what can i do

China
May 28, 2009 10:58am CST
i love a gril ,but the girl have boyfriend now ,what can i do ? i just love her ,i want to know everything happened about her ,i carry about her .i will do everything i can to help her .but she is also do not love me ,and she even do not like talk with me ,what can i do ,i want not forgive ? because i can not forgot her ,i just miss her everyday !
8 responses
• Philippines
28 May 09
Let go of the feelings my friend. It is difficult to do, but if you learn how to release and let go, it will be the solution to your heart ache. Don't force anyone to love you back, it will never be sweet but sour. If she is really for you, it will come, it will happen. But you have stated that she is committed to a person whom she love, so don't interfere. Give way, and i am sure that there is a person for you. Waiting also for you to be noticed. If you keep on thinking, communicating and doing things to remind you of her, then i can say you are the one to be blamed for such stubbornness. You are just picking a stone that you yourself will use to hit your own head. Let go, and go on with life. There are many things to consider, just don't be thinking of your self. You will hurt other feelings too if you continue doing this. What will the boyfriend do if you persist of having his girl. If you were in his shoes, you will also do what is necessary to end this madness.
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• China
30 May 09
thank you for you advice .may be i must have a good think ,you know ,that the love is like that ,but i think you are right ,i will change .but you know ,it is easy to say but hard to do .i will try for my best .i just want the girl whom i like will happy everyday .
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
what was really with that girl? if you had an intimate bond or something in the past i would understand the feelings that you have right now... uhmmm... the best way you can do is to forget your feelings for her... it's plain too obvious that she don't likes you so better find ways to make you busy or find somebody else who is single. so that you can have someone whom you can call "my own." happy mylotting! :)
@abanerji (1026)
• India
29 May 09
i can understand your position. at this stage it is very difficult to forget the girl. you cannot even let her know how you feel for her because you know that she is inclined towards someone else. you say she even hates to interct with you, in this case you need to forget her, which you cannot do it now. well, whenever you feel lonely or you feel that her thoughts are in your mind you just envolve yourself in something that needs your attention and you can avoid thinking of her.
@med889 (5941)
29 May 09
Firstly : You are not to be blame if you have some sincere feelings for that girl, it is normal so you should not be feeling guilty now as the girl already has her boyfriend. Secondly : To let go of someone you adore is the hardest choice so you will have to do it for the sake of three lives. Thirdly : Either to accept to continue love her and feel guilty everytime you see her with her boyfriend or you let go the girl and be happy that you have experience the magic of love though it was only one sided.
@qiyunhai (254)
• China
29 May 09
oh my boy, only one thing you do is to give up it.as love belong to two person,not yourself.if you live a girl who dislike you, you will be unhappy the whole life.there are many girls in your life, don't cling to only her.trust me, facing it and giving up it.
• India
29 May 09
well friend always remember this world is very selfish and opportunist if you know and sure that your girl friend loves another person then why to care her and mad for her ,just bring same idea like that if a person does not care me why should i ,you will find slowly you tend to forget her.
• Philippines
28 May 09
Let her go dude. If she already has a boyfriend, then don't go trying to break them apart. If she is meant for you, then maybe after they break up, you can act on your feelings. But as of now, just let her go.
• Indonesia
28 May 09
u must tell her wad yours?? wad are u waiting for??dont worry.. this life so suck..but u must be go on.. dont u ever give up