why is that when you love someone so much and she tries to ignore you.

India
May 26, 2009 1:02pm CST
When you love someone so much and she ignores you- how do u feel. when you love someone and she tries to insult, she makes fun of you-- how do u feel. Why is that she takes you granted--is it only because u r fond of her, you love her. How can some one act like a stone, senseless, lifeless, emotionless--is she a human being or something else. Why cant I act like her. she is so close to others, she is so happy with others why then this indifference??? Big confusion.
4 responses
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
26 May 09
Some people can be VERY cruel and use others for their personal enjoyment by mocking them and making them feel belittled. It doesn't matter that I don't know you, we all are AMAZING creatures of God and therefore have all the right in the world to be treated as such. No one has the right to put anyone else down. Only you can stop it from happening. PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN and end it!!
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• India
26 May 09
It is not that easy to forget someone whom u love so much. I mean can you do it,if you are in a situation like that? One has to be strong to put a stop-- it takes time. May be this is a learning lesson for me. BUt why do others take granted --is that only because you open up, you like them, you love them.
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
26 May 09
No of course not. If a person feel the same about you then there are no games. But if they don't then, although it is hard you have to let go and move on because they will only continue to hurt you because they don't care for you.
@justmeh (188)
• Philippines
26 May 09
I would really feel bad. That would be the most embarrassing days of my life. Imagine the one you like is just ignoring you like a stone?and making fun of you like a puppet?What does she/he thinks of me?Just a useless crap?...
• India
27 May 09
Thanks for ur concern.
@srsade (26)
27 May 09
When u love someone deeply,u r not only giving them right to love but also to hurt u..Everybody will have their own reasons for doing the same..I am not justifying th way she handles u but she might have thought unless she does these kind of crap,u will not leave her or it can be any other reason(try to find out that first if possible). If she doesn't like u,just stay out of it.Everybody have the right to choose their life partner according to their taste.If u push harder,she will push u out of her heart with the same force.Is she is meant for u,she will come to u..Time will heal everything.Before getting into the relationship,just build up the self respect. That will make u to go places.
@bwanna (282)
• United States
30 Oct 09
You need to focus your attention to a girl who deserves it more!! You sound so sweet, and I'm sure that there is a girl who would want to date a guy so nice. Just look around, and all you have to do is talk to her. Play it cool, and I'm sure that you'll find someone that isn't as rude.