Have you ever meet weird people?
By sushie93
@sushie93 (1355)
France
March 4, 2010 12:29pm CST
Hello mylotters!
So Have you ever meet weird people?
I have a problem, i can't take a desicion: I work as a maid since a few months, i have worked in a little hotel and there, i meet a man really weird! He said "hello" to me and i answer back but then he stay here behind me and start to stare at me during severals seconds, so i asked if all is right and what's happening, but he didn't answer me and continue to stare at me with a very weird look like he was dreaming or anything...
So this morning, i have received a call from my manager who has a job for me in this hotel but i don't know if i should accept this offer or not.
I need money quickly but i don't want to meet this man again! He's afraid me lol, he didn't have a nice face with a earring at one ear and he's so weird with his way to look at me! (This thing has happened two times!)
So what would you do if you were at my place? Will you accept this job?
Do something similar has happened to you?
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15 responses
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
If you say weird to him that's all right. Men can take it. We do not care. Just do not form nightmares with yourself even if their not capable of being a nightmare. He's a gentleman. Just silent and so tired that he has to look at a female just to remove the strain. There's nothing sesual about what he did. In fact he already made the signal that hes not sesual by saying hello to you. If you say that cockroaches like him have shark teeth that's foolishness. Why are you afraid of people you shouldn't be aware of. That is unfriendly. But well you can blame him if ever he has been aphasic for some time.
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@dbeast (1495)
• India
5 Mar 10
I guess we all meet weird people all the time. I've met people who talk a lot and sometimes act plain weird. They will be in a world of their own. Sometime when you get close to them and get to know them you find out they are not that bad after all. But some people there cannot be any difference. Weirdness will be their middle name and there is nothing you can do about it. Of course you got to take this job. You cant let this affect your decision.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
4 Mar 10
Yes, it happened to me in the military and the guy purposely looked at me in a way that gave me the heebee geebee. For 30 days I had to be around him, and I made sure I was always close to some other people. It would have been horrifying, as the other worded, to have found myself alone with him. He looked like someone who skipped a prison sentence by joining the military.
I would talk to another worker or management in confidence, and maybe they can shed some lite on him, or they can do something to hint to him that they know he is bothering you that way, so he will be warned. If this doesn't pan out, I don't know if I would take the job. You have to be cautious nowadays. I hope you get to take the job or God sends you a better one.
@MightyLeo (58)
• India
5 Mar 10
I would rather quit the job proposal on behalf of my safety. You should first check at what kind of intentions that man has rather get down to some people who know this person. This will help you to know what kind of person he is and then decide upon the thing. Because your safety comes first. Anyways me being on the same boat will rather inquire about this man and then take any decisions.
@sawaxiao (24)
• China
5 Mar 10
don't be afraid of that.he maybe just want to make friends with you,that's just his way.you know there aren't many friends for those guys who looked a little weird.so they are eager for friendship and being treated friendly.but their special way often make us normal ones feel weird and even scared.i think you may treat him nice just the same as you do to others
@apocalypsereturns (368)
• India
5 Mar 10
well if you have met a few wierd people,
that would be no reason for not accepting a job.
Any way working in a hotel you will find many kinds of people some Good ,, some bad ,, some weird.
Thats common occurence..
Anyway i dont think i have me any weird character i just think that i am surrounded with so many..
manytimes i have seen people respond in a weird manner to simple requests..
there s nothing i an do apvut that.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
5 Mar 10
Hi sushie93,
I think that this man may think you are attractive and that is why he stared at you with a dreamy look. I'd take the job, if you feel uncomfortable after that you can refuse to go to his room under the pretense that he makes you very uncomfortable. They shouldn't make you go back if you don't want to, but who knows he may be a very nice man and was just shy to talk to you. If he asked for you by name, I think he wants to see you again!
@MrKennedy (1978)
•
5 Mar 10
I've met many weird people in my time. Some are friendly, yet some are just downright creepy
@allknowing (130518)
• India
5 Mar 10
You can take the job but keep a tab on this man and if he does anything queer you have your Manager who will handle it for you. The good side is that you have just assumed things. Could be he is a good man after all
@allknowing (130518)
• India
5 Mar 10
You can take the job but keep a tab on this man and if he does anything queer you have your Manager who will handle it for you. The good side is that you have just assumed things. Could be he is a good man after all
@MagicalBubbles (5103)
• Canada
4 Mar 10
Hello Sushie,
Id talk to the management about it and Id make sure I carry something with me in case he'd want to jump on me or something.
You shouldnt be afraid to go to work, thats not fair. So make sure you can make your work place a safe place for you.
Good Luck
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
•
4 Mar 10
hi! yes, I have met a weird people several times, and one of them was one drunk homeless, which I met on the train station while I was waiting for the night train. he was definitely drunk and had a dog with him- a pittbull, white one, with many marks from wounds. He sat against me and began to talk with the dog just like he was talking to some person. than he started talk with himself which was really funny, because he said only some foolish things :)
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@gogierm4ge (398)
• United States
4 Mar 10
Don't worry. Accept the job, he may look bad but he couldn't be all bad.
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