When Reading an interesting book, do you find yourself living the Story

@suesan35 (478)
Sri Lanka
August 20, 2009 1:43am CST
When I'm reading a really intersting book, unknowingly, I find myself inside the story. What I mean is, I can see in my mind's eye the location, the characters, the scenery, if there's a storm, I can almost see the wind lashing out and bending the trees, or if there's party, I can see the colorful attire, hear the music, taste the food etc. Its almost weird. I am also the main character and go through the same emotions, love, hate, sadness and once I finish reading it, it takes me sometime to wind down and become myself. Does anyone else feel that way?
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
22 Aug 09
I used to be like that until my husband kept complaining that I always had my nose in a book and never talked to him. I pretty well stopped reading books, and we still don't talk. After 54 years, Each knows all the others stories.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
24 Aug 09
My bathroom is usually referred to as the "reading room". I don't get to stay in there for an "hour or two", as you suggested, though. I didn't quit reading. I just switched to magazines and short stories.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
23 Aug 09
Poor you. I bet even after 54 years, you still miss reading. How about locking yourself in the washroom for an hour or so?ha ha
@qtquiggs (50)
• United States
21 Aug 09
Yes it happens to me with everybook I read. I see in my mind what they are wearing, how thier face and body look. How the room or area is. I tried explaining that to my niece who is 10 and is having a hard time with her reading. I was trying to encourage her that she can become the story, that she can act it out in her mind. I enjoy reading because of this, I enjoy living and feeling how the story is going.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
21 Aug 09
Welcome to MyLot. The funny thing is I too told the same thing to my niece. But the problem with her now is that she has too much imagination and I heard that in class she really acts out those stories. Kids can be funny at times.
• United States
22 Aug 09
at least your niece listened. Yep kids can be something.hopefully she is not getting in trouble for it. Hey maybe there is an actress in her future. My niece does not like reading no matter how I describe what i see in my mind when i read. Thanks for bringing up this topic, glad to see that there are many others that see books the way I do. And thanks I think I will enjoy sharing my opinions with others : )
@fec139 (810)
• United States
22 Aug 09
Sure, isn't that what great writing is all about? You pull your reader into the story!! I get so into a book that I start to imagine myself in the story and/or imagine casting the movie. I get so involved in a book sometimes that it becomes like a friend to me, and when I finish it, it's like I've had a good friend staying in my house and now I have to drop her off at the airport, and she will always be a good friend but now I have to get back to my real life.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
23 Aug 09
Welcome to the world of bookworms fec139. No one who isn't into books will ever understand this love affair we have with books.
• United States
23 Aug 09
Hi suesan YES!! I never realized til my children told me when i read outloud my voice would change with different characters and they could see them. I started paying attention then when I read to myself and realized I do the same, I feel their emotions,their relationships,their time period... I do tend to feel more then one characters identity tho as some books do every other chapter on different people in the same story. I too, have to unemotion when a books is over.Whether,happy,sad,or I wish thats what wouldve happened in my life... I like Dee HEnderson and all hers involve stories and people with emotion.they are Christian Detective type of a family in which each is in another field FBI,CIA,fireman etc..I also just enjoy mystery,detective stories,also those on Amish families,most involve breaking away from their community or getting excomm for believeing in Christ. They are interesting but emotional also. I also remember reading Scarlett Ohara and Rhett Butler..I took that book everywhere with me in 8th grade,before school, between classes,at night,i felt like I was part of the story.At the end- which took me about a month to read I felt like I was leaving another world behind that had become a part of me. Thats why I love reading so much via movies.ALot of time our imaginations do much better then hollywood!!
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
23 Aug 09
I agree arcticwolf. Theres nothing like reading. Just stepping into a book store, transports you to another world. It does not matter whether its a old books shop or brand new books. The smell of books is a different perfume altogether. You take a book into your hand, just the knowledge that once you open to the first page you're going to enter another world is enough to make you happy. I always believe that if you have a good book in your hands, you do not need anything else to keep you content.
@malpoa (1216)
• India
20 Aug 09
Yes i do imagine myself in the entire story peeping to their life from where they cannot see me ha ha .It is fun. Only I know that I am watching them. It has happened many times that after reading the elaborate discussiona bout the food being servedor eaten, I myself rush to the kitchen to find the stuff stored there so that I can also eat someting really good hi hi. It is more often a sight to see myself engrosed in a thriller and my friends say that all the thrill or laugh or adventure is painted right on my face.
@malpoa (1216)
• India
20 Aug 09
Precisely!!! My husband when he sees me engrossed in a book, he says I would just be aborbed into the book and become a an important character all on a sudden!!! Yes it happens with me too, most of the time, I will have to be happy with something I got in the kitchen, mostly some snack or some biscuit, but it sure does kill my appetite... there is no time to make something elaborate...I have to go back to the story u know...And it is difficult to get exactly what they describe.
@jimntam (93)
• United States
22 Aug 09
Guess that's what they mean by getting lost in a book. I do that too with a good book. Even when I take a break from reading and put it down. I'm still in the book. Thinking about what's happened and wondering what will happen next. Usually I get so interested at getting to the end of the book (by reading it cover to cover) to see where the adventure leads. Then, when I do, I want to know more. A well written book is better than watching a movie about the same story.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
23 Aug 09
Most of the time I find that if you watch the movie of a book you have already read, its a bit of an anticlimax. I always find it more exciting to read the book than watch the movie. Because the movie changes a lot of things in the book and this sometimes makes the storyline altogether different. I agree that theres nothing a like reading a good book.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
20 Aug 09
I also become very engrossed in reading but I read and feel that whole story is like a drama which I am seeing in an interesting way. But I remain only audience and do not dissolve in the story.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
20 Aug 09
You have the correct perspective my dear. It shows that you do not get emotionally involved unnecessarily. You look at it from the outside and take it or leave it. Good for you.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
I do that too..i can understand it better if im living the character..like im the one playing the important role..I like to picture out the scene on the book...i like to feel the whole story that sometime i cry considerng that when youre reading the book, the author writes down every little detail of it..
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
21 Aug 09
You cry now do you? I don't cry,but feel a big lump in my throat which I keep on swallowing in order not to cry.I guess we are too emotional and thats why we feel that way.
@dodo19 (47188)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
20 Aug 09
This actually happens to me too. For some reason, I can just enter the story. My mind just enters the world of the story of the book that I'm reading that point. It's something that I've done since I was a kid. I've always a good imagination, which is probably why I can easily enter the world of the book that I'm reading. It's just the way that I've always been, the way that it's always been.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
20 Aug 09
Welcome to the Club Dodo. The whole trouble is we have too much imagination. I don't know whether its good or bad. But too much imagination makes us dreamers, living other peoples dreams and not really getting on with our own lives. But what's to be done? We are, what we are.
• Malaysia
21 Aug 09
I was reading one like that last night. It was not so much of living it, but I was picturing them. More like a director who is making the movie in my head. And it became so frustrating when the story does not go the same way as I have intended. Silly, huh?
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
21 Aug 09
I suppose thats because once you have read a few chapters you have already decided what you wish to happen to them. When that does not happen you feel fraustrated.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
21 Aug 09
Yeah, I often felt the same thing. That's why I only choose the best story book. Because it's the only means where I could travel and visit the places that I have never been. Or meet and talk to the people I would like to, like prince and princes, or everything that I haven't yet experienced in real life. And especially It changed me someone whom I'd never be.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
21 Aug 09
Careguarden, I too am very much an armchair traveler. I love to read about little known places, of far away places and just like in a novel, I picture those places in my mind and put myself in the picture imagining me walking on a desolate ice cap or in the wilderness or lost in the desert and at times feel transported to that place and I forget the real world for a little while.
• United States
20 Aug 09
I read all the time and I sometimes feel myself entering into the story and living it. At times, this has happened and I just feel that I was wishing that I was in the book. I love to read and I can visualize what is going on in the book as I read. I have been reading since I was a young child who had a vivid imagination. I still have a vivid imagination, but now I can visualize better as I read my favorite books.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
21 Aug 09
Thank you for your comment. I have found so many real book lovers on MyLot I'm very hope. Let's share information on books in future.
• Philippines
21 Aug 09
When I read a book, I want to be alone to imagine what is happening to the book I read specially love stories and suspense. My eyebrows raise when there is something to react. heheh!! Yeah it is weird but it's normal to me that is why I want to read books alone so that no one can notice that I look crazy when reading and I also talk to myself sometime when I react... ei....laugh if you like ok? that's just me.. haha!!
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
21 Aug 09
I guess we are all alike. Only another book lover will understand our weird reactions I suppose.
@borsmd (4)
• United States
20 Aug 09
yea... i do that evretime i read a book..... i thought it was just normal.... i can see anything i read... exept for faces... i cant imagine faces.... just like when i draw... i can draw almost anything exept faces.....wierd huh?
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
21 Aug 09
Yeah, faces can be a bit vague and blurry but thats not a problem cos I give them faces according to their characters. Evil characters with long thin faces and scars, caring people with cheery happy faces and twinkly eyes, funny characters with long noses and jaws and big eyes, I have fun doing that too.
@horsesrule (1957)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Oh yes definitely! When an author is a good writer, the book really comes to life for me. Sometimes I have to put the book aside for a minute or two just to think about what's happening in it. Then once I'm done reading the book, I have to wind down too. In fact that's one of the reasons that I love a good series because each book gives more insight into the characters and their world and I love that! You get to live through their adventures, visit the places they get to visit, visit friends with them, solve mysteries, meet a new romantic interest or continue a long term relationship. It's great. I also like to re-read my books because I always find something I missed the first time.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
20 Aug 09
Everything you have stated is so true. Like you, I too re read my books many times over and everytime I find something new which always adds a new perspective to the story. When you love to read, you're never lonely. You might be the only person for miles around, but you would not feel it as long as you are immersed in a book and the characters in it are there to keep you company.
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
22 Aug 09
not exactly, I do get involved, want to be there, want to talk to them, to interact with their world - probably why I started writing myself
• United States
20 Aug 09
Yes, that's the characteristics of a good book but you can feel yourself inside, seeing what a character is seeing and feeling what a character is feeling. The first book that did that for me was Harry Potter where I could practically feel Harry Potter and all his experiences at his school.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
20 Aug 09
How true! When I too was reading Harry Potter books I used to always imagine those weird and wonderful places that Harry and his friends got to go. One of my favorite scenes is when Ron and Harry take Ron's father's old car and fly away to school because they missed the train and when it comes to the part where the car bangs down on the tree and tree gets really angry....etc. everytime I read that part (yes, I've read the book many times)I burst into laughter.
@med889 (5941)
20 Aug 09
It happens to me everytime and I also love to get in the book to find character which suits me and to get mesmerised by the story sometimes, well it is wonderful to do so. I understand every single words as well as the characters and the techniques of writing.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
20 Aug 09
Thanks med889. Nice to know that others feel the same way. Maybe its something to do with our love of books.
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Actually I was reading a book and it reminded of my past. It was a book about this deaf and dumb kid who grows up on a farm\dog kennel. I kind of grew up the same way, we had horses on our farm and other animals. I would do similar things like walking in the area outside of the farm, my sister and I would take the ski-doo out in the winter and we'd go toboganning down our neighbors hills too. When we got to be teenagers we'd go out skiing, cross country of course
@keishap (11)
• United States
20 Aug 09
When I'm reading a very good book, it's easy to picture in your mind eactly what is going on in with the characters in the book. Usually you'll pick the character you most love in a story and picture yourself as them.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
20 Aug 09
I know keishap, especially if that character is young and beautiful with a heart of gold etc. I bet you never imagine yourself as a bad bad witch? Well neither do I. That shows does it not that we all want to be thought as good and beautiful?