Are you the type of person who always reach out to friends?

@jlamela (4898)
Philippines
August 19, 2009 8:47pm CST
I am like that, always make a first move to reach out to friends because I want to have a good relationship with others, I don't like to have enemies. But I noticed that this is not good especially when I felt that I am being abused with others.
4 responses
tyt2222006
@tyt2222006 (172)
• China
20 Aug 09
Me,too. I like to take the initiative and make more friends. When I sense a person is trustworthy, I will go ahead and ask him/her to hang out with me. Most people won't reject, but some will. I hate the embarrassment when two people who both want to know each other stay silent face to face. Good day. ^_^
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jlamela
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
I like people who always take the initiative rather than hide in a shell. Most of the time, I am the one reaching out to friends, sometimes it's so tiring but I stay the way I am to maintain close contact with my closest friends.
anbrei
@anbrei (44)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
yes i am. friendship is really important to me...they are always be there for you when you need them morally.
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jlamela
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
I agree with you, sometimes we need our friends when life becomes unfair.
sanjana_aslam
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 09
hi jla once upon a time .. i extended a ot of helping hand to my friends and even the family ... but now i dont, i have been cheated and lied to by people .. Once they are better they kind of dont recognize me at all .. cheers
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jlamela
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
Actually sometimes I like you also, I hesitate to approach other people especially if I know beforehand that they are hostile and rude, so it's pointless to make the first move.
peace001
@peace001 (726)
• China
20 Aug 09
if you want to meet a friend and you will do everything for her for this one is special to you.you will open your heart and share your feelings with her or him.you are transparent and sensitive,and you will be hurt easily.I believe someperson will be special to me,and they will be waiting for me in some special periods of my life.so i just need waiting,they are coming.
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jlamela
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
Hi!thanks for your nice response..yep it's true that we need to be transparent and will open up our feelings because it is very important to let the other person know he or she is very special. Good luck!