will you allow your boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend be friends?

Philippines
November 11, 2009 9:34pm CST
will you allow your boyfriend and his ex-gf be friends if you know that his ex-gf asked him to come back to her? I trust my boyfriend but i dont trust his ex. His ex asked him to have coffee and somewhat hangout together. When my bf told me about that i dont know what to say.
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• Philippines
26 Apr 10
If I was in your shoes -Yes, if you trust your boyfriend then let him even if his ex still wants to get back with him, its your boyfriends decision. As for you, you did your part and its his turn to do his part. He knows whats right or wrong especially if he has a relationship with you. You can also open up what you're feeling with his ex, I'm sure his open when it comes to that issue. Atleast you're being honest and he knows what you're feeling.
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
yeah.. of course i trust him.. a lot.. but when it comes to him i easily get jealous.. im not like this in my previous relationship.. (sigh)
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Nov 09
hi sheng no I would not as there must be some remnant there elsewise your 'boyfriend would not have coffee and hang out with her. there had to be a reason why she is his ex girlfriend. so say to your boyfriend no,you can' pick between us but you cannot have her and me too, it just does not work that way.sorry.
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
well he told me that is for old time sake.. and he told me that what he need is my trust.
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
its a big NO! past is past, but still there past. everyone must turn what of what is present and being faithful I think is to focus and resist the exlovers or whatever they called.
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
of course, that would be a test to my boyfriend if he still love his ex-girlfriend. If he fall inlove again, then his feeling for me is just a fake feeling and he is not actually love., and there you know where you stand. You know girls there are a lot of guys out there. I will gonna trust my boyfriend to meet or to make friendship with his ex-girlfriend for the sake that i love him so much that is why it is just okay for me.
@maezee (41996)
• United States
12 Nov 09
I think you should trust your boyfriend and trust his sense of judgement. If he doesn't want to get with her, he doesn't want to get with her. She might try something on him - but again, if your boyfriend really doesn't like her or want to have a relationship with her - he's not going to take it. I say let him hang out with her.
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
I told him that i trust him and told him that i wont mind if he wants to befriend his ex but i told him that the idea of him and his ex hangout together alone i will still think bout that.. Yeah thanks.. maybe i should let him though..