Are Homosexuals Born or Made?

United States
February 4, 2009 2:53am CST
Ok I know I'm probably opening a big can of hot worms...(no pun intended) But I guess that's what mylot is all about huh? I've heard a lot of discussions from both sides of this coin and I would really like to get some insight into this. Some people say, they're born that way because it no one would consciously choose to be homosexual when it's so unpopular or because they're so mistreated in today's society, but I beg to differ on that. Nowdays a lot of people think it's "cool" to be gay. And if that was the case, that would also apply to Christians or anyone else who chooses a certain way of life. Christians and other religions have been persecuted for centuries and a lot of people still choose to worship. I believe the only thing that we really have no choice about is the color of our skin or who our parents are, and everything we do in our lives after we're old enough to live our own lives is by choice. If being gay is not a choice and people are actually born that way, then are their genes different? Is there something different in the makeup of their brains or is it hormonal? Have they done any studies on this? If it's not a physical difference, then it has to be emotional or mental and thus it is a choice and not something we're born with or without. Can you prove me wrong on this?
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
4 Feb 09
Geneticist is still searching for the gene that purportedly caused a person born homosexual. So i can not say for certain it is born or it is a choice one make.
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
4 Feb 09
I think homosexuals are born, not made.
@Galena (9110)
4 Feb 09
there have been studies where they found that the brain of sheep that displayed homosexual behaviours was physically different to the brain of ones that didn't. I believe that no one can help who they are attracted to. and that sexuality is not a strict one or the other. it's a sliding scale. some of us are closer to one end, some to the other, and some more in between.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
Oooppss.. you've really opened a lot more than a can of worms honey. Hehehe.. I made the same mistake a few months ago. Anyhow, I've learned that they're not made. They are born homosexuals and they can't do anything about it just like anyone else.