insecure?

@jolope (987)
Philippines
June 10, 2010 8:40am CST
recently, ive been checking out how i look and feel about myself. so i thought, "am i lacking something?" my hair is ok. my eyes are ok. my nose is average. my weight is..uhhhm..im heavy. :P my feet dont smell. but sometimes i still do feel like i need more of something. i just cant figure it out just yet. any insecurities? how do you want to look like?
3 responses
carlynganda
@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
10 Jun 10
i've learned that nobody can make us feel inferior without our consent..but sometimes i still tend to be insecure..specially if i know that i'm talking to someone whom i know is better than me..i don't want them to look down on me in any way..i'm just an average looking person but i'm gaining a little weight right now so it's really affecting my confidence about myself..how i wish i could be thinner..
jolope
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
whoah carly..that's serious stuff.. not the gaining weight thing.. i guess its all about perspectives.. you must be good at something so i suggest that you think about that when you talk to someone whom you know is better than you in another aspect..that way, you'll be on the same level.. :) oha..algebra.. :P kidding.. im heavy as well..but dont think that your weight could stop you from being GREAT! :)
carlynganda
@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
yeah..it's all about perspective..i will always keep that in mind whenever insecurity is striking me again..
princess8881
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
13 Jul 10
well everybody has their own beauties:) its just that it differ how someone make it more noticeable..... Sometimes I feel insecure everytime I will see someone whose beautiful than me...lol I dont know why... Then I will try to copy her hair style coz that will make a big difference...lol and sometimes it work... but I also know when to just give up and put some confidence at myself that I am better too:)
jolope
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
having your own style is so much better than trying to be like someone else.. i think that giving up on copying someone shouldn't be called "giving up". its simply, you deciding to be better. :) thank you for your response princess8881 :)
juicekodai
@juicekodai (1121)
• Philippines
10 Jun 10
i used to have a lot of insecurities.. i wanted to have the perfect looks the perfect hair the perfect everything... i guess i just cant have it... so i might as well not think about it at all..
jolope
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
"might as well not think about it al all.." i love that statement..hehe