How did you decide on your children's names?

@phyrre (2317)
United States
March 16, 2010 9:59am CST
I always think it's interesting hearing how people choose the names for their children. For us, even though we don't have children just yet, we wanted to name our first girl Rena Marie after my husband's grandmother and our first boy Wyatt Joseph (the middle name being after my father and his uncle). The second girl we wanted to name Lilianah Rae because I've always liked the name Lilianah and the name Rae runs into our family (my middle name, my grandmother's middle, my aunt's name, my great-grandfather's name and his son's name, etc.). We always said we didn't want to name our children after people we knew, but as it turns out we'll probably end up doing so anyway! So what about you? How did you decide on the names for your children?
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@namiya (1713)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
First, we looked for nice sounding names. Then we looked up or researched for the meanings and the one that connotes something positive is what we choose. I came across and article that say's one's name also symbolizes his character and the way he live. I don't know if that theory is true but it gave me an idea on how to choose a name for my children.
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
17 Mar 10
I guess it really depends on what you believe. I don't think it has anything to do with how you live. I know about 50 other people that have the same name as me that all lead varying lifestyles. It has nothing to do with the name, it's more about how the person is raised and the morals and values that they inherit from their parents. Even if children all had the same names, they'd all turn out different just because everyone has different personalities.
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@namiya (1713)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Yes you're right. A person's character and way of living depends on the moral values instilled on him/her by the people who brought him/her up.
@umadper (947)
• India
16 Mar 10
hi,in our family there are few basics in naming children.Like if our parents or grand parents passed away earlier,we used to prefer those names based on gender..second one some God's names...third one if we have passion on cine actors or on some different names ...
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
17 Mar 10
I think that's an interesting way to name children. like I said, at first we didn't want to name children after family members, but then we decided that we really did want to name after people, too. There are some people that I would like to name children after, like my grandparents, that chances are we won't use because I don't like my grandparent's names. xD Might consider them as middle names, though.
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
My daughter's name is Amelia Isabelle, and her first name was taken from the Amelia of Princess Mia in Princess Diaries movie because my husband find her very pretty. But we changed Amelia to Amilia coz it is prone here to be mispronounced. We added Isabelle as her second name coz my husband would like to remember the province where he was assigned before which is Isabela. For my son it is Karl Theodore. Theodore is like a legacy coz his grandfather is Teodoro, and my dad is Teodorico. Karl as was actually random as we were thinking of another name to be attached to Theodore. However, I kinda regretted giving long names for my children coz they have difficulty of writing it. My daughter would always complain that it is very long so she would often write Amilia only.
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
17 Mar 10
I think those are really pretty names! I like the history behind them, too. Yeah, long names can be a pain, but at least after you learn to spell it then it's ok and you might come to appreciate it later on. I always hated my name when I was younger, but I actually like my middle name now because it's a family legacy.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
I got my baby's name from the internet and I really love it because it is unique. I only want one name the father wants two name instead, the first name will came from me while the second is from him.
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
17 Mar 10
I always liked that idea, of letting one parent decide the first name and the other parent decide the second. When we were thinking about names we tried that, but the names that we came up with never really went with each other. The combinations always sounded funny. So we decided it was just easier if we both worked together to come up with names. xD
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
My wife made the decision on all 3. She just asked me if I approve of them or not. How can I argue with her when she carried them for 9 months? Besides, she had chosen nice names for them. I rest my case.
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
17 Mar 10
Well, I'll admit that even though I'll be the one carrying the kids I still want my husband to have a say in naming them because he'll still be a big part of their life and they're his kids too. But I'm glad you liked the names.
@mackiejp (374)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
Even before I got pregnant my husband & I had decided names for our children, we named them after the Archangels, Our first child is Michael Angelo we named him after St. Michael the Archangel, our second is Gabriel and hopefully next year if God will give us a boy again we will name him Raphael...:)
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
17 Mar 10
That's a really neat pattern! I like doing things like that. Unfortunately, we couldn't do something like that. Since we started collecting dogs and cats before we had babies, we started naming the cats after angels and the dogs after demons, so anything that resembles that pattern is out of the question for babies, unfortunately.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
18 Mar 10
For my first daughter it was a joint effort between my mom and the father of my daughter. My mom thought of Anne and my ex thought of Lelin which is my middle name. That name was a nickname for the person who introduced my parents to each other. My second daughter was named Jillian after the actress Ann Jillian. I loved the name Jillian and 29 years ago I thought it was pretty different but now I find there are so many Jillians. My oldest daughter has a name no one else does in the world which is really cool.
• United States
16 Mar 10
I have always liked to pick names out by the way they sound together. Since my two boys are actually step-sons I did not get to pick their names but if I were to ever have a son of my own I would want to name him Vincent James. I just like the ring to it and if it were a girl she would be name Kayla Leigh. No signficance to either name. You stated that you didn't want to name your children after someone you know but at least you ar not naming them after objects in your home. There is a story about a woman locally that had twin boys that she name Orangalo and Lamangalo. They were named after orange jello and lime jello. LOL.
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
17 Mar 10
Those names sound really pretty! Step children can be difficult sometimes, though, depending on your relationship with their mother. Lol...that scares me. xD I can't imagine naming children after food. I mean, sure, I'm pretty much guaranteed to have really weird cravings during my pregnancy, but that doesn't mean I would want to be reminded of them for the rest of my children's lives. xD
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Apr 10
Well i go with my wifes choice and our parents and grandparents. We though have our own pet name for her. My grandparents help us choosing names as we think they are right people to name her.
@avani26 (1518)
• India
3 Apr 10
You know the ritual in Hindu's is that we just cannot keep any name they check the date and time of birth and then give us alphabets from which you can name the child so that the child's future is good. I did a lot of searching so that I get a name which means something as usually the names have meaning. My daughter's name is Avani and it means the Earth.
@enix119 (101)
• China
17 Mar 10
We name our children by putting best wishes into it.We hope our children have a happy and sweet life in the future, be talented, be successful and so on. So we use the charactor representing these best wished. If we can not decide how to name our kids, we may depend on others' opinion or even the dictionary.
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• Philippines
17 Mar 10
My daughter I named Roxanne as I just fell inlove with that name ever since I was in college. It never really was a name of a girl I like in my school days. I just liked it. Good thing my wife approved of it. But she added Rei to it to maybe appease her father named Rey because we married too early. My son however was named after a name I should have had based on the Catholic calendar. then I added my name and my grandfather's name to his name as my grandfather was always proud of my achievements. Problem now is my son finds it too long to write in school. Now I wish I just gave him one name.
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• India
17 Mar 10
i will choos and tell everybody of my family and friend other personi,then i listen everycoments yes or no if (yes) is tell everybody then i happy and i desid name.
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@Draeke (322)
• United States
16 Mar 10
regrettably, I didn't get a say in my son's name. His mother named him after her uncle, which is fine, it suits him. My daughters name just came to me and i liked it a lot. We had a little disagreement over her middle name at first, but we came to an agreement. Simply put, I had liked the names beforehand, and holding my newborn, it just 'felt' right
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
17 Mar 10
I think that's the main thing, Draeke, is that the name FEELS right. There might come a day when we have children and we decide that we really don't feel like we want one of those names for the child we have. I'm glad you got to experience that, though, and I hope that one day I will, too!