the moment on her therapy so she could walk again, send my brothers to school and if I'm blessed with all the money in the world (LOL) then I'd do a little something something for my self and my hubby then I'd like to invest on some properties, build a big house for the street children, get some teachers for them, a playground and then the same for those handicapped.... I could go on and on... oh I forgot if I got a little money right now, I'd go back to school so I can work and provide for my kids.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
That's so well distributed. We must be happy with ourselves and our loves ones must be at peace and then only we can go about charity. wish you all you want in life.
• Singapore
20 Dec 08
donation to the charity of course will be part of the plan as i believe there is also needy out there that need our help. Next will be bringing my loved one to a world tour
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
..sshh........no discussing salary, honey... - Letting the spouse know about salary is an ego issue for many.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
Sorry for the wrong pic there.
• Singapore
26 Dec 08
i would like to say here that i'm gonna donate a huge chunk of it to a charity organization. but if truth be told, i will use a part of the money to pay off my car loan and credit card debts :( and if there's enough, a nice honeymoon far far away....for hubby n me....i've been back to work 1 day after my wedding day sigh..
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
26 Dec 08
Great to know that Eunice. We must first ensure our happiness in order to make others smile. Good luck!
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
21 Dec 08
Good morning, mimpi. I have not been interested in buying lotteries for more than a decade because I don't think that I would be that lucky to win a big fortune. But if I win a big one, I think that I will be more practical to improve my family life as well as my parents', parents-in-laws', siblings and some of my best friends, as they are close to me and they back me up in my career. Maybe I should buy some lotteries one day to try my luck to win a big fortune. With enough money, I will have a lot of things to do, like making some real estates, which is my favorite... I wish good fortune falls on my dear mimpi.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Dec 08
William, i have never bought a lottery as yet! But just asked if we would win a great fortune how effectively we could spend it and i get that you would use it most effectively.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
19 Dec 08
Wow, I am clueless. What is an NGO?
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
A non-governmental organization (NGO) is a legally constituted organization created by private organizations or people with no participation or representation of any government. In the cases in which NGOs are funded totally or partially by governments, the NGO maintains its non-governmental status insofar as it excludes government representatives from membership in the organization. Source: Wikipedia
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
20 Dec 08
Oh, OK, thanks, I should have looked it up. Well, I don't enter lotteries, so I guess this is not a decision I will ever have to make :-)
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
22 Dec 08
Hi dear well its really nice to hear about it well, first of all i dont buy lotteries or prize bonds bit IF IF IF, i won some thing, i wont say all i will give in NGO or in Charity, but portion of it, Max 15-20% i am greedy, i cant think of giving all
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Dec 08
You are not greedy Zass, you are only being human.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
23 Dec 08
Oh thanks nowadays to be Human is not bad achievement Take care
@mayka123 (16590)
• India
22 Dec 08
Discussion for mylot - A new discussion for mylot
I think if I had to get a huge sum I would keep some of it for myself and my kids and spend some of it in an orphanage where I go frequently.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Dec 08
I really appreciate mayka.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
19 Dec 08
I don't know. To be honest, I think I would spend some for myself and then share it with a few charities that I think need my help and those close to heart. Kudos to the very generous and kindhearted couple though.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
I think, most would do that. Looking into our comfort and saving for security is not bad. I think, we need to bee happy and peaceful in order to reach out to a larger segment. Hope you are doing well. Merry Christmas.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
Enjoy your celebration Sisi. And do lots and lots of shopping and have a blast. Love and hugs.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
20 Dec 08
Thanks, Mou. I'm doing well. Just worked from 9a to 10 or 11p (an hour break between) the last three days. And now I'm freaking out a little bit as I just realized that I'm doing an early Christmas celebration with Boyfriend's mom and I am not done with my shopping and I only have a couple hours set for it tomorrow. I hope you are doing well also.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
Will give help first to my own relatives who are very much in need, then buy my children houses and lots of their own, give them capital for business give them money to be deposited in a bank for their future, share my brothers and their families also won't forget my friends whom I used to run to in times of need then will give to charitable institutions and 10 per cent will go to the church.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Dec 08
Great to know this bing! You are a wonderful human and God bless.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Dec 08
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
24 Dec 08
hehe how we wish everyone will have a good big fortune to have their dreams fulfilled but it's alright even little fortunes such us continuous earnings or having stable job will do for us to to enjoy life...Merry Christmas...
• China
20 Dec 08
That couple's action is very admirable.If I have that big fortune,I will buy house and other needed things for my parents.Then will give some parts to my relativea and friends.The remainder will be put in the bank for use.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Dec 08
Thanks Chelsea and I really appreciate.
@jewilim (495)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
I think it depends on how much i have won. If i have won something really very very big then i guess i would be putting up a company where i would be employing all people who are jobless especially those who have nothing and those who have not finished their education or even those who had no educational background. I just had this thing in mind eversince i was still young that i belive if everyone would just given the opportunity to make their life better i think they would really choose to. I think the only purpose that there are still people who are living a difficult life is maybe because they were not given an oppotunity to live a better live. I think if we could only offer equal opportunities to all people in our country whether rich or poor i think we could really minimize crimes that are being commited by people. I hope someday there would come a time where we could eliminate poverty in our country so that we could have a better place to live in.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Dec 08
You have very good thoughts and values jewilim, I really appreciate. May all your wishes come true. Have a great year 2009.
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
If ever I win a big fortune the first thing I will do is to build my own house. Make some businesses. Secure the future of my children. Give my mom some money to spend with. My whole family will travel. Give some money to my aunts and uncles. Donate to the less fortunate children. Donate some to the church. there is a lot more I want but spend it to help others and yourself for the benefit of all.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Dec 08
That's so good of you desiree (great name!). I wish all your desires come true.
@MizzLadyB08 (1174)
• United States
20 Dec 08
If I won a big fortune I would first buy me a house since I have never owned my own home, then I will pay up all of my bills and then i would put the rest of the money in the bank and start a college fund for my daughter. I will also look out for my family.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
Good luck!
• China
20 Dec 08
i will go to travel with my parents and my wife first .if it is a big money so that i can't spend it over,i will give it to charity orgnization!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Dec 08
Good luck!
@chaomi (56)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
For me, I would keep half for myself and give half to charities that really need it. I said I'll keep some for myself because I'll use it to pay for my tuition in college so that my parents won't think of it anymore, and then maybe I can save the remaining amount for future uses or donate it again to less fortunate people.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Dec 08
You are a balanced person and I really appreciate.