In a Foreign Country! Can't Speak the Language! Now What?

@artistry (4152)
United States
December 11, 2009 8:49pm CST
If you went to live in a foreign country, for a year, but you did not know the language, few phrases maybe, but not much, do you think you could survive for the year? How would you manage?
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
12 Dec 09
Hi artistry, well I've done that one and it is just ludicrous to not try and learn the language though I know many many people who don't bother, or even take lessons but are too afraid to use it. I taught myself some basics first and continued to teach myself and went out saying everything in the present tense, mispronouncing words, having no clue about structure or genders on words or any of it, but everyone appreciated the fact I was attempting it. Even now I struggle some days but can do everything for myself. I have no trouble making myself understood, even with many errors, but have always found it much more difficult understanding back. I was in town today and needed a few things which I actually didn't know the name of at all, but could describe what I needed and find it that way. I find it easier often if the other person understands not a word of English as it forces me more.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
13 Dec 09
Living in a country won't help you with the language at all if you don't try and converse with local people. There are many ignorant ones moved here who even after ten years neither speak or understand a word of Greek, writing it off as too difficult and happy to mix with other ex pats only. There are places around where one needs no Greek at all if the Greeks are willing to speak English to them. It is completely beyond me, though I do accept that most people do find it very difficult to integrate at all, but a first step would be to try with the language. I did go to Greek school as well but it can be offputting as the more it is taught the more mistakes one is aware of making. I've done school and self taught, and these days I've put all the studying aside and just use it but I'm overdue more study again, it is something one has to keep at. When you say young people they don't really move to this area, most who come are older. The odd younger ones who have moved here with children have tended to give up and go back as they didn't prepare properly for their children starting school in a foreign language. My own son was 4 when we came and he was fluent in ten weeks through attending kindergarten and has remained top of the class consistently in Greek language and grammar. He is totally bi lingual.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
15 Dec 09
...Hi thea, Thanks for responding, that is quite interesting. Especially the part about the people leaving for the reason they do. A child learns another language much easier than adults do, so the parents must not be inclined to help their children. You have obviously been involved with your little one and have seen the effort pay off, good for you. Your son is also very smart as well. Take it easy. Stay well.
@artistry (4152)
• United States
13 Dec 09
...Hi thea, Hope that all is well. You are the perfect example of this experience. Thanks for your response. I have heard that the best way to learn a language is to live in the country where it is spoken, I am not sure that that is the case but probably so, but I would think kind of painful at first. A good translation book would be my choice, and a class to at least learn the basics would help. You are doing well it seems, and you are helping yourself to do better. Tell me, if you have noticed, are the young people coming along, speaking the language of the country or are they speaking more English? Thanks and take care.
• Malaysia
16 Dec 09
This is one tough situation to handle. I have never been out form my own country just yet and if I were to go somewhere where I could not understand nor speak their language that would kill me somehow. English would be the only medium of communication left.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
16 Dec 09
...Hi maikarumike, Honestly I really agree with you, but say your job was going to relocate you with a huge promotion if you agreed to go to this country where you did not know the language, I think you would grab as many language tapes as you could, get a translation dictionary and cram, cram, cram. You would probably spend a lot of time listening to the people speak and imitating what they say, while writing down the meanings. I think you would find a way to make it work and surprise yourself in the end. It would be a little scary in the beginning, but it could be a learning and growth experience. Thanks for your reply, take it easy.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
16 Dec 09
Some 30 years ago, I lived in Singapore for just over 2 years. There is no local language in Singapore...There is English, Malay, Chinese and Indian, Tamil I think but probably other dialects as well...same as Chinese...I know there was Mandarin and Cantonese and there were probably some others as well. I was lucky in that the shop boy who came everyday to see what groceries I wanted spoke some English and my amah spoke English, the taxi drivers spoke English, in the food shops at least one person spoke English, in fact, everywhere you go, English is spoken by someone usually. So, I don't think I would have a problem
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
16 Dec 09
...Hi there Ms Tickle, Hope you are doing well, I should think that was an ideal situation to be in. It sounds as though there was always someone nearby that would be of assistance with any language if needed. By the way, please let me know what an amah would be? I'm guessing nanny or maid, but I don't really know. Thank you for your response and for letting me know the answer. Take care.
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• China
15 Dec 09
Hi, artistry, I think it's okay for me. Because I can learn language from people local. Actually, it's a great opportunity to learn a language! Though it may be hard in the beginning! Haha...But I haven't been in this situation. I hope I can get this opportunity in the future!
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
16 Dec 09
...Hi OrangJuice, Thanks for your response. You have the right attitude and I feel sure that if you found yourself in this particular situation, you would be conversing with the local people in no time t all. In fact people who have done this say this is the best way to learn the language of a country. Talk with the people, the words will start to become familiar if you hear them enough. I hope you will be able to experience it if you want to do this. It could be very interesting, maybe a little scary at first. Take care.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
14 Dec 09
I have lived in two different countries without speaking the language. It was hard in the beginning, and I felt left out, because I didn't understand what people were saying, but I definately don't regret it. It was a challenge and a very interesting experience. I am married now, and I have a home and many pets, so I can't just travel or live abroad like I did when I was younger, but if I had the chance to live in another country again, I would love to do it again. I learned so much and it was really interesting to live somewhere else for a while. When I arrived in the foreign country I only understood a few words, but when I had been there for a couple of months I was able to understand most of the conversation. I made many, many mistakes when I spoke the language, but people understood what I was trying to say and that was the most important thing. In the beginning I just listened and listened to the other people, and after a while I started to recognize some of the common words. When I heard some new words I looked them up in my dictionary or asked my co-workers. I asked many questions, and my co-workers were very friendly and the were happy to teach me their language. It was a fantastic feeling to understand the conversation for the first time. I was so happy when it happened. I never learned to speak the language fluently, but I learned to express myself in short and easy sentences, and my co-workers understood me despite my accent and my many mistakes.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
15 Dec 09
...Hi Porcospino, What a very interesting, insightful experience. I have said in the past that if you live with the people in a country, you would have to pick up words and phrases that would stay with you. It was surely painful for you in the beginning, but I am sure very fulfilling when you began to understand, much like when we began to walk and talk when we were younger, how exciting when you began to understand some of the language. You did very well. Thank you for sharing. Take care.
@thewayis (646)
• Bulgaria
14 Dec 09
When you go living in foreign country, language is the first thing you learn. Believe me, you will start speaking in less than a week, just out of necessity. when you try to learn a foreign language it can be really hard, but once you get in the country you have no other choice than to learnt it - and learn it fast
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
15 Dec 09
...Hi there thewayis, Welcome to the ranch. Thanks for your response. I would think that it would make sense to do that, but everyone is not able to grasp language skills that fast. Those who are able to speak a different language quickly would certainly have a better time adjusting and living in the new country. I would be very dependent on my translation dictionary most of the time, until I picked up enough of the language to make myself understood as best I could. It would be very interesting to say the least. Thanks again. Take care.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
12 Dec 09
Before I went to the country I would try to learn some basic phrases in the language. When I arrived I would get some books and disks to help my knowledge of the language progress further. I would try out my language skills in the local community. I am sure that a language class would improve my command of the language. I am currently learning Spanish. If I spent one year in a Spanish speaking country in South America I would be speaking it really well I a sure. If I went to live in Japan that language would be far too challenging for me I imagine.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
13 Dec 09
...Hi maximax8, Thanks for your comment. What you say would be the textbook answer in my opinion. It would certainly be hard to try to communicate effectively with the residents. But I think that as you continue to be around them, some things will come easier to you from repetition perhaps. I would have a trusty handbook with translations with me at all tumes. Tapes would be my daily friend, and lastly I would carry a small sketch pad so that I could draw pictures to describe whatever I would be trying to convey. Thanks again.
@JodiLynn (1417)
• United States
12 Dec 09
Don't know or understand enough of the language? in a nut shell? HAND GESTURES
@artistry (4152)
• United States
13 Dec 09
...Hi there JodiLynn, Hope you are doing well. Now I have a vivid imagination, so you can guess what kind of hand gestures I am thinking of to describe certain things that one might be asking for in a foreign country without knowing the language. Suffice it to say that they would either be laughing their heads off, or hauling one off to jail perhaps for inappropriate hand gestures. Thanks and take good care.
• United States
12 Dec 09
I will have to experience this soon. I am sure I will manage I don't know much Spanish but I try to learn it and my husband is from Mexico and we will be going there within the next two years but I am sure I will have to learn the language and I heard when people do go there for awhile they always come back speaking the language better. I do understand most of it but it is still a little hard for me to speak it.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
13 Dec 09
...Hi Jahernandezrizas, I would imagine, if it were a job transfer, your employer would get you in a language class very fast. That would help you a little bit. I think being involved with the people of the country on a day to day basis would actually help you to begin to pick up words and meanings as well. I would surely invest in tapes and translation books and find a friend who spoke English as well as the language of the country and hang on to him or her. Good luck to you when you travel to Mexico, I am sure you will be fine in a matter of time. Thanks for your comment.
@happy6162 (3001)
• United States
17 Dec 09
I would communicate by speaking English and hope they will understand. In most countries some of the people speak English so I would probably be alright for awhile. I would try to learn some of the common words in the language of the country I am in.
@artistry (4152)
• United States
17 Dec 09
....Hi happy, What a great choice for a name if I didn't tell you before. :o) I think you have found a way to make it. There have to be some people around who know English, who could even help you with the local language. After you have been there for a while, the phrases and words would start to become familiar to you. A little bit of discomfort in the beginning, but you would certainly adjust if you stayed there long enough. Thanks for your reply, take care.