love hurts a lot
By deepak_o2xxh
@deepak_o2xxh (158)
India
May 7, 2010 12:11am CST
love is very..bad, it hurts a lot...the pain is painful...and makes to lose interest in life...if the relation is broken it feels really bad...i'm broken don't know what to do now...feeling like i have lost everything....i hate love....what do u say about this
6 responses
@lovelysassygirl (256)
• Philippines
7 May 10
You can feel the pain if you have love. Love is a unique feeling. You need to know how to handle it. The feeling may be so exciting to treasure. You need to feel the pain also to give you more stronger to face the challenge in life. And then you can have this as your experience of learning.
@deepak_o2xxh (158)
• India
7 May 10
yeah i know love is beautiful.......but when is broken everything is gone and pain is left......this romeo is bleeding,but u cant see his blood...this is nothing but some feelings....see i always been a fighter,but without her...i give up.......the memories killing me....i am just a man.......will love her always.....to die in her arms..to taste her kiss.........but d pain is killing me. love hurts
@deepak_o2xxh (158)
• India
7 May 10
i'll try to move on.....as u said, feeling sad does't do any good.........thanks for your advice..
@lovelysassygirl (256)
• Philippines
7 May 10
I know their is a reason for you guys to be separate. May be the answer of thequestion is not easily to know. But one day you will realize. It is good for you. Love is beautiful to live. So why dont you find your love beside you. I dont mean to find another one now. But look to your surrounding friends and families. They always their to support you. Be Happy. If you want to cry. Go on. Because that is the best way for you to realise that you need to move on and Let go. Make your self busy and walk with your friend, join other extra activity.
Be happy and Let it go. Smile.
@gaylevillariza (48)
• Philippines
7 May 10
we need to get hurt in order for us to understand what LOVE is..there's no real love when you cannot experience real pain..i know it's really hard to handle pain..but sometimes this experience let us grow as well as let our hearts grow fonder..love is a feeling that is stronger than anything..and so it HURTS! patience is what you need because we don't know what luck will love bring us to our lives because indeed, love is like a rosary that has many mysteries.. :)
@deepak_o2xxh (158)
• India
27 Apr 12
life is really mysterious, u never know what happens! i'm really happy now as i had the most awesome turn around in my life! the girl who i love, the same girl is back again in my life !!! we r back together after more than a year :) i feel so happy, because we never split...it was a case of misunderstanding, i guess patience is the best thing to do when you are broken! i'm so happy, my love is back and it is with the same girl!!! live rocks, and love is the most beautiful feeling ever!
@thunderstar17 (323)
• United States
7 May 10
Love hurts so bad because it causes us to build up some type of expectations. Expectations usually lead to a form of resentment at some point or anyother. I always keep my guard up, and it drives my best friend crazy. In order to avoid falling in love again I keep everyone at an arms length.
All you can do now is pull yourself back together. Use it as a learning experience. I know it sounds crazy and ridiculous but it works. Keep your love guarded and only given/shared with those who truly deserve it.
@roldango (230)
• Philippines
7 May 10
It is just but natural to feel discouraged about love when one is hurt so bad. I used to think the same also. But lately i realized that the pain that goes along the separation is teaching us something. We need to realize that while we truly want to have an unconditional love, it rarely happens in anybody's lifetime. The true meaning of love comes when we start to understand each individual differences. Love expands when we start to consider other people's feelings.
We have to learn to let go people in our lives to give chance for others to become part of us. The pain remains if we focus on what we have lost. Start to focus on what we will have to gain with the loss. rechannel your thoughts so that positive energy will lead you to another and more fulfilling love!
@prateek149 (590)
• India
7 May 10
hey friend!! Your are right man!! Love hurts...thats why i am *single*.. just take a look at my blog if you are single!!..happy my lotting
@deepak_o2xxh (158)
• India
7 May 10
thanks....maybe u rite.....no love no pain thats what i think.....
