Friendship and love,which would you like to choose???
By victory999
@victory999 (758)
China
October 12, 2009 7:01am CST
If there is only one choice you must to make,which would you like to have,friend or lover???
For me,I would like to prfer the latter,because I convinced the love is the most powerful emotion in the world.It can change a person even the globe.But there is an old chinese saying goes:" the wife just like the clothes to change,otherwhise the sworn brother seems to be the hands and legs."Therefor,from this saying you can be indicated that the ancient chinese is so emphaising on the friendship than others.
However,the Time is moving ahead,so the concept of that may have a remarkable change out of anyone's imagination.
what is your choice???
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5 responses
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
12 Oct 09
I think that in some way those are two different concepts but at the same time they're related.
I mean, how can you tell that somebody is a REAL friend? not just your school buddy, work partner or anything like that, but your actual friend? When you can actually call somebody a FRIEND, isn't there love involved in someway? Not the romantic couple kind'a love, but a friend's love which is unconditional as well?
get my point?
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@victory999 (758)
• China
13 Oct 09
Actually,it is so diffcult to meet a sworn-friend in your life as well as a lover.
But,for me,I cann't have a lover without falling in love with her,because I think the love and trust is fundment to maintian our relation,which is enmornous than any material things in reality.
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@anggunmelati (551)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 12
Friendship can't make our feeling hurt. I like just to be friend
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Nov 12
hi this is sad thinking you cannot be friends and love someone too absurd.
I would never ever want a man to make love to me if I disliked him. My husband was my best friend and my lover too.Friendship and love can go hand in hand if you like the man you love. how could you do otherwise. disliking someone will not make you love them. If you do not like your lover the love and more likely the lust will soon fade.In as intimate a situation as loving you first make friends thenyou
soon fall in love.
@nautilus33 (1827)
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12 Oct 09
I don't know. Until now I haven't med the true love so I can't tell for sure, but at this stage I probably will choose the friendship. I have tell that I have only 2 good friends, but for me that's more than enough. What a man needs- a friend in his live and a home!!! That is the truth!
@victory999 (758)
• China
13 Oct 09
That is so nice to meet true friend in your life,which should be cherished!
