Will you value a partner who doesn't hold and prolonged grudges?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
June 23, 2009 11:29pm CST
I tell her that I find it so ridiculous when people stay mad after peace has been made. I listen to her side, the move on once things are settled and resolved. If I still have trouble letting my anger off,that is were I decide what is more important, my relationship or just winning the argument. Have a nice day to all of you!
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Angel
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Hi there! Yes, I believe that it is important, even though it's really hard to learn to forget once you forgive. Forget the anger but not the lesson learned in the problem, that is. I think that you shouldn't hold grudges so that you can really start a new and move on, together or apart.
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n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
Hi nanayangel, Yes you said it right, it's to hard on a relationship to work out if you have grudges, either you go on or just move on. I hate it if I do feel it, I just have to release it with her, so she could also know what I feel then just keeping it to myself. Anyway have a nice day to you nanay angel!
jammyt
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Not holding grudges is a good attitude towards life. Holding grudges will give you a heavy feeling. The more you hold a grudge, the more it will weigh you down. Forgiving and forgetting is still the best. Of course, time heals all wounds.
n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
Hi jammyt, I feel the same way it's to hard to keep it just to your self. I think there isa always a right time to talk it out and settle it. It's not really the sorry what counts, but forgetting what had happened. Time heals the wounds but sometimes it also takes a longer time to accept it. Have a nice day to you!