What's the meanest thing someone has called you?

@ANIME123 (2466)
United States
February 6, 2010 5:43pm CST
Well the meanest thing that some one has called me would have to be loner. I guess because I was a loner till I got friends. Right now I don't know what people may say about me or think about me, but I don't really care even though words can hurt I will just turn the other way and would hear the nice things that people have to say about me. I love to be nice and I love when people are nice back. So what's the meanest thing someone has called you???
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7 responses
• Malaysia
7 Feb 10
As an overweight, being called FAT is the meanest thing that people call me. I just pretend that I don't hear what they say but it really cuts me inside although I just smile to them.
• Malaysia
8 Feb 10
Though I heard people called me that all the time, and I got use to it but still it hurts. Sometimes when there are wedding, birthday or whatever invitation, I always feel that I don't want to go because I knew what the very word that would come out in every person that I met there. Sometime people just so mean and very insensitive, probably because they never know how it feels like to be an overweight.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
7 Feb 10
That's sad how people can be mean like that at times. It's not nice to say mean things to others because it will hurt them. I hope that you don't let it get to you and be happy for yourself that you are not sinking to that persons level.
@ptotheb (229)
• New Zealand
7 Feb 10
Meanest ay? Well most of my friends call me gorilla.But then again thats in a positive way. I've been called a loner too. Guess I'm one of the socially challenged individuals. Don't get me wrong I love to socialize, i just dont make it a priority like most of my mates. There are times when all of my friends are at a party and I'm either running, at the gym, browsing the net, playing games or doing some study. They can call me a loner now, but come exam time they will envy me. hahaha I guess everyone is different and I agree words can hurt. My philosophy in life is simple, stay away from the negativity. Distance yourself with people calling you names. Thats my advice to ya.
• Malaysia
8 Feb 10
That is what I do all the time. I always distance myself with people that calling me names. However my mother also calling me names and I can't get away with that.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
7 Feb 10
I got a friend calling me nuts coz I sit at the bus stop waiting for a bus to go back home.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
7 Feb 10
Well I don't know why your friend called you that just for that. I mean you are trying to go home. It's normal to wait for a bus.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
7 Feb 10
i got some calls not because they are lone.some of them really need idea from friends and they call for help.i would like to tell my idea when they need my idea.last call is from my friend.her ex-husband want to live with her again.but she felt upset and she consider more for kids.well,i tell some my idea what i can see.i still not sure what desice she will make.i just know she felt better after we talk.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
7 Feb 10
That's good that she felt better after you talked with he. It's always nice comfort someone.
@doormouse (4599)
7 Feb 10
it's not so much what i called my ex husband,it was what i said,firstly there was YOU HAVE A SMALL WILLY AND YOU'RE RUBBISH IN BED and the second was HURRY UP AND KILL YOURSELF SO I CAN PI*S ON YOUR GRAVE,as for someone calling or saying mean things to me,it's only ever been the usual,sl*g,sl*t,bi*ch,blah blah blah,people can call me what they like,everyones entitled to their own opinion
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
yeah same here. Someone has called me a loner because I don't socialize lately. I mean, I wasn't able to join night-outs and I often choose to be at home. Is that because I can't join them it means that I'm already a loner. Hello? hahaha! I hate it when people say things that they don't even know what it means. Being a loner is not bad thing at all, it is just the way of saying it, he (that person) made me appeared to be anti-social. Grrr! haha! Anyway,I know who I am and I've got friends to prove that. It is just that, I don't want to party more and go out the way I used to be. People do change and I think I changed a lot these past few days. I set my prioritize because I want to achieve more good things in life. So, don't mind that person who called you that. Okay?! Happy Lotting!
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
7 Feb 10
Yes I know besides they can not call me a loner no more because I have such great friends. I am happy that I have become close to so many people and they helped get through with my life and I just love them for that.
@heathcliff (1415)
• United States
7 Feb 10
Sometimes the meanest things can be the most innocent sounding ones to someone else. People who we know do not like us and call us terrible names do not bother us as much as unexpected feedback from friends or unknown people. For me, I was most upset, years ago, by someone who called me unimaginative. I've been called and labeled MUCH worse, but that upset me the most.