Do you bring your babies to crowded places even if it would mean .....

Philippines
January 13, 2010 9:46am CST
... exposure to bad and unhealthful elements?Our city celebrates its feast on the third Sunday of January. It is a big religious event as well as merry-making on the streets during the parade on a designated day. This event attracts local and foreign tourists and the city is full of visitors. Do you bring your babies to this event where the crowd is surely huge? Do you bring them even if you are mindful about the heat, discomfort and their possible exposure to unhealthful elements? If you do not have feasts in your place, do you bring your babies to other crowded places like malls or similarly crowded areas?
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• Pamplona, Spain
19 Jan 10
Hiya MMT, If I could avoid taking Babies to such places if it were really hot I would. I would be keeping them nice and fresh as possible cotton transpiragle clothes nappies ect. Also plenty of drinking water and food and of course yourself very near to calm them down. Some Babies will find these kind of things frightening and bewildering specially if there is very loud music played all the time. We have plenty of festivities here but I have stayed away from most of them because they were young babies and also young children. There were at the same time more local fiestas going on so I used to go to those more than the really big ones.
• Pamplona, Spain
20 Jan 10
Hiya MMT, Babies are very sensitive to noise and if they don´t like it they will howl their head off. Mine used to most of the time so I used to go somewhere else instead best thing to do. It calms your nerves and theirs also. Take care now.
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
Hi LAI, We mean all the good things for our babies. We make it sure that they are comfortable at all times and that they are safe. If it would mean frightening them with the noise or condition in the surroundings, then parents should refrain from bringing them along. Or they would rather stay away from such places and be with the babies at home. Thanks!
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
Hi LAI, Yes, they are. That is why sometimes we have to tiptoe as we move around in the house, especially if I had things to do while the baby slept or myself getting myself to catch sleep.
@iharidh (308)
• Indonesia
14 Jan 10
That is depends hugely on how much the baby is. If the baby is still a year or below, i think is it quite unwise to bring the baby into a place with crowded area. This is especially when we know that the place is hot and uncomfortable for babies, because babies are so sensitive.
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hi Iharidh, I am sure as parents we know what is bad for our children, babies especially. I would better stay at home with the baby than taking him to a crowded place and putting him to the risk of infection. In crowded places, it is not easy to move around, sometimes there is pushing of people around. With the baby you are carrying, it would be risky to be there.
@iharidh (308)
• Indonesia
14 Jan 10
Yeah, and since I don't have a baby, I often see how parents surrounding me behave with their babies. And I found out that no parents yet want to take their babies to hot crowded area.
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
That is absolutely correct. They mean all the good for their children.
@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
27 Jan 10
I would try to avoid crowded places because it's no fun caring for a sick baby. And children pick up germs quite easily, especialy from other children. I bring my kid to malls quite often, but the air ciruclation is pretty ok, so she seldom falls ill there.
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
Hi Squaretile, Babies are delicate. We need to refrain from exposing them to places which are not safe for them healthwise. It is good to refrain from bringing them to crowded places because they easily catch infection.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
16 Jan 10
With my oldest, my daughter, I rarely took her anywhere that there could be a crowd. However, when my son was born almost four years later, things were a lot different for me. I took him absolutely everywhere. He was in a hospital because my grandmother was dying a week after he was born. Because of the fact that we were away from home for over a week during this ordeal, he was also in and out of restaurants, a shopping mall and other crowded places all before he was a month old.
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
Hi Dorannmwin, It is not always possible to keep the baby out of the crowd even with our effort to do so. There are instances like that with your son where he needs to be with you outside in the restaurants or shopping mall. Neither the parents nor the baby can be totally isolated from these. It behooves upon the parents to seek proper measures in keeping their child healthy. For example, parents should follow the vaccination schedule of their babies, use hand sanitizers or not allowing people to kiss baby's face or hands and a lot others. I have always heard though that exposure to germs build immunity. I guess it keeps babies healthy in the long run?
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
There are places where babies should not be brought. I don't think the mall is good for little tots especially during weekends where there are lots of people. They can be exposed to viruses and other microorganisms that can cause illnesses. This summer, measles and chickenpox is in season, aside from cough and colds. Parents should take this into consideration when taking their babies to crowded places. Babies can be brought to places where air is fresh, maybe in a nature park.
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
As parents, we should know where and where not to bring our babies. If it would mean exposing them to infectious illnesses brought by some people in a crowd, it is better to stay at home with the baby. If not, we may leave the baby with someone we can trust.
• India
14 Jan 10
yes i will bring babies to crowded places because baby want to entertain and enjoyment baby will happy baby will understood every thing
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
I hope they understand. I am talking about little babies who are infants or toddlers. It is too risky to take them to crowded places. Babies are so susceptible to infections. Bringing them to crowded places would not be a good idea, for me.
• India
14 Jan 10
No, I would not really take babies to very crowded places mainly for two reasons. One is as mentioned by you…too much of germs and infection around and secondly, they baby would be like a liability to me…I can neither enjoy myself nor can I pay proper attention to the baby. So either I keep the baby with somebody and go to such places or I don’t go at all till the baby is grown up enough.
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hi Sudiptacallingu, You are right. We don't enjoy the event because our attention is on our baby. Of course, we need to focus on taking care of him. There are instances in crowded areas where babies (those who can already walk) are even lost. We surely don't want our babies to get infected by people who are there and sick.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
13 Jan 10
With babies I would avoid it. They are getting nothing out of it but maybe sick. If you insist on going, I would stay on the out skirts of the celebration.
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hi Laglen, Our babies' welfare are utmost in our minds. We always take every precaution to keep them safe and healthy. I would not want to take them to crowded places. Babies are so susceptible to infection and we should safeguard them.
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Now, that is the kind of question my husband will certainly ask me too. He doesn't like it when I bring our kids to the mall. He's a little paranoid that our children especially our 9-month old girl will be exposed to every bad micro-organisms present! My husband is really tied up with his work at the hospital. So, it's up to me to make sure our children get out of the house once in a while. But, I don't expose them to the public that very often. With my 6 year old son, he gets to see the mall twice a week. But I bring him during weekdays, where there is less population. As for my baby girl, I just bring her to the mall maybe once or twice a month. And if I do bring her to the mall, it has to be on a weekday and DEFINITELY NOT on a saturday or sunday! Once, I made the mistake of going to the mall with my husband and our kids. And we were both very stressed afterwards. The crowd was very thick and we end up not using the stroller after all.
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hi Jcj, You husband has the right to be paranoid. Working in a hospital gives him that right. He knows better than us. Yes, weekdays are not that crowded in malls as it is on Saturdays and Sundays. During the swine flu scare, we made sure that we just stayed in the house for fear of getting infected. I guess the malls weren't getting as much customers during those times as it had on other days.
@allknowing (130759)
• India
14 Jan 10
The main reason why babies are taken along is because there is no one at home to take care of them. At the same time one cannot live without getting out not just for fun but to do some shopping and such things. That is the plight these days and as you rightly said babies do get exposed to pollution but what other way is there?
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hi Allknowing, I very well understand the situation. It is so hard if you don't have someone to request to do shopping for you or to leave the baby to his care. Maybe we just have to choose the time of the day and the supermarket where we do our shopping. There are supermarkets which are not crowded on chosen times of the day.
• Singapore
13 Jan 10
I don't mind bringing baby to the mall, at least I am still in control as the crowd is still bearable and it is air-conditioned. However to go to such festivals, I definitely will say NO! I will not bring my baby there and I have no intention of going without the baby either. I am not a party goer and futhermore I hate such crowded places. It gives me headaches. As an adult I feel restless and uncomfortable to such places and imagine what the baby might feel! Happy mylotting.
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hi Sarinahahmad, Well, maybe when the malls have lesser people. But with an air conditioned enclosed place, I have the notion that it is the same air that is circulating around. I have this notion that if a person sneezes there, germs are circulating too. Infection is possible for everyone and small children are most susceptible to this.
@MimiRemo (418)
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Crowds during festivals are crazy! I really wouldn't want to see babies or young kids brought along by their parents. We have to bear in mind that merriment like that also provides an opportunity for pickpockets and diseases being spread, so we have to be extra careful. But if they (parents) do, I hope they just stay in the far in the borders of the vicinity.
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hi MimiRemo, People in crowds, especially in festivals are unruly. Lots of things happen when you are there. Accidents happen too in very crowded areas. Stampedes are likely to happen, too. It would be too risky to bring children to those places not to mention the heat and the high risk of infection with all types of people there.
@cmhjjh (98)
• United States
13 Jan 10
When our kids were babies we always played it by ear we would only go it the weather was good and the baby wasn't crabby and then we would go knowing we may leave at any moment and stay out of the most crowded areas. Now that they are a little older we do go to more crowded events but we never let safety or health concern take a back seat.
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hi Cmhjjh, We should refrain from taking them to crowded places like malls or supermarkets. We can never tell if the person beside you has colds or cough. Babies easily get infected despite all healthy precautions. Lots of germs are floating everywhere and it is always wise to restrict them at home, if possible.