Sadly....

@Ravenladyj (22902)
United States
January 18, 2009 6:00pm CST
"Nanny M" passed away this afternoon....they took her off the ventilator and if she couldnt breathe on her own they were NOT putting her back on...with her pnemonia, her doign it unassisted pretty much wasnt goin to happen...Shortly after, she died...I've not talked to Roxy yet but her daughter PM'd me and told me.... My heart is so shattered right now..I wish I could be there right now with Rox and her kids..I hate not being there Thank you all for your positive thoughts, prayers and words....Believe me its greatly appreciated... to make thsi a damn discussion...heres a question.. Ever feel so helpless it hurts?
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
21 Jan 09
I am so sorry, my condolence go out to you and her family.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
20 Jan 09
So sorry for your loss Raven. I hope you get to be with your friend soon so you can each give each other the comfort you must need to share. Amongst all the sadness and hurting I hope there is joy too as you remember happy times.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
19 Jan 09
I so sorry to hear of your dear Nanny M passing. I had read your other discussion just yesterday about her and didn't get a chance to reply to it, so I'm sorry to hear about her now. My prayers are with you and for Nanny M's family.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
19 Jan 09
Oh my gosh, I am SO sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you. I know what its like not to be able to be present in a situation like this and the feeling of helplessness it envokes. As if things weren't hard enough, distance makes it all the more difficult. Sending you much love.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
19 Jan 09
Hey Raven~ I'm so sorry about your friend's passing. I know that you are very upset right now and I do understand how difficult this is for you. But, as I had said to you only yesterday that she is in a better place and no longer suffering or in pain. I know that you would want that for her since you did love her so much. And I also know that you will be there for her family when you can. But, for now you can only grieve and take comfort with knowing that you are not alone in your thoughts and prayers. I do hope that you will be able to get through this loss in the best way possible. I will keep you and this family in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless. Your friend, Opal