What do you often do with your friends

@kometer (151)
China
May 1, 2009 2:48am CST
I have been alone for a long time.Sometimes I want to change the situation,but when I meet with my classmates or some guys I know,I don't know what to do or what to say.It seemed that I have less friends just because I don't know what to do and what to say with my friends. What do you often do with your friends?
4 responses
@AikaruJ (281)
• Philippines
1 May 09
i go out and have coffee or lunch with them.. sometimes, we'll go out and have a drink.. we go to parks, amusement parks, play bump car, arcade games, billiards, bowling, table tennis, tennis and skates.. or we just walk a very long walk.
@kometer (151)
• China
2 May 09
It seems you have a good time with your friends.
@AikaruJ (281)
• Philippines
2 May 09
yes i really have great times with them.. we simply enjoy being with each other
• Finland
1 May 09
Basicly hang around and talk. But your problem seem to be to putting your self out there and making "real" friends. And you should not pick you friends just becouse you are classmates. Classmates are a group of people put together just becouse they live in the same area and are of same age. Try joining a club/course in your school or in you community that is about your favorite hobby/subject. People that share the same intresst can talk endlessly about the subject and you can´t say or do anything wrong (it´t even better if you have a differet view on the subject this leads to more talking/debate)...form there frinds works out just bye chance.
@kometer (151)
• China
2 May 09
Thanks for your tips. It seemed nobody interested in what I think is interesting.
@sinokirin (900)
• China
2 May 09
Something would change when you grow up, i mean, if you just graduated from school,you would miss them, so you might keep close connetion with them,it is okay,you know,and following the time passed, you have own life,wife,kids and collegaues, and then you would lose the intersted with your friends,in fact, if you were still interested,and no time anyway.And when your kids grow up,and you would have the time again, you would have the time to connect with them. Yeah,it is my life now,lol,and i liked to go out with my friends to KTV and go shopping, but now, i only give them a call,you know, i have married and have a daughter now, i should stay home for so long time.
@goolonga (75)
• Australia
1 May 09
when i go out with my friends we usually go to the movies or hang around someones house or go to a local festival (if one is on). you shouldn't really have to think about what to say around your friends, just say what comes to your head (as long as it wont make your friends hate you) just pretty much do what you would normally do in breaks or whatever.
@kometer (151)
• China
1 May 09
I used to stand by my friends for a whole day without say a word.I don't know what to say,nothing comes to my mind.